I like a good friend I ve known for a few years, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Since you ask so, it means that she doesn't have the right person yet, and this is an opportunity.

    We can analyze the results, if you confess, it will be good if you succeed; If you don't succeed, it may be difficult to become good friends in the future, but this is only a possibility.

    It is recommended that you ask someone else for her opinion, and if there is a clear answer, it is not too late to act, so that you can move forward and retreat freely.

    If I can't find someone to help, I'm more inclined to confess. People can't live a life just for face, being rejected is not a shameful thing, leaving regrets to yourself is the biggest failure in life.

    What you call hints, it is better to change them into actions. You can increase the frequency of contact and interaction with her to see how she reacts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is recommended that you first find out how he (she) is doing:

    If he or she is still single: Ask him or her to meet. Communicate feelings first, such as like-mindedness, can show the heart. (If that were the case, she would be very impressed.) )

    If he or she is married: It is recommended that you do not disturb him or her. Bless him or her deeply. (Otherwise, you'll be asking for trouble, asking for trouble!) )

    I hope it's the former, and I wish you all the best!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you really like it, confess what you're afraid of? Maybe your friends are waiting for you to speak, and you don't have the courage to do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If the other party doesn't have a boyfriend (girlfriend), then you should act quickly, you will regret it if it is late.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What should I do if <> I like my friend for many years? You have the right to like anyone, including your own friends, and at the same time, no one has the right to stop you from liking others from the bottom of your heart; If your friend already has a heart, then I advise you to bury your liking in your heart, although the law does not stipulate that you cannot express your liking, but it is morally and rationally intolerable; If your friend is single and you are single, then just express it boldly, even if you fail, it's nothing, life is short, don't grow old with regrets; It's too normal to like your friends in today's society, but you haven't confessed to each other or have found a better way to confess for the time being, or can't wait for the other party to confess? I just don't understand the other party's attitude towards me, and there may be some people who are not sure what the other party thinks about themselves;

    Shoot when it's time to shoot, it's not a big deal, there are a lot of women chasing men today, as the saying goes, men chase women across the wall, women chase men across the veil, maybe you try to hint at each other's actions to see if the other party's performance, you can also test it to see if the other party also cares about themselves, so it's easy for your idea to get a confirmation of the attack, you can find more time to ask each other to go for a walk, go shopping, go to the park, try some of the performance you want, young people now, your ideas are very weird, you should have a better idea. If the other party has no partner, why not let go of the courage to pursue your own happiness! What if the other party also means the same?

    If the two don't say no to each other, they miss a beautiful love! If you like it, go for it! ......Don't play any reserved, if you miss it, it's a matter of the next life, but first of all, you have to think about it, the conditions of the two of you, the conditions of the two families, this is to be considered comprehensively, if there is a certain gap, then you should dispel this idea!

    But it's up to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Dear hello I'm glad to answer for you, first of all, you have to think calmly, whether you like him in your heart, if you have a good impression of each other, then you can try to date, after all, you have known each other for many years, and the personalities and hobbies of the two people are understood, so you can give him a chance.

    What should I do, a friend who has known me for several years suddenly says he wants to date me.

    Dear hello I'm glad to answer for you, first of all, you have to think calmly, whether you like him in your heart, if you have a good impression of each other, then you can try to date, after all, the reputation has known each other for many years, and the personalities and hobbies of the two people are scattered and understood, and they can give him a chance to celebrate.

    When love comes, it is not controlled by us, you don't need Fu Zheng to be embarrassed, if you like him, you can talk to him face-to-face, I believe he will be sincere to you, after a few years of getting along with you, he has a good impression of you, and he doesn't want to give up this opportunity.

    Kiss, if you don't want to associate with him, then you have to make it clear decisively, don't hesitate, so that he will also be very painful, if the real lover can't do it, your friendship still exists, so now you have to judge according to your stupid heart and choice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. It's meaningful to really know each other's personality and like it after that, and it's not bad to have a stable relationship, so what are you worried about now? <>

    Six years of friends know each other very well, what should I do if I like him?

    It's really enough to understand each other's like, and it's meaningful to have a stable relationship with him, which is not bad, so what are you worried about? <>

    But our age gap is too big, you can ask a virtual brigade to ask him what he means, if two people have feelings for each other, age is not a real hindrance, there is an age gap, and you can also be very happy [little red flower].

    It's just that if you think of the early age difference as a problem in your heart, that's the problem, and this obstacle is set up by yourself, then you also need to face your own mentality. If you have enough confidence and courage to open your eyes, it is still worth trying. <>

    I don't have self-confidence, I don't have any certainty, my feelings lie in how I live, and I have never been close to age to be happy, things are man-made

    Yes, the problem now lies in one's own confidence, in fact, before anything happens, I already want to give up, so I won't know the answer to the Zen Servant. Sail <>

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then you should be brave and bravely confess to him, of course, the confession should be based on the fact that the other party is single, if the other party already has a girlfriend, then we don't want to break up the other party.

    1. If the other party is not single, then you should let go of your liking for the other party. First of all, judge whether the other party is single, if the person you like already has a girlfriend, then we should not break up the other party, we should not like each other.

    True liking should be fulfillment and abandonment, letting go of our own likes to fulfill him, and not disturbing his life is the best way for us to like him.

    2. Consider whether your feelings for the other person are delusions caused by habit or real liking. Consider whether your emotions are dependent on him or heartwarming, we have been with a person for a long time, and it is easy to understand dependence on each other as liking, so we must carefully consider our true emotions.

    Don't interpret your habits and dependencies as likes and likings.

    3. If the other party is single, then he should confess, and only by expressing his true thoughts can he not let himself have regrets. If we really like each other very much, and the other person is single, then let's be brave enough to confess to him.

    Let's not have any more doubts, we don't take the initiative to develop a story with him? We don't need to worry and entangle, we take the initiative to confess that there is still a 50% chance of success, and if we choose to remain silent, there will only be 99% failure.

    So we should be brave, take the first step bravely, and find out our true thoughts with him, so that the other party knows that we like it, the other party agrees and everyone is happy, and the other party's refusal is not a loss, we can stop liking in time, don't waste our likes on him, it's good that our crush ends here.

    So on the basis of not violating morality and law, be brave, girl, the crush is your one-man show after all, you will always feel lonely and lonely, so it is better to be brave and give it a try.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you like it, just follow itPeople say, not reallyMissedIt's veryIt's a pityFinish.

    1.Both sidesYesThat's moreEasy to get along with

    When two people stay together, both parties are familiar with each other, they get along very well, and they also know each other's preferences, and they will respect each other's preferences, so that two people get along more harmoniously. Only in this way is love very perfect, and it will make everyone yearn for it very much, after all, it is rare to be able to stay away for such a long time, which shows that both parties are very suitable for each other. It also proves that both parties have a liking, and there is just a lack of a person who takes the initiative to show love.

    2.In fact, six years tooVeryLongI don't like it earlyGo awayFinish.

    Being able to get to know each other and stay by your side must be interesting to you, otherwise they will always be by your side. Like this, you must seize the initiative, because people will also be afraid of scaring you away from the first action, so they will stay by your side and do not do anything, they want to accompany you well, if you have liked others, you must go to confess to others, otherwise it will be difficult to meet if you miss it, after all, people cannot accompany you for a lifetime, only your lover can be justifiably with you.

    3.If you like it, you want itInitiative

    Some people also say that if you confess, you may not even have to be friends, but if you don't confess, it will cause trouble to yourself, so why not take a step forward, at least you won't leave any regrets if you work hard, maybe people like themselves, and it can be a matter of course, isn't it perfect? Not everything in the world is absolute, there are relative things to speak of, and only by taking action will there be good results! The same is true for feelings, only by taking the first step will there be results, so it is also possible to harvest sweet love, isn't it?

    As long as there is action, it will be closer to success.

    It's not easy to meet someone who makes you tempting, we must not give up to get feelings, after all, meeting is fate! It is a godsend to be together, and I hope that everyone can meet their true love and spend their lives happily! It's a lot of fun!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This is very good, and it is a friend for six years, and the two parties can know each other very well, and the two of them are even more natural together, as long as this person also likes you, the two of you can be together smoothly, but if a person has no way to be with you for six years, then you have to face up to this relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think if both of you are single, if you like it, you should be brave enough to say it, and try to make him like you too, so that the relationship foundation is very deep, which is a good thing for both parties.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the face of this situation, you can directly identify with the other party, and you can also express your feelings and love to the other party, and then you can also communicate with the other party to understand the other party's feelings about you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you like each other, you should confess in time, don't let this relationship miss, and don't let yourself leave regrets.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you like him, you will be brave enough to say it and confess it directly to your friends, even if you fail, you will be fine.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Good friends who have known each other for a few years, make new friends, ignore your love, you don't have to care too much, let alone for a long time. Think carefully about why your friend is friends with you, it must be that he or she appreciates you or likes some of your strengths, etc., find out why he or she is friends with you, and then show it further.

    Also, take the initiative, don't always ignore you because the other party has a new friend, stay away from the other party, so that the relationship will be more "stiff". You can also find a suitable opportunity to talk to the other person, say what you think and what you want the other person to do, of course, this must be premised, you must be polite when you speak, not like a quarrel, that will definitely not work. I wish you success!

    Good friends who have known each other for a few years, make new friends, ignore your love, you don't have to care too much, let alone for a long time. Think carefully about why your friend is friends with you, it must be that he (she) admires you or likes some of the advantages of your companionship, etc., find out why he (she) is friends with you, and then show it further. Also, take the initiative, don't always ignore you because the other party has a new friend, stay away from the other party, so that the relationship will be more "stiff".

    You can also find a suitable opportunity to talk to the other person, say what you think and what you want the other person to do, when the loss is burned, this must have a premise, you must be polite when you speak, don't quarrel, that will definitely not work. I wish you success!

    Dear, are there any specific questions?

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