My sophomore year of high school encountered an incident, what would you think when you encountered

Maybe you're a little withdrawn, or maybe you're not very good at dealing with people.

When I was a sophomore in high school, I had a very strange personality, and the whole first and second middle school teenagers looked down on many people in the class, and they would also say in private how I was... But in fact, everyone is not bad, and they will not say anything vicious, at most it is an objective evaluation.

I don't understand why my best friend would believe those rumors, I should know you very well. Maybe it's your delusion, or maybe it's not the type of person you can easily get your friends to understand.

In fact, I think the best way to deal with it is to speak up if there is a problem. Take the previous friends who had a stiff fight, if you cherish their friendship, you should take the initiative to apologize after the conflict, and the two sides calmly discuss the conflict. There is nothing to solve, it's just about the method.

You can try to reconcile with your friends who used to be stiff, don't be unable to pull your face, you need to learn to tolerate.

If everyone thinks you are doing something, maybe you have something wrong with yourself. For example, the personality is withdrawn and so on... Just like me used to be in the second year of secondary school... Try to doubt yourself and correct yourself, and then gradually learn to believe in yourself in the process of doubting yourself. It sounds very abstract, you have to doubt yourself and believe in yourself.

I decided to change classes in my third year of high school, and I still had the same situation as before in my third year of high school, but I matured a little more in my third year of high school, so I also made some friends. Looking back now, I didn't want to be the real middle school at that time, but I didn't feel embarrassed, it was those who contributed to the past that contributed to today's self. So, the most important thing is to believe in yourself, it's important to be firm.

At the same time, you have to correct yourself.

You can only be yourself now, you don't care what others say about you, they won't stop now. After a while, a lot of things will go back to the way they were. Your change this time has made you see through a lot of people. Now you can only wait silently, you need to be strong and calm.

Having long-term, near-term goals, and clear goals, can motivate you to push in.

Recognize the benefits, do something reasonably, don't get too tired, don't think about immediate results, take your time.

The first is that you have to be confident, why do you think that other people's abilities are better than you, maybe you will also have people who are jealous, if possible, the boss thinks that you are better and have more potential, your current attitude is not to understand the boss's thoughts, try to understand? Or do you simply not want to go? The former, right?

I don't think there's anything to worry about at work, if you work well, if you have a good salary, go back, if it's not good, you will leave, if she is interesting to you, don't be afraid, you are a man, what are you afraid of. Girls are not afraid, clean and self-conscious, the boss is a woman can not be thin and thin you, improvised, do not be surprised, should be a mature and atmospheric man has the characteristics, good luck.

Oh This is all trivial things in life, there is no need to worry about this kind of thing, she called you ** to let you go back may not be because you are very talented, the reason may not be so simple, you have to ask her in person, as for you continue to guess in her heart, it may only add unnecessary trouble to you, you must have the courage to pick up**, dare to ask, will solve the problem fundamentally, otherwise it will continue, there will be more unnecessary troubles and mistakes. Good luck!

Either you do have the ability to get the approval of your manager and don't want to be talented, or she is in love with you.

You're in the second semester of high school, copy

But even "he" and "she" can't be used normally.

Can you be any worse?

Put your mind to homework.

As for friends, it has nothing to do with the number of years.

You think you're lowering your dignity to save because you value the relationship, but others don't.

Your so-called lower dignity to save.

It's just going to make someone who doesn't want to see you see it a few more times.

That's why the other party will think that you are inkblot (I, an outsider, look at your description and think you are quite annoying).

It's been made very clear, you're still babbling there.

It's really offensive.

So, you have to learn to be fun.

What does that mean?

It's when a person is disgusted with you.

Don't hang around in front of people's eyes.

To explain this kind of thing, once is enough.

Don't go on and on, over and over again.

That would only be counterproductive.

Yes, Klssen is right, anyway, now the estrangement already exists, and a true friend can withstand any test, which means that he will not be a good friend, he is not destined to be a person who can make friends with you, and you have given your heart away, it is not worth it!

I think I should tell you a few words.

Finish. As a friend, even a friend for several years, you treat him as unique.

Then you should think about it, since you think you are so good with him, do you know why you bought a mobile phone, and he would be angry?

Do you know why he said you were dealing with him?

Do you know what the other person wants?

Let me put it this way, you think you have a good relationship with the other person, but you have never known the other person, and even when you have hurt the other person, you don't know it.

You can't be considered a qualified friend.

Sometimes, whether it is good for others or not, it is not to see how much you pay, but to see whether your own contribution is really what the other party really needs.

Really don't ask him directly where he offended him If you want to continue to be friends, you can make it clear This situation is estimated to be useless But it's better to explain it clearly This will not delay your own learning Save yourself from affecting your mood!

First of all, he or she figured it out, I don't even know if you're a man or a woman, and I don't know if that friend of yours is a man or a woman.

Some things, it will be good for a long time, and it will be good to contact them in a few years, and they will be more mature.

This kind of person doesn't pay attention to him, you take the time to get to know someone, and you don't suffer.

In the future, if you still want this friend, try to ease the relationship, if you don't want it, you don't have this friend! ~

Learning is your own, don't put too much emphasis on what others think. Study hard and don't be influenced by your tablemates. Talk to people you trust, otherwise your grades won't improve.

Maybe you just don't know him, learning isn't all there is to life, you need to deal with different people, you need to adapt to the environment, not the environment adapts to you.

Will it have changed the mobile phone number Or have no feelings for you Maybe people are busy all day Sometimes it's like this People who think it's pretty good suddenly disappear in their lives Don't even say hello and leave He may just be a good passerby in your life Look down on you.

Don't worry too much about some things, live yourself, learn to deal with everything alone, and of course it's good to have friends to share with you.

1 Maybe the other party is busy, contact you in a few days.

2. The other party may use silence to show refusal.

People don't want to contact you anymore, so why bother to disturb other people's lives.

I came from a medical background, and I spent more than a month alone in the laboratory building where more than 500 corpses were stored, hehe, if there is a problem, I don't think I have much chance to type here, you think too much, it is recommended to go out and exercise if you have nothing to do, don't think nonsense, people are scared of themselves.

It's weird, it's not someone who did it on purpose, it's just.