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I am confident, because I am afraid of setbacks, I believe that setbacks are a stepping stone, stepping on it, I will eventually climb to the top, but welcome the dawn of hope!
In my opinion, a smooth sailing life is empty and boring, only difficulties and reason can live a wonderful life, so all the time I am full of self-confidence, for life, for learning, I am always optimistic to face, let's say five years ago, once I went out with a friend, talking and laughing and came to the woods in the countryside, he said that he was very familiar here, I didn't think much about following him in, this is a tea grove, dense branches like a big umbrella, covering us, Faintly looking at the sky, we sucked the sweet air and listened to the chirping of the birds, not to mention how fun! Suddenly, a bird, or rather a pheasant, with colorful feathers, ran in front of my eyes, beautiful. My friend also said that he saw it, took my hand and went to chase it, and after chasing it, he finally couldn't breathe, so he stopped, but when he looked up, he said, "Where is this?"
I asked him, and he looked around and said, "I don't know either!" We looked for our way home, but after looking for a long time, we had no clue, and he couldn't help crying and clamoring to go home.
And I, on the other hand, have an inexplicable happiness, and the difficulties are coming, which feels so good! I turned around and saw a tall tree on my left, so I climbed up and looked at it, and then led him out of the woods, and his tears dried up, yes, I was so confident in the face of difficulties! This is also well confirmed in terms of learning.
My grades have been very good since elementary school, always at the top, but once in the midterm exam, I unexpectedly dropped a big cut, at first, I couldn't believe it was my grade, but the bright red score on the test paper told me that it was true, my eyes suddenly blurred, half a semester of hard work, but in exchange for disappointment. Just as I was stepping into the negative world, a voice in my heart told me, "Be strong!"
Have faith! Will definitely be better next time! I hurriedly wiped away my tears, looked at the test paper, and made up my mind:
The final exam must be a beautiful turnaround!
So I became confident again, and through unremitting efforts, I was willing to achieve excellent results in the final exam, and I smiled confidently!
I'm confident because I'm not afraid of setbacks! When setbacks come, I will use confidence and reason to resolve them one by one, self-confidence makes me so outstanding, self-confidence makes me so bright, I believe that one day, I will climb the peak of life and meet the dawn of hope.
Friend, are you as confident as I am? If you don't have it, then quickly adjust your mentality and go on the road with a confident bag on your back! Don't take my advice for jokes!
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Success requires setbacks.
What is frustration?
Failure said: Setbacks are a mountain that can never be climbed on the road to growth, because after climbing a mountain, there will be another mountain ahead.
Cowardice said: Frustration is a thorny ground on the road to growth, which will pierce people all over the body.
Frustration says: Frustration is the vertigo after being knocked down, which makes people lose confidence and lose the direction of progress.
Standing on the tail of childhood, looking at the unknown road ahead, I was scared.
At this time, Dante came up to me and said, "Go your own way, let others say go." No matter how many setbacks others say on the road to growth, you have to be brave to go on, only setbacks will make you grow. ”
Zhang Haidi, who had a high-level amputee, said to me: "Even if setbacks make you fall down a hundred times, you have to stand up one hundred and one times, and only setbacks can make you strong." ”
Beethoven, who was deaf in both ears, said: "Hold fate by the throat in the face of setbacks, which will make you confident." ”
Xu Teli said: "It is a myth to want to grow up without experiencing any setbacks. Frustration is a necessity in the process of growing up. ”
Standing on the boulevard of youth, looking at the road ahead, I seem to have a little confidence.
At this time, I seemed to see Hawking, who was suffering from multiple diseases all over his body, tapping on the keyboard with the only two fingers that could move, making academic reports, and in the face of setbacks, he chose to be strong; I seemed to see the blind and deaf Helen Keller working hard to learn the language, and in the face of setbacks, she chose to persevere; I seemed to see Sun Bin who had his kneecaps cut off again, sitting on a chariot and directing the battle, and in the face of setbacks, he chose to endure humiliation; I seem to see the poor Hong Zhanhui running around with his little sister, and in the face of setbacks, he chose to struggle; I also seem to see Zhang Haidi, Beethoven ......
The reason why great people can become great people is because they often experience setbacks that ordinary people have not experienced, and if they overcome it, they will have more outstanding achievements than ordinary people. The flowers in the greenhouse can never withstand the snowstorm in the wild, and only the tall pines and cypresses can be evergreen all year round. Standing at the crossroads of youth, I thought about it and chose the most difficult path.
Strong said: setbacks are mountains, and if you turn over him, you can see the sea of success.
Bravely say: setbacks are thorns, take out the courage to split it, and a broader avenue will appear in front of you.
Victory said: Setbacks are reefs in the sea, and if you don't meet him, you will never be able to stir up the waves of success.
Growth requires setbacks!
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Sometimes, when you see setbacks as the path you must take, you go in your own direction bravely, even if sometimes you are hard-headed, and when you reach your goal, you will get a good harvest and joy! Then, you can confidently take the next step in life!
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In the face of difficulties or setbacks, to face them with optimism is to teach us something.
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If you haven't fallen in love or been defeated, you don't know what a setback is.
If you have setbacks, think about whether you are really not afraid of setbacks.
Write about one thing, preferably one that you have personally experienced.
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Everyone has setbacks growing up, everyone is no exception, and I will have setbacks too.
Once I was in school, the teacher asked us to pass the ancient poems (recitation) Our procedure is like this: first to the group leader to memorize and then to the teacher, slowly guess I first read about five times, I can't wait to give the group leader to recite, but rushed several times is the punch type can not be memorized, I got off the podium again and again, has almost lost confidence, then the same table came, said what the teacher leader picked for him, and encouraged me, and then I read and read it and looked like I memorized it again, but this time I still did not pass, I was even more desperate, thinking that it was not just to copy twice, the same table said that ten ancient poems to copy for a long time, I said that I had a fast hand, but he still encouraged me to go up, the second time I memorized it was successful, I was very happy to think that I had a lot of motivation, so I gave the teacher to memorize the first lesson, I failed again and again, the teacher saw that I couldn't memorize it and immediately lined up in line, as if I felt extremely gratified, almost the fourth time, which trillion teacher seemed to be moved by my efforts, Pick me a very simple ancient poem, I passed it all at once, and I am very happy that I have finally passed it after continuous efforts.
This tells us: don't be afraid of setbacks, face them bravely, and you will always succeed.
Some ancient poems (a total of ten annotations must also be memorized).
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Here are some suggestions when faced with setbacks:
Accept emotions: Allow yourself to feel the emotions that come with setbacks, such as disappointment, anger, or frustration. Don't suppress or deny these emotions, but try to understand and embrace their existence.
Maintain a positive mindset: See setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning, not as signs of failure. Shift your focus to problem-solving and finding ways to improve, cultivating a positive mindset.
Set goals and plans: Revisit goals and create new plans, consider how to deal with setbacks and move on. Make sure your goals are specific and achievable, and break them down into small steps to achieve them step by step.
Seek support: Share your frustrations and confusion with friends, family, mentors or counselors. They can provide support, encouragement, and advice to help you face setbacks and find solutions.
Learn to self-regulate: Develop effective coping mechanisms, such as deep breathing, meditation, exercise, or journaling. These methods can help you calm your emotions, relieve stress, and enhance your inner peace and resilience.
Find inspiration and role models: Read the stories of successful people to find inspiration and inspiration. Learn how they coped in the face of setbacks and draw strength and wisdom from them.
Keep learning and growing: See setbacks as opportunities to learn and grow, and learn from them. Review your own actions and decisions, and think about how you can improve and respond to similar situations.
Above all, firmly believe that setbacks are an inevitable part of life, that they are opportunities for growth and progress. By maintaining a positive mindset, seeking support, and continuing to work hard, you will be able to gradually overcome setbacks and move towards a successful and satisfying life.
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Be strong and move forward bravely.
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Facing setbacks. A person's life is like a sailboat sailing in the sea, no matter how calm the sea is, there will always be ups and downs, and there will always be blows from wind and waves.
In the face of inevitable setbacks in life, choose to rise to the occasion or choose to retreat?
Take a step back, passively immerse yourself in the suffering caused by setbacks, you may be overwhelmed by the wind and waves, and be brave, actively face the difficulties, fight against the difficulties, maybe after the wind and waves will be infinitely beautiful sky.
On his cane, Balzac wrote: "I can overcome all setbacks." Perhaps it was this resolute character that made Balzac a world-famous great writer; Perhaps it is this strong belief that has enabled his works to go down in history forever.
Setbacks are not scary, what matters is what kind of attitude you face them.
Sisyphus is considered the most unfortunate man in the world, he does hard work every day that he can never finish. And when people saw him, he didn't look miserable as the legend says, but caught a butterfly and played happily.
God gave him the greatest setback in the world, but it did not deprive him of his right to be positive and optimistic. In the face of setbacks in life, he can still have a smiling and calm state of mind.
In the face of great misfortune, Cao Xueqin devoted herself to "Dream of Red Mansions" and wrote this immortal classic; In the face of great difficulties, Zhang Haidi learned many languages in Yanzhou with amazing perseverance and made indelible contributions to the society; In the face of great setbacks, Ostrovsky groped with his hands and completed his great work "How Steel is Made".
In the face of setbacks, they chose bravery, perseverance, and success.
Setbacks are not a reason for failure, only the ship that still moves forward bravely in the strong wind and waves can reach the other side of success.
I think this sentence is very apt in the face of frustration: frustration is like a paper tiger, if you are far away, he will be close, and if you are close, he will be far away!
That's a life-saving lesson.
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