When you go on a blind date, how do you identify a blind date scumbag?

I believe that in our daily life, or among the people around us, many people still haven't fallen in love or married at a certain age. Parents or elders around you will arrange blind dates for you and arrange blind dates. Every time you are in your 20s and about to reach your 30s, you haven't gotten married, and your parents and elders at this time are even more anxious than yourself, and they don't stop arranging blind dates for themselves.

Although it is said that in the process of blind dates, many blind dates are introduced to each other by their elders and friends, but it is inevitable that there will be those scumbags. Not only the elders, but also the men who introduce each other to each other by friends will be good men. Of course, when many netizens are on a blind date, they will also meet the blind dates of those strange scumbags.

So in our blind date process, how can we better identify the scumbags who are like blind dates?

The reason for the blind date is that first of all, we should understand why a boy came on a blind date. Because after all, if you haven't gotten married at a certain age, you have some reasons for it. Some guys may forget to fall in love because they are so busy with work that they have been in a relationship.

Wait until your career is successful before you choose to fall in love, and then finally arrange a blind date with the help of your parents. But some men can't find a partner at all because they are very scum and have a bad reputation, so they can only arrange blind dates through their parents and elders.

Be observantTherefore, when we are in the process of blind date, we should keep our eyes open and observe whether our blind date partner is a scumbag or not. Because this kind of scumbag usually has experienced many blind dates, and the other party is not satisfied. We can ask him out and observe him through small things during meals or walks.

If you find that the other party's behavior, or words and deeds, reveal that something is wrong. Don't meet him next time, and show your parents that he's a scumbag.

There must be a problem with bragging about the flatbread, the mouth is full of flowers, there is no truth, you don't want to be hungry when you eat, you order and eat desperately and don't pay in the end, you can't stop calling the baby or something, and there are problems with your hands and feet.

It mainly depends on the topic of his chat, whether the three views are correct, for example, talking about some people and things that are married and divorced, and asking him his opinion on this matter. Secondly, look at his family background and ask him something about his feelings.

You can see how many times he has been in love, what his outlook on love and marriage is, whether he will please girls, and judge whether he is a scumbag.

Blind date scumbags tend to talk sweetly, and they are clever enough to praise you all the time, exaggerate the facts, and boast about themselves. Learn to discern for yourself.

It can be seen from his words and deeds that scumbags are generally more likely to flirt with girls and have rich experience.

You can judge from the way you chat, and you should also pay attention to the boy's behavior and movements, and also pay attention to some of the boy's micro-expressions, so that you can make a correct judgment.

It's very simple to distinguish such a boy, if you just talk about it but don't do it, then most of such boys are unreliable, and you must not be able to associate with him often.

In fact, we can go out together or eat together, and in the process of chatting and playing, we can better understand what this person is like.

I think that since scumbags are scumbags, then they must be the kind of men who are particularly good at pretending and acting. So you can't see it when you go on a blind date.

I think it's like a blind date.,The characteristics of a scumbag are a blind date with multiple girls at one time and chatting with multiple girls.,And the girls are all familiar.。

See more, spend more, chat more, and judge from the details. From personal experience, when I frequently mention my ex-girlfriend, I always advertise myself as a kind and soft-hearted person, in short, I love to flaunt myself, this kind of person has to be careful, he wants to make you believe that he is a person he described, so that you can relax your vigilance, and you don't know what it is like behind your back.

These characteristics are to ask the woman's height, weight, age, directly ask the other party's occupation, ask the other party whether they have a car and a house, ask the other party's job, ask the other party's family conditions and how many children they will have in the future.

Talk about a lot of girlfriends, and each girlfriend talks for a very short time, and makes some new girls, and then treats girls very well, and then they are very cold in the later stage.

It's going to change girlfriends often.,The frequency is particularly high.,And I also like to make new girls.,But it's not particularly good for girlfriends.,And often go to chat with her.。

Very irresponsible, want to do it once and for all, want to find a mother, want to reduce costs, and is also very selfish.

Blind date scumbag, and then he speaks very ambiguously, and then he always likes to talk about himself or something, especially good.

I think that if you want to identify scumbags after going up, the first thing is to look at their behavior and attitude, they will be excessively gentle and considerate, appropriate weakness, create romance, and their whereabouts are erratic, once this happens, it means that they are real scumbags.

I think the best way to identify a scumbag is to see how he acts, don't listen to what he says, if a person pays special attention to your work ability and economic income when going on a blind date, and also asks you how many times you have been in love, and shares his previous love experience with you when talking, it shows that this man must be more attentive, he is not serious about feelings at all, and must not communicate with him again.

Look at the other party's attitude towards you, see if the other party is willing to spend money for you, see if the other party will pay attention to you, see if the other party is detailed, and see if the other party will prepare gifts for you.

<> "Teach you how to identify scumbags in blind date love!"

1. It's good for every girl.

One of the important traits of a scumbag is that he likes to cast his net all over the sky, so if you find that he is nice to every woman, then be wary!

2. Words and deeds are inconsistent.

There are a lot of sweet words on his mouth, but there is not a trace of actual action, he is a person who often draws big cakes.

3. Lose contact and be indifferent at every turn.

He must have a new prey, which is why he will disappear for a while, and when he fails or gets tired of talking, he will come back to you.

4. Spend girls' money with peace of mind.

If he not only spends your money but also reaches out to you to ask for money, then you must not continue to make Duan Yinpants stupid to spend money for this kind of man, because even if he is not here for your money, he must not be worth entrusting!

5, ambiguous but never expressed himself.

A man always takes the initiative to be ambiguous with you but has not seen him confess for a long time, so you have to make a break with him in time, and you may not know how many people you are ambiguous with!

6. Selfish, don't care about your feelings.

He must not love you and only treat you as a fish in his pond, so he will not be at ease with your feelings at all.

Because of work, it's not easy for us to find a boyfriend in this circle, but it's more anxious at home, and then we go on a blind date, the first object I meet, looks average, and I love to be clean, and I don't have bad habits, and then I got along for a while, because of the distance, we met less time, and there were not many opportunities to understand, almost 1 month to see 2-3 times;

Slowly, he would also give me gifts, and I began to develop a little bit of a crush on him.

But I found that sometimes through our chat, I found that he was not very reliable, such as the leader arranged things were not completed, he felt that it was not his responsibility, but the responsibility of the leader, I felt that this person was not very responsible, and gradually found that he could not keep up with my chat content, and then I found that the three views were not very consistent, and then gradually chatted less.

And maybe the reason for his work during that time was that he didn't look for me or ignore me for a long time, so I said to him: We are not suitable, Zhenghui forget it!

I don't know, I was shocked, because of customs: we need to return the money they gave to our family, you said that the lifter promised the money, we will definitely return it, but he actually made a list for me:

The money to buy gifts is only two goods in total, a bottle of perfume and a pair of shoes; Forget it, and the money we go out to eat also have to find me to report, and more seriously, the taxi fare and ticket fees are calculated one by one, I am really happy and half angry, because I am on a business trip in the field, and I can't reprimand him in person, my brother said: "I don't care about this bit of scum money, you still talk about it, it's really unprincipled and stomachy." "But the other party insisted on giving, and my family said that more is better than less, and it is difficult to pull it, so I settled the money!

Now that I think about it, my back is cold, it's really unladylike! Ugly people are a lot of monsters.

After watching too much TV, I suddenly found that the scumbag on TV was actually by my side!

If I find myself being chosen by the other party during the blind date, I will have the following reactions:

1.Try to be rational and calm. It's undoubtedly traumatic to suddenly find yourself chosen, but losing control of your emotions will only put you in a more passive position. Being rational allows me to look at the whole situation more clearly and make the right judgment.

2.Ask for a clear explanation. I would be frank about my findings and ask him to give an honest explanation.

Only by figuring out the ins and outs can I decide whether to continue the blind date or terminate it. If the explanation is not satisfactory, I will opt out.

3.Doesn't easily forgive the other person's behavior. Choosing one or the other is emotionally blasphemous and exploitative, and I won't forgive the other person easily. If we continue to develop, I will take a wait-and-see attitude in future interactions, confirm whether the other party is sincere, and then gradually rebuild trust.

4.It is possible to opt out of blind dates. If the other party's explanation and attitude make me feel unacceptable, or I find that there are too many differences between us in values and personalities, I will choose to terminate the blind date to avoid future harm and entanglement.

5.It is also possible to choose to give the other person a chance. No one is perfect, and feelings also need to be tested.

If I feel that there is merit in the other person, and it may have been an accidental mistake, I will consider giving the other person a chance to see if they truly repent and value me. But I'm going to be very cautious, and if the same situation happens again, I'll end it decisively.

In any case, being chosen-or-one is not an easy thing to bear. But as long as we know how to examine the situation, judge rationally, stipulate the conditions, and learn to forgive and let go, this can be an opportunity to identify feelings and let us find the right person for ourselves.