I m getting more and more hesitant and indecisive now, how can I change myself?

First of all, ask yourself, which one do you really like? In fact, no matter how much you think about it, when you do it, it's a matter of a moment.

When you hesitate to do it again, say to yourself, instead of thinking about it, do it ...

Test yourself from a small thing, such as wearing that coat today, don't think about it, just go out and get one, anyway, it has the function of keeping out the cold, why think so much? After one success, the hesitation will be much less... In fact, the mental effect will also invisibly increase one's indecision.

I will tell myself in my heart that I am a hesitant person, and then I will tell myself when I do things, so that over time I will become such a person. So, psychological hints, tell yourself that I am a decisive and resolute person, and I am a person who can weigh the pros and cons and make judgments quickly.

If you can be promoted and reused, prove your ability to work, treat people and attitudes, better than others, popular, be able to take charge of yourself, be competent for the tasks assigned by superiors, leaders are happy and convinced of you, and you can rest assured that you can deal with more complex and difficult things in the future, get greater challenges and test opportunities, and obtain greater achievements, so you are not afraid of hardship, dare to temper, guard against arrogance and rashness, insist on learning, improve and enhance competitive strength, and flexibly adjust your mentality, The way of thinking and the skills of dealing with people are very important, the opportunity is left to those who are prepared, and life must be upright and honest, in order to gather like-minded mentors and friends, help each other, and achieve more with half the effort.

Thinking too much is not a disadvantage either.

Hesitation is a common feeling, but if too frequent it can affect an individual's efficiency and decision-making ability. Here are a few things you can try:

1.Get used to making decisions: Give yourself some time limits and self-restraint to force yourself to make decisions within the time frame.

2.Make a list of strengths and weaknesses: Gather as much information as possible and sort out the strengths and weaknesses of the project so that you can make a full assessment of the situation.

3.Don't overthink the consequences: Try not to worry too much about failures or mistakes and trust that you can adapt and learn from your mistakes.

4.Trust your intuition: Trust your first impressions and don't doubt your intuition.

5.Ask for help: If you still feel undecided, don't shout or seek advice and help from others for more comprehensive information and advice.

To break the habit of hesitation, we need to insist on self-training, keep trying and exploring, and improve one's decision-making ability and self-awareness.

01 I don't want it to be a matter of will, it has a lot to do with people's inertia. In this case, you might as well start with what you like, do it first, complete one thing, and then find one thing you like. Therefore, it is easy to start by picking out the things you like to do from a bunch of things, and it will be easier to get through the central situation of the course.

In the end, there are one or two things that I don't like, and the psychological burden will not be too heavy, and it will be much easier to do.

02When you don't want to do things but can't do them, don't hesitate to learn and do them at the same time. A lot of things are "paper tigers", they look scary, they are easy to do, they will be broken when they are poked, and they will be done as soon as they are done. So, do it first, don't just learn, do it as soon as you learn.

03 When you don't know which of the two things to do first, such as whether to eat grapes or strawberries first? Write your English homework or math homework first? Do you wear yellow or white?

Instantly take advantage of the quick selection method, whether you can toss a coin or draw lots, and make a decision with a simple and quick slide. So, simple selective problems are solved in the fastest way.

04 Uncertainty is the uncertainty of the future result, mainly because of the fear of failure and the fear of bearing the loss.

Don't dare to make a quick decision, there are two problems:

Mentality: Because of the fear of making a mistake, as long as a worried thought comes to mind, the speed of making decisions will be affected.

When you are faced with a goal, if you are worried that you will not achieve it, you will feel afraid, so you will not dare to make a quick decision, and then the more you worry, the more you are afraid, the more you are afraid that you will make a mistake in pretending to be.

Skills problems: Because the knowledge is not enough to support quick decision-making, they are hesitant to deal with the problems that need to be addressed.

When you actively try to solve a problem, the longer the time drags on, the easier it is to form a wheel of procrastination, and when the problems that need to be dealt with accumulate to a certain extent, you will feel pressure, and then you will start to be afraid of making decisions because you know that you are easy to regret and your outlook on life and values are fragile. When I have to make a decision, don't hesitate

The first is what we should pay the most attention to, that is, we must establish self-confidence, once a person has confidence, then he will become optimistic, cheerful and brave, self-confidence should be the first step.

When we do something, don't be too "decisive", that is called recklessness. We have to learn to analyze things and then weigh whether they are good or bad, the pros and cons of this thing, so that we can make a decision to do it or not.

We also have to be bold and careful, and boldness means not being afraid of difficulties and being brave; Careful is to think carefully about good things, and even all the problems that will be involved when doing things, as the saying goes: success lies in the details, persistence!

In addition, we also know how to make trade-offs, "you can't have both" This sentence we have heard for a long time, when we weigh things, we also know the part we have to choose, so that we can do a good job, of course, we can also do our best to be perfect!!

One more friend, one more way, one more person, one more thought, a variety of ways", friends are the most basic component of our social networking, when some facts can not be determined, it must be a good way to ask more friends, and finally we have taken into account many aspects of the situation, then you can do things, decide it! Go for it! Constantly improve yourself, grow yourself, and finally realize your own value! I wish you success!!

A lot of people have it, and so do I now, so it's best to calm down before doing things and then find someone to refer to.

Summary. In fact, we all make this problem, and we only need to adjust it a little bit to get better.

Sometimes it's easy to make a decision because the pros and cons are more obvious and it's easy to choose. But dwelling on a lot of trivial things will really waste too much unnecessary time and energy: 1. Clarify the matter or decide the ultimate goal you want to achieve, and see if this choice can be achieved; 2. See how much this decision or entanglement affects the final result, is it 20% or 3%? distinguish whether it is a major contradiction or a secondary contradiction; 3. The main contradictions, analyze the pros and cons and adjust the direction carefully.

Secondary contradictions, change or not, change or not, change has little impact on the whole, then make a decision immediately, because this decision will not affect you too much to achieve the final result, don't get entangled, don't waste time. 4.Keep yourself busy, when you are so busy that you don't have any extra time to waste and struggle, your decision-making power will naturally improve.

What should I do if I'm always hesitant to do things? Sometimes I decide and regret it.

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In fact, we all make this problem, and we only need to adjust it a little bit to get better.

Sometimes it's easy to make a decision because the pros and cons are more obvious and it's easy to choose. But dwelling on a lot of trivial things will really waste too much unnecessary time and energy: 1. Clarify the matter or decide the ultimate goal you want to achieve, and see if this choice can be achieved; 2. See how much this decision or entanglement affects the final result, is it 20% or 3%? distinguish whether it is a major contradiction or a secondary contradiction; 3. The main contradictions, analyze the pros and cons and adjust the direction carefully.

Secondary contradictions, change or not, change or not, change has little impact on the whole, then make a decision immediately, because this decision will not affect you too much to achieve the final result, don't get entangled, don't waste time. 4.Keep yourself busy, when you are so busy that you don't have any extra time to waste and struggle, your decision-making power will naturally improve.