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In modern society, everyone's minds are relatively open, and there is no clear boundary, indicating that everyone will have their own new home, so such boundaries are not clear, of course, no matter which choice it is, it is their own choice, so it doesn't matter if they are smart or stupid.
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There is nothing smart, not smart, not stupid. A truly capable person will not be in trouble. If you have watched too many film and television dramas, then I advise you to be realistic, sometimes people are rich in sentences, and so are others. Traveling through the past, forced to be helpless. People also have an aura background.
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First of all, you don't have to live with the woman's parents, secondly, the people who need to have a son-in-law generally have a business or a career at home, and the man can take care of the woman's business together after entering the family, and moreover, the child's food, clothing and education will be funded by the woman's family, and some of the man's family conditions are not good, the woman's family will buy a car and a house for the man's parents, in addition to the need for the woman's urban life in the woman's home and the child's need to follow the woman's surname, There are no excessive requirements, this is simply a good way to get rich overnight, and besides, whose surname the child has is not half of the family's bloodline. Besides, marrying a daughter-in-law, buying a car, buying a house, and a bride price, and having to raise children and take care of the elderly on both sides after marriage, the benefits are immediate.
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In principle, judging whether you are smart by your income seems to be a bit too one-sided, and a really good man probably doesn't need to consider whether to save economic expenses by making money.
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There is no such thing as being smart or stupid. Everyone has the freedom to choose their own marriage and lifestyle, and it is meaningless for others to comment.
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It can't be generalized, but the boys who can get rich have a certain amount of intelligence and can adapt to various situations.
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This is not a problem that can be generalized, and there are so many bride prices for marriage in many places, which is really the kind of smart and high-IQ person, and the small hundreds of thousands are not in the eyes. If there are tens of millions of dollars, then you can see how you choose.
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Why do smart boys get into the bag, and stupid boys marry this saying? No, after all, there are a few people who go to the red, and there are still a lot of them, how can you say that?
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Boys who are rich can struggle for twenty or thirty years less.
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What you say is not in line with our national conditions!
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I think the vast majority of men nowadays don't like to be rich. Because the men who are rich are basically in poor family conditions, it is not easy to find a daughter-in-law, and they have to look at the face of the mother-in-law to live, some individual mothers-in-law are sour and mean, and the life of the son-in-law is not good!
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It depends on the situation, not all men like to be rich, but it depends on the situation of the man's family, if the economic conditions of the family are not good, there are more brothers and sisters, you can consider getting rich, so it depends on the individual's own conditions.
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Most of today's men don't like to be rich. Because those who can accept the marriage are generally not in good condition and cannot marry a wife. No one likes to get into trouble, after all, this is still quite face-hurting under the national conditions.
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In fact, I think men's self-esteem is very strong, they don't like to be rich, they are afraid that this kind of life will make them feel that they don't have their own independent personality, so in the absence of a situation, no way, they may choose the way to get rich. So no matter what, as long as he can accept it.
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In fact, men nowadays don't like to be rich anymore, but some family conditions are relatively poor or they are afraid that they will not be able to marry a wife.
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Do all men like to be rich now, so I don't think that's the case, do all men like to be rich now? Then I don't think that's the case. Men in general are capable. I don't like to get into it.
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In fact, this is definitely not necessarily, if a man can finally enter the woman's family, I think first of all, according to the two families, if the woman's family conditions require the man to be sincere, then the man will go to the woman's family.
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Not necessarily! It's just that this concept has changed now, it's just a matter of the child's surname, and many people have two children with a surname each, so the concept of getting rich is even lower.
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It can't be said that men nowadays like to go to the woman's house, after all, they feel that men have no status and are not low-spirited, so men don't like to go to the father-in-law's house to live and travel.
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Do men like to be rich nowadays, I don't think men like to be rich nowadays, but I think the current families are all only children, and I don't think there is any difference in getting rich.
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The vast majority don't like it, except for genuinely loving each other.
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Most men don't like to be sons-in-law, but the reality of more men and fewer women forces them to bow their heads.
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It is impossible if the conditions of the family are good, who likes to get rich. Because it's not easy to go to someone else's house. That kind of day, that kind of constraint, it feels very sad.
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Do all men nowadays like to be rich? This is not absolute, some people just don't allow it. into the redundancy.
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Nowadays, men also like to be rich. Life is forced. It's not like it.
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Says who? Where do you see that men nowadays like to get rich? I haven't heard that men nowadays like to get rich, unless there is no one in the man's house, and he thinks it doesn't matter if he gets rich.
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Now homosexuality is as normal and natural as vaccination, and technology can solve the problem, just like the clergy said that wearing masks and getting vaccinated are against nature, but there will also be many people who will be vaccinated, and homosexuals can also try to wait for the light.
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Love is complementary, and a smart boy is more inclined to a stupid girl, because a stupid girl can make a boy's self-esteem, self-confidence infinitely inflated, and boys infinitely pity.
Being stupid makes boys have an urge to protect, and they will protect and take care of girls more carefully.
Stupid girls have a kind of honest cuteness.
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Now there are very few stupid girls, and girls can't be said to be stupid, they can only be said to be simple.
In today's society, there are not many simple girls.
Stupid girls are stunners in the eyes of boys! ^^
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Look at personal preferences.,Stupid girls are good.,It's very simple.。
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Tell you that I like the stupid one the most. If you're too smart, you're probably hopeless.
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Because the traditional thinking is to marry a daughter-in-law, as the name suggests, marrying a daughter-in-law is to marry a person, but it is different, the marriage is from the man to the woman, not the so-called marriage, it is equivalent to marrying the woman, and the man will feel uncomfortable, so most of the men do not accept it, and the general man's family will not accept it, because the marriage is equivalent to the other way around, the marriage is not only to live in the woman's house, but also to give birth to a child with the mother's surname, for the woman's family to pass on the lineage, the man's household registration moved to the woman's house, The life of the woman's family is the mainstay, and the Spring Festival and Qingming Festival give priority to taking care of the woman's family.
But now it's not an uncommon thing to get into the red, some men don't care about this matter, the men who are in the big box generally don't have machismo thoughts, the personality is forbearing, gentle, soft, and the traditional values of the family are not so insistent, which will give people a feeling that they are not like traditional men. However, the times are developing, the definition of man is also changing, and it is developing towards diversification, and families in which women are strong and men are weak, women outside the male dominance, and women and men marrying will become more and more common and more and more accepted by the public.
With the progress of the times, there may have been a redundancy in the past, but with the development of the economy, this concept will gradually fade. Maybe some women, for the sake of face, will go around publicizing. If a man really chooses to get rich, first, his self-esteem is estimated to be not so strong, secondly, either he really has nothing at home, and he needs a lot of money, so he can only barely get rich, and third, or he has true love for the woman, it doesn't matter if he is rich, as long as the woman is happy, there is nothing to say.
But there are also a lot of women who are very strong and then the man is rich, I have really encountered the kind of sister who is in one of my relatives' house because of the man's family economic reasons, and they quarrel every day, and they are very unhappy, and many relatives think it is the fault of this brother, but I think they are also quite excessive, and they feel more sorry for this brother. And we really have a lot of boys there who are in other people's homes because of economic conditions, which is the kind of helplessness that many people can't imagine.
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Because I feel that my dignity is insulted and I have no face. In fact, with the continuous development and progress of society, people can face the matter of being a door-to-door son-in-law with a tolerant attitude. As long as the man and woman can truly love each other and live happily as a family, it doesn't matter what kind of marriage form and living status they have.
Therefore, even if a man who is a door-to-door son-in-law does not need to have any psychological burden, he is in charge of his own life, as long as he can live happily. At the same time, the man who enters the woman's family should also pay attention to the relationship with the woman's family, mutual understanding and respect is really important, and only when the relationship with the family is harmonious, can you get a truly happy life.
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Most boys are reluctant to get into the rich because the traditional thinking is at work, after all, since ancient times, men have been married and women have been married, on the other hand, they may not be able to wipe their faces, generally if it is not for family difficulties, boys will not be rich.
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Because of the influence of traditional concepts, there is also machismo, good face, thinking that it is a very contemptible thing to be rich, thinking that it will be inferior, and it will make people think that it is a soft meal.
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Because China is still very traditional, many parents don't want their children to go to other homes. Because boys have the responsibility of carrying on the lineage, most traditional Chinese parents do not agree with this situation.
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The reluctance of boys to join the family is related to the Chinese surname tradition, which believes that men inherit the family incense, and joining the family will make people feel that the man is incompetent, weak and faceless.
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Personally, the average boy's resistance to the matter of joining the money may feel that the money is a problem that damages self-esteem or dignity.
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Many girls are also reluctant to find a husband who is rich, it feels so low, women marry into the man's family This is a tradition from ancient times to the present, just like the bride price, isn't it also continued to modern times, even if the boy agrees for love, the boy's parents will not agree, if it is really rich, the woman comes to raise the man, and it is really comfortable for each other?
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There are many reasons for this, and they are related to both sides. First: self-reliance.
Since the birth of men, there has been a focus on sovereignty in both education and society, and the marriage of men and women in the common saying is both the mainstream and the concept. Second: the tendency to choose.
Gender predestined men to be the relatively active party, and initiative often means choice. Third: economic measurement.
Everything in the world can be measured, except for some young companions, two couples who have no guesses, most of the feelings are the same, to put it bluntly, it is why. Fourth, the environment dictates that it is divided into society, family, and individual.
Society: Although the country has always advocated equality between men and women, and our country is one of the most equal countries in the world, it is not a glorious thing to be in the secular concept. Family:
The door-to-door son-in-law will also fall into disputes similar to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and it is the parents who are filial to their own family, and they have been doing so since childhood, and they can be careless, sloppy, and arguing. And the door-to-door son-in-law often only means obedience. Fifth:
Most of the emotions of men and women are not as noble and sacred as described in the book, just like the likes of things will fade and become lighter over time, good to gather and disperse, love is more difficult than gold, plus modern young men and women are unusually open, and the subconscious of being and not being there will only become more vain after comparison. Sixth: the straight male effect.
This is a unique phenomenon since modern times, said to be self-centered, in fact, it is the product of the times and society compared to the future, focusing on the concept of contrast, fixed in the world's impression of the concept of wealth, but where the woman who puts forward the request for the rich, the conditions are often better than the man, and the wealth behind it means more choices, more of course, the former has self-righteous values to follow, the latter is born with wealth to support, after the collision there can only be five words left "self-centered" seventh: do as you like. Everyone has their own ideals, which can be described as different and different, but the concept of letting go of oneself as much as possible is the same, and entering the door means bondage.
Eighth: The true nature of men, I once heard a friend describe men and women as "women are like water, clear and easy to argue, good and evil are difficult to distinguish." Men are like mud, practicing books, and raising dust with fun.
The former changes with the situation, the latter changes with the environment, the two seem to be similar, but the difference is innate, such as movement and stillness, yin and yang.
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Boys who choose to join the family generally love their other half more. In real life, there are some men who are very gentlemen and love their other half very much. Because many people are now only children, and their parents need their children to take care of and accompany them, some men feel that they can choose to join their wives, which is the greatest love for their wives.
And they feel that it's just that the form is different, and it's not the same usually.
Absolutely. Hey.
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