Why do I always think that people who like to make fun of others are not kind?

Because it is very rude to joke about others, it is very offensive, so you will think that he is not kind.

The person who is joking may feel that there is nothing wrong, but the person being joked about may feel uncomfortable, and it is normal for such a person to be unpopular, so you will think that he is not kind.

People who like to make fun of others are not kind, because they are more selfish and like to make others happy, such a character is not good, and it will make people feel uncomfortable and unhappy with him.

What you think is right, I also think that the person who always likes to joke about others is not kind by nature, because making fun of others is mostly saying that others are not good, or sarcastic others in a joking way, such a person will often make others hateful, or often find other people's shortcomings, so I think he is not kind.

People who often joke about other people's shortcomings are not only sick, but also very sick, and in general, there are three diseases.

1. Too low self-esteem, always like to joke about other people's shortcomings, hit others, see others are particularly embarrassed and painful, and they will be particularly happy, this kind of person is actually subconsciously special inferiority complex, pitiful.

Second, his vanity is too strong, and he always jokes about other people's shortcomings, which is actually showing his superiority. In fact, he is not strong, and he is not respected and concerned by others, and he always uses others to attack others to elevate himself, this kind of person has too strong vanity and is destined to become nothing.

3. Likes sensationalism and is particularly ignorant.

This kind of person jokes about other people's shortcomings, this kind of joke is not only very positive, but also very boring, making the atmosphere particularly embarrassing, this kind of person is particularly boring, and also very ignorant.

First of all, there is nothing wrong with your thinking, and the three views are still very positive.

Because this thing itself is not very appropriate and impolite. Making fun of others is an unreliable behavior. This will cause some psychological damage to the other party.

So don't do this kind of thing. It's not good for each other.

Because your personality is different, the difference in personality will be different from the external interpersonal performance, some people like to be big, some people like their own small world, this is actually no absolute right or wrong, as long as the other party is not aimed at a certain person, don't be too concerned, if it is blindly targeted, you must be brave to refute, otherwise it will give others a cowardly feeling, but it will become worse.

If two people are very familiar and have a very good relationship, they will choose to joke with others, so it is not a sign of unkindness to say that others are joking. It's that the two people have a very good relationship and won't be angry with each other, so they joke.

Because these people don't look at problems from the perspective of others, don't consider other people's feelings, and act more self-consciously, it's easy to give people a sense of unkindness.

Your feelings are correct. Those who really make fun of others have bad intentions. They don't know how to respect others. I don't know how to get along with others kindly. Especially for some flawed people, they tend to make fun of others. There is not a shred of sympathy.

Don't think that a person who likes to make fun of others is not kind in the first place, and if he is kind, he should not make fun of others. Because making jokes about others sometimes hurts other people's self-esteem, so don't associate with such people.

Because their jokes are insincere. Sometimes they make jokes that deliberately mock each other's jokes, which will make the other party feel embarrassed, so it will make you think that these people are not kind, and you feel that you are deliberately making jokes about other people's ugly things.

Some people like to make fun of others, for example, there are some honest people who will find all kinds of topics. To make jokes about others, this kind of scheming is particularly deep, and it is indeed not kind.

Think that your thinking is incorrect, this is related to a person's personality characteristics, and related to the relationship between each other, some people like to joke, they like to make fun of others, but in fact, others are kind, in order to enliven the atmosphere, in order to get closer to each other's feelings, and there is no unfriendly meaning.

Because no matter what kind of joke it is, there is a little "serious component" in it, and even the person who makes the joke has no respect for the person being joked, and the joke is indeed mocking, and the purpose is not pure enough, or it is high and low or grandstanding.

Of course, it's not a kind behavior, I personally think it's not good to joke with others, everyone has their own bottom line, and being laughed at as a joke by others will naturally feel uncomfortable.

Disrespecting others is actually disrespecting yourself. It's okay to make a joke once in a while and have some entertainment; Always joke about a person, that is, this person has psychological problems. At least the personality is not sound.

It's normal for such people to feel unkind when they make fun of others, because I feel that way. If you want to have something fun, you should do it yourself from the right perspective and not make fun of others. Otherwise there will be few friends in the end.

Well, this kind of person is usually not very kind. It may also be because he doesn't know how to communicate in the first place. Making fun of others is in itself disrespectful to others, and even more disrespectful to others if it is a joke. It's understandable if it's just once in a while.

Yes, because such a person always sees people's shortcomings in his eyes, magnifies and scandalizes others' shortcomings, so he always likes to make fun of others, he is not kind, he can think that he makes fun of others' shortcomings, so he is really unkind.

Because you think that a kind person is considerate of other people's feelings, he will not joke with others, especially those that have the potential to hurt others. In real life, people tend to talk casually, tell a joke at will, make a joke at will, and if you take it too seriously, everyone's life will become quite sad.

It is necessary to face this kind of thing properly. In fact, this is different from everyone's personality, some people are reserved by nature and don't like to joke very much. Some people are naturally interned and don't like to deal with people very much.

Because you're going to take the joke seriously, you're going to feel hurt. They think it's just a joke, but they don't think it's funny to the person concerned, and they feel that they are hurt, so they feel that they are not kind.

There is really nothing wrong with you saying this, some people will always make jokes about other people's shortcomings, he thinks it is a joke, but for the person who is being joked, the heart will be hurt a lot, most of the people who joke about others are the kind of people who are small-minded and calculating, he says you can, you make fun of him and he will be unhappy.

If the joke makes the other party feel embarrassed, can't get off the stage without face, or makes the other party feel uncomfortable, then it proves that this person either has low emotional intelligence or is not right-minded, so sometimes it is not because we are biased.

That's because you're particularly disgusted with this type of person.

Because you don't like to joke very much, so some people make fun of others, and you are more disgusted, so you think this kind of person is not kind.

Because you can't get used to this kind of behavior, making fun of others is a joke if it sounds good, and saying something bad is a personal attack, pleasing yourself with other people's displeasure, so you will resent those people.

Hello, such a person has an inferiority complex in his heart, so he would rather hurt others than be hurt by others, but this kind of behavior is also impolite behavior, and he will make jokes about others regardless of other people's feelings and ideas, which is generally not very friendly.

I also think it's not kind, because everyone has self-esteem, maybe one of your so-called jokes will leave a shadow on others, so not only should people who have a little bit of a three-minded view think that this is not kind.