There is a generation gap with my classmates around me, and I have a generation gap with my classmat

Updated on educate 2024-07-21
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It shows that you are much more sensible than your peers, which is very good, not that there is a generation gap, but that everyone has a problem of preferences, which is normal. Classmates don't necessarily talk about the problems you mentioned above all the time, as long as everyone helps each other in life, sincerely, don't think about how others are bad, how different from yourself, and treat them with a normal heart, there will not be so many troubles.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Truth be told, you really don't live like a 17-year-old.

    It's you who have a problem.

    You're too old at heart.

    It's too mature and lacks the beauty that you should have when you're young.

    You think that's contrived stuff.

    This is problematic.

    Everything exists for a reason, and if someone likes it, it's valuable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think that's your problem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The reason why they like idol dramas is first of all because the scripts are beautifully written. In fact, the prototype of idol dramas is the story of Cinderella. Didn't we love these fairy tales when we were kids?

    The more you experience, the more you will realize that there is nothing so beautiful in the world. Just like children love cartoons, cartoons are simple.

    So, it's not that you have a problem, it's that you're more mature than all of them, and different people think differently.

    You have to accept that your friends have fairy tale dreams, but you just metamorphosed a little earlier than them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Truth be told, your mental age is far from youth.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone is drunk, and I am sober alone", sometimes it is really a kind of helplessness. You may be a little more mature than your peers and have experienced a little more, so you can not worry about them and keep your posture a little higher.

    In your daily life, you can talk more about your favorite teachers, talk about your opinions and ideas, let them know that you are a thinking person, and let them solve your inner doubts.

    You can also try to find classmates who are more compatible with you, there are not many friends, and a confidant is enough.

    In addition, you can also cultivate a revolutionary friendship with seniors who are a few years older than you, and get the experience you need from them.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Why don't you find the reason in yourself?

    Maybe you can talk to them.

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  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Are you a student or a teacher? If you're a student, you're too mature, and if you're a teacher, you have to review yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You'd be right! Don't talk to vulgar people. I have one more point, I suggest that you find a boyfriend without affecting your studies...This way your life may be more fulfilling.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Stick to your ideas, time will tell.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, they won't be able to laugh for a few years

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not a matter of age gap, it's about different experiences.

    The fact that you dropped out of school and what you went through after that made your mind a little more mature. The taste is a little more substantial.

    For example, if you drop out of school and work for three years, you have no academic qualifications and no work experience, and it must be very hard to work part-time. After experiencing this, I will definitely study hard, and only if I get admitted to a good university in the future, I will not work so hard. When the time comes, you will have a college diploma and find a stable and easy job.

    And your peers don't have these experiences, they have been studying in school, and the teacher always talks about a bunch of big truths, and they haven't experienced it personally, who will really hear it in their hearts. Therefore, other students do not feel the pressure of society, so they will naturally be looser.

    Different tastes are different, you won't like garbage ** to cater to them, and they won't be interested in new concept essays. Let it be.

    If you want to fit in, you have to find other things in common, such as basketball, football, NBA, military, etc. If you're a boy, of course.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, what you said is not very appropriate to use the generation gap, it should be said that it is a difference. Different does not mean total denial, you are not used to others, and at the same time, others may also be looking down on you, seek common ground while reserving differences, peaceful coexistence, independent thinking and learning from each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Actually, sometimes this is the case, and I have been in this situation before, but if you keep the status quo, you will never be able to integrate into the group, you can try to insert some words, or speak with humor, to get closer to others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Only 3 years old? How can there be a generation gap? My child and I are still in our twenties, how come we don't have a generation gap, the important thing is that you learn to empathize, so it doesn't matter how old you are.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're a bit self-centered.

    It's normal to like different**or like different**, people are not different - learn to tolerate the differences between others and you.

    Learn to respect other people's hobbies and habits in communication.

    When you interact with people and learn respect, you will gradually have more friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hehe, no, ......Don't torture yourself! Have a good chat with your classmates who think there is a generation gap......Find out what they're thinking......Then put yourself in their shoes and think about ......

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dear, that's because you're different after all, your experiences are different, just be yourself.

    You have to try to cater to them, to try to be receptive to their discussions. way and so on.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After all, it's a different age level, after all, there are more experiences, and the way of thinking about things is different, and the difference between likes is just a personal problem, don't think too much.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are the same as others, you yourself feel different from others, in fact, many years later, you realize that you are no different from others.

    You can't make friends, it's just that you don't care about others with your heart, and you always want others to care about you, which is not practical.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you have to learn to listen to your classmates and get into their hearts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should keep your knowledge up to date and be confident at the same time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hehe, your regulation of your mental age.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    One is the age issue, the age of life is different; The second is that the starting point is different, the things to consider are different, and the ideas are different...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because there is a generation gap between teachers and students.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, the relationship between two people is very simple You must not think about what topics you should talk about with her every day, your relationship will never be very intimate You try to care about her, see what she is usually interested in, and then you can talk about what she is interested in when you chat, so that you don't have to say too much, she will start to talk endlessly After a long time, you will have no generation gap

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The main reason is the lack of communication, the reason for the defeat of the land is both sides, the child feels that the adult is old-fashioned, and the adult thinks that the child should jump out. Then the more you don't communicate, the more you feel that the other party is wrong, and the generation gap will arise.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You feel that they are small, but in fact you are also very naïve (maybe it is adolescence, some of them are not used to anything).Younger children prefer to play with older children, and that's fine. , It's nothing to have a love sister, it means that you subconsciously like a stable girl, a girl who is more mature than you, and pride means that you are not bad in all aspects, and you have the capital to be proud, which is also a problem that you and your classmates do not have a common language.

    When you grow up, you will know that your classmates are the closest to you, let go of your pride and spend more time with everyone, you will find that you have a common language with them.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The best thing to do, I'll make a bet with you:

    If you can make your own efforts to make a group of classmates and leaders obey and make each of them listen to you, it means that you are really mature and indeed a notch higher than them. If you can't do this, it means that you are really narcissistic, I'm sorry, restrain yourself, don't look at yourself so hanging!

    Dare to bet? Give it a try if you dare!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is the independent psychology of adolescence, normal, just lower the seniority.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The main thing is that your experience may be different from what you think other classmates, or you have a lot of contact with people outside of campus, and there is nothing wrong with liking mature women, mature women tend to be more attractive, I'm sure of that.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Go into sports, preferably in a group, so that you can improve communication and integrate into the group.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's that you're too mature. There's nothing wrong with that! At least you can understand right and wrong and black and white.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It shows that you are mature and your understanding has gone up a notch.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Maybe you don't think the same.

    But I think it's a combination of work and rest.

    Proper relaxation is also possible.

    While working hard, you should also connect with your feelings.

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