Ask for help My husband cares so much about the economy that he doesn t hesitate to hurt me

Updated on society 2024-07-08
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It can be seen that your husband loves money, and quite a bit. Of course, this is not necessarily a bad thing, the key is how to grasp the degree. I agree with the last sentence of tycxgc, maybe there is a knot in his heart:

    Some of your words and actions with the opposite sex have touched or hurt him". You should communicate more, preferably before your baby is born, so that it is good for everyone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Have a long talk with him! If you can change it, it's the last! Otherwise, life will definitely be difficult in the future!

    It's the same as my dad! If you don't know how expensive firewood and rice are with salt! Only 200-500 households are given every month, and the rest of the money is used for mahjong tables!

    My mom supported our five siblings by doing odd jobs and helping with relatives! My second brother was 16 years old when he was in his second year of junior high school, and he dropped out of school to work in the second year, and his economy was a little better! But my dad saw that my brother had come back with money, so he didn't even have 200-500!

    My family has always been a poor household in the village! Until my eldest brother and third sister got out of this situation after they went out to work!

    To be honest, I kind of despise people like your husband! It's all together, and they're still thinking about whose money it is! Maybe he doesn't treat you as a relative in his heart!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, don't think too much about other things during this time, the most important thing for your baby. Wait for the baby to be born and do a paternity test, let him be convinced, don't always doubt this and that. Some men will have some pregnancy syndromes during their wives' pregnancy, and they will be suspicious and have a bad temper.

    It may be that there are children and life has changed a lot, and it is not adaptable.

    Secondly, the man should be able to afford the expenses of the whole family, especially at this time. Since he also has a salary, and you also have a salary, then you don't have to give him any more money, right? Still when your wife is pregnant?

    In this way, you will have more money yourself, and you will not always have to take his salary. There is still more communication between two people, and it is best to communicate with everyone in advance when you take his money or have some expenses, and it is okay to say a word. There is an accounting record of his expenses, and if he is still so vexatious, throw it directly to him.

    Preferably, pregnancy and childbirth are also very sensitive times for women, and it is also possible for men to have a bad temper. At this time, everyone takes a step back and thinks less, the baby is the most important thing at this time, and letting the baby come to this world safely and happily is the most important thing to do now. It's still nice to have more communication and less quarrels in life.

    I wish you happiness and peace baby.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't listen to number 1, you should go to the hospital for an induction of labor and then get a divorce right away. Your current husband's problem is not whether your child is his, so don't wait for a paternity test. He is an abnormal man with a flawed personality and spirit, unless you are willing to be a perfect godfather, then choose to divorce without sacrificing yourself to satisfy his unsatisfying selfishness.

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