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Because of the influence of historical reasons, people in ancient times had feudal superstitions, thinking that 7 days after death, the soul would return home and could see the last face of their relatives.
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It's a feeling of longing for a loved one who has died. Before burial, let your loved ones take a few more looks. Express lovesickness.
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I think the main reason is to follow the etiquette of the ancients, and also to let relatives take a second look at the deceased, etc.
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Buried in three days.
It will be very reluctant for a loved one to pass away, so there has been a habit since ancient times that the deceased should be buried for seven days until the founding of New China.
It was later changed to three days for the deceased.
During the Warring States Period, there was a miracle doctor named Bian Que.
One day, when the divine doctor heard that the prince had died suddenly, the divine doctor asked several questions in a row and said that he could save the prince, but many people did not believe it, because people were already dead, how could even a divine doctor save people? At first, everyone just asked the divine doctor to try it, and after a divine doctor's examination, it was found that the prince was just chaotic qi and blood and yin and yang imbalance.
That's why I lost consciousness. This kind of fake death is a fake death, and then the divine doctor administers needles and prescribes medicine, and the prince wakes up not long after. These deceased were resurrected by divine doctors, but in fact, they were not really dead, but only temporarily showed signs of death, such as temporary lack of heartbeat and breathing.
After being treated by the divine doctor, he slowly woke up, so everyone thought that the divine doctor had a way to bring the dead back to life, which is why everyone put the body for a few days.
Burial customs: After the burial, people must wash their hands, and some of them must wash with wine. This means that no one will die in the future, and it is used to dispel bad luck.
Then the bereaved family thanked the drummers and guests. After that, a funeral ceremony is held to worship the spirit of the deceased.
In some places, after the resignation, as long as the relatives have to eat together, this is called grabbing the last meal.
in Jiangsu and Zhejiang. Drink with it"Longevity soup", eat"Longevity beans"customs. That is to say, after the death of an elderly person over the age of 70, the mourner should prepare a large vat of meat and bone broth on the day of the funeral"Longevity soup", a large pot of boiled yellow cancan.
of soybeans, that is"Longevity beans"。When the mourners come back, they have to drink a small bowl of longevity soup and eat some longevity beans at will, which means"Blessing and longevity"。
In some places, fragrant and glutinous longevity beans are distributed to children in the neighborhood to eat, saying that if you eat longevity beans, you will live longer in the future.
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Depending on your local customs, we generally say 3 days, 5 days, and 7 days! However, generally after a person dies, he will invite a Yin and Yang Mr. who can read feng shui to come over, and then they will calculate the most suitable time for him to be buried according to the time of death. Usually there are only three options, which we call platoon 3, platoon 5, and platoon 7 locally.
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On the seventh day after the death of a man.
After the first bereavement, crying, and doing.
7. After the funeral and other ceremonies, the last link is the burial. This is the last moment of the deceased in the world, and it is usually very solemn. Due to the different living environments of various ethnic groups, many different burial customs and rituals have been formed.
This burial ritual is very elaborate and cumbersome. The person who carries the coffin is called the "Eight Immortals", and the coffin cave is called "Punching the Cave".
Before the funeral. The portrait was placed in front of the head car, and the eldest son led the younger blood relatives to kneel in front of the car, lifted the clay pot above his head, and said, "Dad, you go all the way", and then smashed the clay pot hard, the more broken the better, but not twice.
The paper rooster is placed in the head car, which means "the golden rooster leads the way". The eldest son (or eldest grandson) gets on the cart and carries the flag.
Each vehicle in the fleet is marked with a mark. for the age of the deceased. The deceased was 81 years old, plus one day of age, one year old. The car number is 83. If the deceased is a man, it will be attached to the left rear side of the car, and if it is a woman, it will be attached to the right rear side of the car.
In some places, there is a custom of throwing paper money. Along the way, it is constantly sprinkled, which means "buying road money", and in some places, when crossing a bridge, paper money is placed on the bridge and pressed with stones. The hearse generally does not stop after starting, and before the red light, the driver calculates the time, moves slowly, waits in the distance, and accelerates when the signal changes to green.
In front of the car to the funeral home, the paper rooster is thrown out of the car. (Some places use live roosters).
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After death, a mourning hall is set up, and there are seven heads and two ......Finally, it can be said that seven days and forty-nine days are all important, and you can't commit taboos. Nowadays, the older generation still observes the custom of sacrificing every "7", but it is difficult for young people to understand. In fact, in these aspects, the wisdom of the ancestors is difficult for modern young people to see, and today we will take a look at the deep meaning behind the custom of sacrificing every "7".
1. After the seven disasters, it means that the relatives have a good next life.
Ancient people believed that people have three souls and seven spirits, seven days after death, one soul, one soul a year, so there will be "burn seven" and "keep filial piety for three years". As for the "7" sacrifice, it is said that after the death of the deceased, within 49 days, the king of Hades would interrogate the soul of the deceased once every seven days, so the "seven periods" are also called "seven plagues". In these days, "7" sacrifices and paper money are burned, firstly to alleviate the pain of the dead during interrogation after death, but also to pray that they can be forgiven by the king of Hades and have a happy next life.
Second, across the seven-seven, yin and yang reconcile the brother Sakura to protect the house.
"Seven" is a number of yin and yang harmony in ancient Taoism, people have life and death, because of death and set up a mourning hall, pay tribute to the dead, communicate heaven and earth, connect yin and yang, but the essence of "death" is "yin", a period of time is covered by the "yin" brought by death, in the minds of the ancients, this will affect the luck of the family, so the ancestors thought of the period to regulate yin and yang, selected the special number of "seven", and sacrificed on the day of every seven, so that the yin and yang of the family can be harmonized, So that the dead can protect their homes and homes to protect future generations.
Three, out of seven, pack up your emotions and continue to live.
The dead know that everything is empty, the deceased has passed away, but the living cannot always indulge in grief and move forward, so every seven sacrifices, sacrifices for seven seven and forty-nine days, is also a way for the ancestors to relieve grief and help people get out of grief. Within 49 days, they should make serious sacrifices, express their sorrows, and tell their friendship for the deceased, which is an emotional buffer period for the relatives of the deceased;
But after forty-nine days, after understanding the fact that death is impossible to resurrect, even if there is still some sadness, we must pack up our emotions and start to devote ourselves to a new life, which is the optimistic and affectionate ancient working people.
There are many traditional customs in ancient China, except for some feudal dross, other customs are entrusted to the ancient working people to the world, nature, heaven and earth, and people. In the event of life and death, the sacrificial custom of "burning seven" has been passed down for many years, and naturally has its wisdom and deep meaning, when we are screening some traditional cultures, we also have to leave some useful, historically significant customs, and then modify them, so as to meet the needs of modern culture.
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1. The first seven is to say that the deceased can still recognize people, and whoever participates in this burning seven sacrifices can remember the lack of laughter, and will look forward to him in every seven miles in the future; Erqi is a sacrificial activity in which only sons can participate; Sanqi is generally participated by children, neighbors and main relatives can also participate, because there are more people involved, and the main family needs to entertain guests after burning Qiqi; Fourth-seven, generally only children participate; Wuqi is the largest one, and it needs a lot of people to participate, and it is basically necessary to get there, and the children need to make sacrifices, and this needs to be a big banquet guest; Six is called to stay seven, and touching Li means that you can't participate in the previous seven; Qiqi is also known as broken seven, and only children or the family and neighbors can participate.
2. Burning seven is a kind of commemorative activity to sacrifice the ancestors, and some places are very particular. For close relatives to kowtow three times nine kowtows, distant relatives generally kowtow four, and the so-called three ghosts and four are to kowtow to the living three times, to the deceased four kowtows. For each of the seven sacrifices, the main sacrifices are also different, and the buns, noodles, and dumplings have their own exquisiteness.
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There is a record of rites and funerals: "Those who are buried after three days will be able to survive." Therefore, the saints made a decision for it, and the three-day ritual system was also adopted."
In fact, Li Xinxin is a tradition of Chinese funeral culture, that is, after someone dies, according to Chinese tradition, they are often not buried immediately, but must set up a mourning hall at home, and the spirit can only be buried for three days.
Network illustration. So why is it customary for someone in China to wake up for three days after his relatives die?
According to Chinese custom, the ancients believed that the soul would return home to visit its loved ones during the first three days after death, so the children should stay by the body and wait for the soul to return. The wakes are basically limited to three days, and there are those who keep vigils in the mourning booths and mourning halls in the residences, and there are also those who rent the hall in the funeral parlor to keep vigil.
Network illustration. According to traditional Chinese customs, it is necessary to keep the spirits up during the wake, and not to allow animals such as cats and dogs to get close to the body. Because they believe that animals such as cats and dogs are psychic, and once they get close to the body, they can cause harm to the souls of people who have passed away.
There are records of people who wake their spirits for three days after they die. And the ** of this custom is the "Book of Rites". Shen Congwen also wrote about the wake in "Border City".
In fact, according to the explanation of the "Book of Rites", the reason why there is such a rule is mainly because of the fear of fake death, so after the death of a person, relatives must guard it for three days to prevent fake death.
Network illustration. Today, the wake has become more of a remembrance of the deceased. Many relatives and friends gathered together to reminisce about the moments with the deceased, in order to express the reluctance and nostalgia in their hearts.
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There are many such and such customs in Chinese folk, some of which can even make people scratch their heads, and some of which actually contain certain truths. For example, the issue of burial after death, the Chinese have a custom that people cannot be buried immediately after death, and must be mortuary at home for seven days, because these seven days are called the first seven, and they can only be buried after seven days.
Why should the bodies of the deceased be kept for seven days? One of the reasons is because people in ancient times were more superstitious, and the ancients believed that there was a soul after deathSouls do not drift away immediately after death, and some souls may remain in the body of a person and are reluctant to leave. There are also some souls that get lost and stumble and can't find the way to reincarnation.
Therefore, after a person dies, people will mortuary the deceased for seven days to hold a vigil for the deceased. After seven days, the deceased is usually worshiped once, and a bowl of "reincarnation rice" is prepared for him, so that the soul can leave smoothly after the meal, and will not be detained in the home of the loved one, causing distress to the loved one.
In addition, there is also a theory that in ancient times, medical skills were limited, and some body functions were still there, but people were in a coma was also considered dead. Therefore, the deceased will be mortuary for seven days, just in case the family members make a mistakeRelatives who are not actually dead are hurriedly buried as dead, which leads to tragedy. After all, I haven't woken up for seven days, so it's probably cold.
There is also a saying that some people are framed**, and if they have grievances that cannot be discovered in time, it is easy to miss the evidence if they are buried in a hurry. And the mortuary for seven days, there will be a lot of changes in the body during these seven days, and these changes can be used as evidence for the accusation, so as to clear the grievances of the deceased.
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Nowadays, the average person is buried less than three days after death, and it is not necessary to wait until seven days to be buried.
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Because there is a saying of returning the soul on the 7th day after death, the Chinese can only be buried on the 7th day after death.
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This is mainly related to the funeral culture in China, because the Chinese tradition is that people return home on the first seven days after death.
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Because in Chinese funeral rites, there is the first seven days, and the deceased will go home on the first seven days.
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Not everyone is buried in seven days, we usually have three days here.
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Do you think there is still a possibility of resurrection? Give him a waiting time?
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Because there is a saying of resurrection in China, people will come to say their final goodbyes to their families on the first seven days after death.
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Different places have different customs, anyway, we don't have seven days to bury here.
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It is a kind of etiquette for the Chinese to treat the dead. Besides, there are so many friends and relatives coming from afar!
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