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The third anniversary is the "Tan Festival", which is a release ceremony, commonly known as "removal of clothes".
Memorialization is a kind of mourning ceremony for the deceased. Traditional Chinese culture pays attention to "chasing the distance with caution", and the memorial service is the embodiment of a filial piety culture of the Chinese people.
Basic introduction. Early in the morning of the next day after the funeral, Jinnan Wenxi and other places paid attention to the family to send food to the grave to pour the memorial, indicating that the deceased and his family had a light meal again. In the area of Yicheng, when the family goes to the cemetery to pay tribute the next day, they should use a shovel to add new soil to the grave, so that the tomb mound is upright before and after, not biased or oblique, commonly known as "Fushan".
Since the burial in Taiyuan, it has not been allowed to add soil to the mound until three years later, when the Qingming Festival is sweeping. The customs of the two places are so different.
To the new grave to add soil and lay paper, most places in Shanxi are on the third day after the burial of the deceased, called "Fusan", also called "round tomb", "warm tomb". Generally, the eldest son of the deceased leads the whole family to go, and in some places all the relatives who have "clothes" go, such as the Xinzhou River Meander, relatives and friends bring hot pot and Baichai to the cemetery to gather, and return after the memorial service.
From the time of death, a sacrifice must be made every seven days, which is called "doing seven" or "passing seven". One of the seven is called the "first seven", and the third seven is also called the "scattered seven", and the fifth.
Seven, seventy-seven is also known as "full seven", "broken seven" or "end seven", which is more important.
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The third anniversary is the "Tan Festival", which is a release ceremony, commonly known as "removal of clothes". The ritual is very grand, relatives and friends are here, the sacrifices sent are roughly the same as when they are buried, the wealthy people want to invite the drummer, and ask the Taoist priest to do the Jiao, set up the tombstone, and some also hold the "three offerings". The filial son's door is pasted with white paper couplets in the morning, and red paper couplets are pasted before lunch.
The filial son wears white and wears filial piety all over his body, burns paper in front of the grave, and after the sacrifice, he takes off his filial piety clothes on the spot, puts on his regular clothes, and burns the filial piety clothes he changes on the fire, returns to the door, and throws them from the wall to the courtyard, so as to "serve the blessings".
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The third anniversary is the "Tan Festival", which is a release ceremony, commonly known as "removal of clothes".
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The third anniversary is the "Tan Festival", which is a release ceremony, commonly known as "removal of clothes". The ritual is very grand, relatives and friends are here, the sacrifices sent are roughly the same as when they are buried, the wealthy people want to invite the drummer, and ask the Taoist priest to do the Jiao, set up the tombstone, and some also hold the "three offerings". The filial son's door is pasted with white paper couplets in the morning, and red paper couplets are pasted before lunch.
The filial son wears white and wears filial piety all over his body, burns paper in front of the grave, and after the sacrifice, he takes off his filial piety clothes on the spot, puts on his regular clothes, and burns the filial piety clothes he changes on the fire, returns to the door, and throws them from the wall to the courtyard, so as to "serve the blessings".
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The third anniversary is the last special memorial ceremony for the deceased, also known as the release ceremony, which is very grand. To burn more paper money, it can be a house, a car, home appliances, and so on. The third anniversary of the burning should be noted at 6-9 o'clock in the evening, the family members who participated in the flame on the day fasted, did not eat meat, and prepared some tributes, and the things they liked before their lives could also be offered, and the incense was toasted.
Relatives and friends can be invited to participate, and firecrackers can be set off.
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Hello, what is important about the third anniversary festival is as follows; The third anniversary is the last special memorial ceremony for the deceased, also known as the release ceremony, which is very grand. When the Yin people use the Yin, the sacrificial time will be after noon, that is, after 1 o'clock in the afternoon, the best group dress. Every year until the day of death, I go to worship, and after three years of worship, it is the festival worship of Qingming and October 1st.
You can invite relatives and friends to participate, you can set off firecrackers, you need to burn more paper money, it can be a house, a car, home appliances, etc. (The date of the third anniversary is calculated from the date of the deceased's death, for example: the memorial day is January 1, 2005, and the third anniversary is January 1, 2008)
1.According to the traditional sansan/sansan ritual, it is usually done on the third anniversary, i.e. it cannot be advanced or postponed (if there are relatives built here, in order to show respect for the relatives, one should go forward to welcome the day).On the day of the sacrifice, the children of the deceased and their families (or siblings and their families) should attend.
In order to pay tribute to the deceased, they usually do not take the initiative to inform relatives and friends. When relatives and friends ask about it, they can inform the schedule and invite them to participate. To highlight the grandeur of the third anniversary, as well as the family's thoughts on the deceased, the blessings of the deceased should be decorated with flowers.
At the same time, according to the personal preferences, personality, occupation, work style of the deceased, etc., as the theme, and according to the actual situation of the overall layout, we should start the commemoration according to the order of blood in the family and the order of generations. The commemoration begins with a soft commemoration, and then the moderator accompanies the reading of the memorial article. The content of the commemoration will be tailored to the different circumstances of each deceased.
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Clothes, furniture, money.
The third anniversary commemoration is as follows:
1 According to traditional etiquette, it is usually desirable to continue the day of the third anniversary, that is, not to advance or postpone (if there is a built-in family member, it should be dealt with the day before in order to respect the family member).
2 Memorial Day, children and family members (or siblings and dependents) of the deceased should attend. When commemorating the deceased, relatives and friends are usually not actively notified, and relatives and friends can ask about the matter, inform the schedule, and invite them to participate.
3 To highlight the solemnity of the third anniversary and the family's remembrance of the deceased, the deceased's place should be decorated with flowers. At the same time, according to the personal preferences, personality, occupation, work style of the deceased, etc., as the theme, and according to the actual situation of the park, the overall layout of the sales of Qiwang is carried out.
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