Should the mother in law and the mother take care of the confinement at the same time?

The mother-in-law should not take care of the confinement, because taking care of the confinement should be the husband's own business, but the mother-in-law taking care of the confinement is also helping her son, so it is not the right thing to take care of the confinement mother-in-law.

There is nothing that should or shouldn't, as long as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, your mother-in-law will take care of you during confinement. If you usually ignore your mother-in-law, why do you ask people to be nice to you? This kind of thing is mutual, and sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity.

Mother-in-law taking care of confinement may be a conventional thing, but in fact, there is nothing that should not be done, taking care is love, and it is nothing if you don't take care of it, after all, giving birth to a child is your own business, mainly depends on what the husband has done, whether it has played the responsibility of taking care of his wife and children.

Confinement should be taken care of, but it does not have to be taken care of by the mother-in-law. The mother-in-law herself has no obligation to take care of the confinement child, taking care of it is love, and not taking care of it is duty. Knowing how to be considerate and grateful will get better and better.

If the mother-in-law has time, she can take care of the confinement child. What about the kind of mother-in-law who is married far away? So this thing is flexible and not so absolute.

When a mother-in-law is supposed to take care of the confinement child, but she doesn't have to be taken care of by her mother-in-law, whoever has time will take care of it.

In fact, this problem has made many pregnant women have been entangled, and they will weigh the pros and cons and communicate with their families.

So, is it the mother-in-law who takes care of the mother-in-law or the mother-in-law who takes care of the mother-in-law? Before making a choice, pregnant women should first understand what kind of physical and mental state the pregnant woman will be after giving birth, so that she can make a suitable choice according to her family situation.

1. What is the psychological state of a pregnant woman after giving birth?

Some studies have found that the psychology of pregnant women after childbirth will undergo great changes, the most important thing is that the heart will be very fragile for a period of time after childbirth, and it is easy to become very sensitive and sentimental.

First of all, the hormones in the body of pregnant women will change significantly after pregnancy, so there will be some reactions such as early pregnancy and morning sickness. However, when the pregnancy period is over and the baby is born, the hormone secretion level in the mother's body will gradually return to before pregnancy, and this recovery process will affect the mother's higher brain activity, so that the mother's temperament will temporarily change, and even some psychological disorders will appear.

Secondly, under the premise of enduring various discomforts after giving birth, the mother also has to take on the responsibility of a novice mother, to feed the baby, sleep can not be guaranteed, at this time the mother's mental state is not good, if a little uncomfortable, you will feel aggrieved tears, mood changeable, irritability.

Finally, a period of time after giving birth, pregnant women are very fragile, at this time they are the most in need of their husbands and family care and care, people who need to take care of the confinement are very careful, carry out all-round care and care for the mother, try to be more considerate of the mother's mood, everything goes along with the mother, care for the mother.

Confinement mother-in-law PK mother-in-law, who takes better care of it?

Pregnant in October, once giving birth, finally unloaded the burden, the new mother can be at ease to do a comfortable confinement, so that the body can get enough rest, so as not to fall into confinement disease in the future.

Many people will choose to be confined at home, which is more convenient and economical. Confinement at home involves the question of who will take care of the confinement. Generally, mother-in-law or mother-in-law will be asked to take care of the confinement child, so who is more suitable to take care of it?

part1, mother-in-law care.

Advantages: Nowadays, most young couples go out to live alone, and the time with the family is relatively small, during the confinement period, ask the mother-in-law to help, live together at home, can enhance the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and the whole family welcomes the arrival of a new life together. In addition, my mother-in-law is also from the past, and she also has some experience in parenting, so she will have more experience in taking care of the baby.

Disadvantages: The difference in concepts will produce some small contradictions. For example, with some new parenting concepts, new mothers are prone to disagreements with their mothers-in-law. For example, the following

Confinement hair washing problem: The conditions in ancient times were not good, and the purpose of not washing hair was to protect the new mother from the cold. However, if you are allowed to wash your hair under the current conditions, you can wash your hair about 10 days after giving birth, and you should pay attention to drying your hair after washing, and don't let your scalp get cold.

Brushing teeth during confinement: The older generation says that you can't brush your teeth during confinement, which is also a misunderstanding. Postpartum teeth need to be protected, especially after eating, pay attention to oral hygiene to prevent tooth decay.

part2, take care of your mother.

Advantages: The daughter is always the mother's little padded jacket, even if the daughter is a mother, in the eyes of the mother, it is still the original little padded jacket. It is easier for daughters and mothers to communicate with each other, and they can boldly say anything and let their mothers do it for themselves, so that they will be more comfortable to sit during the confinement period.

Disadvantages: The mother's care is more intimate, and she will do everything herself, so she is afraid that her daughter will be affected. Therefore, some confinement children are taken care of by their mothers, and they rely on their mothers for everything, and they become lazy, and the following misunderstandings have appeared

Always lying down and not getting out of bed: the mother consumes a lot of vitality in the production process, and naturally needs to rest well, but she can't lie down all the time, because if she always lies down, the uterus does not return to the forward position, and it is easier to become a posterior position, so it will also lead to uterine prolapse.

Too much lochia: lying down all the time is not conducive to the discharge of lochia, affecting the normal recovery of the mother, so proper movement is still necessary, postpartum lochia needs the help of nursing pads.

Summary] The confinement is about sitting comfortably, and only when you feel comfortable, the confinement will be meaningful. The question of who will take care of the confinement is actually not difficult, and the new mother should plan in advance, weigh the advantages and disadvantages, and give herself a comfortable confinement is the truth.

It is best to take care of your mother during confinement, rather than taking care of your mother-in-law, because your mother knows what she wants to eat, and she can't bear to let her children suffer any fatigue.

During confinement, it is better to take care of your own mother.

After all, she is a girl, and she grew up with her mother since she was a child.

For my mother, I have to take care of it, and I am somewhat familiar.

Mothers are more familiar with their daughters.

So it's relatively better to take care of.

My mother-in-law's squid shreds have not been familiar for a long time.

Some hobbies like and so on.

After all, it's not as familiar as my own mother.

My mother takes care of me better.

1.My mother knows her daughter's eating habits better, and the meals she cooks are more appetizing.

2.Better communication between mother and daughter. You can just say what you have to say, and you don't have to worry about unnecessary contradictions.

If you are not familiar with your mother-in-law, your living habits and concepts may be very different, and it is inevitable that there will be disagreements, and if you don't communicate well, there will be conflicts.

If your mother takes care of it, you can relax your mind, raise your confinement with peace of mind, and tell your mother what you want to eat without any scruples, if it is in front of your mother-in-law, you will have certain worries, and your mood will not be relaxed.

Of course, I have that kind of good mother-in-law who really treats you like her own daughter, and that can also take care of the confinement.

After giving birth to a baby, during the confinement period, since you have entered the confinement lady, you don't need to take care of your mother-in-law, but you can seek help from your mother-in-law. Mother-in-law can come to help you when she is free, but most of them still have to be on the confinement lady. You can also learn from your mother-in-law when you are confined, ask him how to be confined, how to do a good confinement, and listen to his experience, so that your mother-in-law will feel that you are a very good daughter-in-law.

If the mother-in-law is not in harmony, or the mother-in-law is unwilling to take care of it, it is better not to let it come, so as to avoid some unnecessary contradictions.

I think that after giving birth, I hired a confinement lady, so there is no need to let my mother-in-law take care of it. But if your mother-in-law wants to take care of you, it's still okay. After all, the confinement sister-in-law is not as thoughtful as the mother-in-law who takes care of the child.

It mainly depends on how the relationship with your mother-in-law is, whether your mother-in-law is willing or has time to take care of you, if the relationship between the two parties is not very good, and your mother-in-law does not really want to take care of you, don't force it, so as to avoid hurting the harmony and being unhappy.

Don't do it, your mother-in-law is not your own mother, and when the time comes, there will be something, don't say that you are not happy that you are not happy that the confinement is not good, and that your mother-in-law is unhappy that you have a conflict.

In fact, when many pregnant women are confined, they hope that their mothers can take care of their confinement, because in the eyes of their mothers, even if they are married and have children, they are still children in the eyes of their mothers, and their mothers will take care of their daughters in every detail, and they will take care of their daughters as if they were children.

Therefore, at this time, if the mother can take care of the mother's confinement, it is the best choice. However, there is also a problem in this way, their own mother takes care of their own confinement, and the mother will feel guilty about her mother, after all, taking care of the confinement is a very laborious and physical thing, and if others are mothers-in-law to take care of the confinement, but they are tired of their mother, there will be a sense of guilt.

If the mother-in-law and the mother can take care of the mother's confinement at the same time, it is the best choice, so that the mother-in-law and the mother can divide the labor, one person focuses on taking care of the mother and making confinement meals, and the other focuses on taking care of the newborn, so that the fetus and the mother can be well cared for.

And my mother-in-law and my mother are also talking together, not alone, at that time I was in confinement like this, the two old people talked very happily, when the confinement was full and separated, the two old people were still reluctant.

As long as you treat it with your heart, whether it is your own mother or mother-in-law, they are all women, and they have all experienced giving birth. Caring for confinement is also experienced. It should all be taken care of.

And confinement is not immobile. Whether it is a mother or a mother-in-law, they are all assisting mothers. As long as you have a snack, you can take care of it.

A woman's pregnancy and childbirth is a major event in life, especially for women who have given birth to a child, female confinement is also very particular, some people are unwilling to blindly let their mother-in-law serve the confinement, and are willing to let their own mother grind the mold, because there is something to talk about, after all, the mother and the mother-in-law are still different. And some people are reluctant to let their mothers come to serve the confinement, because as soon as their mother-in-law comes, they don't care about anything, and everything falls on their mothers, and they can't bear it.

It will be better for the mother to take care of her, because the mother is very careful when taking care of her daughter, and the daughter's body will recover faster.

Of course, you should choose your own mother to take care of you, because your mother will take care of you very responsibly and will not dislike you.

Personally, I feel that it is better to choose the mother to take care of her, because the mother takes care of her more carefully, and the mother also knows her daughter's eating habits.