In It s All Good , why is Su Mingyu played by Yao Chen still willing to forgive everyone in the end

In the TV series "It's All Good", the conflict between Mingyu and her family has been deep since she was a child, and what happened to her youth also made Mingyu reluctant to communicate with the people in her family, because she was not treated at home since she was a child, and her mother and brothers were all commanding her. But in the finale of the TV series, Su Mingyu let go of everything, she chose to forgive everyone and take care of her father with Alzheimer's disease. So why did Su Mingyu, who has always hated her family, choose to forgive them?

Let's break it down.

First of all, why Su Mingyu was able to reconcile with the indifferent original family that he once hated, many people attributed it to Su Mingyu's strong ability and wealth, which seems to be reasonable. If Su Mingyu is not capable and rich, it is almost impossible for him to have the right to participate in many family affairs in the story, let alone the right to make decisions and the ability to turn things around. If Su Mingyu was just an ordinary housewife, or an ordinary white-collar worker, it would never be so wealthy, and she would not be so domineering, and her family would not care so much about her existence and her feelings, so it would be difficult to have the right to speak in this family.

Secondly, the happiness of hindsight, when Su Mingyu learned all this, she burst into tears, in fact, these were tears of happiness, she knew that there was someone who loved her silently. The second brother Su Mingcheng found Mingyu the night before he went to Africa and said "I'm sorry", and touched his sister's hand with doting and self-reproach, this sentence "I'm sorry" She waited for 20 years, but the heart wall built in her heart also collapsed with the "I'm sorry", and finally disappeared. The corners of Mingyu's mouth trembled and called "brother", she was relaxed and happy at this time.

In the end, Su Mingyu chose to let go and live with his family, I think this is already the best result, for the treatable when he was a child, who can say that he will let go of it? may be blamed on Su Mingyu's wrong birth, if it was an ordinary family, Su Mingyu's life would definitely be more than a hundred times better than now. But fortunately, the ending of the TV series is touching, and the family finally let go of prejudice and live together.

Because Su Mingyu is a very knowledgeable and reasonable person, she gave everyone a chance.

Mainly because everyone apologized very sincerely in the end, and they also received the punishment they deserved, so they were willing to forgive everyone.

The real forgetting is not to forgive, but to give up In the first dozens of episodes of "It's All Good", Su Mingyu, who was treated partially since childhood, swore that he would not interact with the Su family until he was old. The contradiction has been precipitating for decades, and it cannot be resolved all at once. Moreover, the second brother Su Mingcheng has bullied Su Mingyu since he was a child, and when he grew up, he even beat his sister, such a shadow cannot be erased.

Because Su Mingyu wrote a letter of apology, and stipulated that Su Mingcheng read out the letter of apology given by Su Mingyu word for word, and gave her a sincere apology.

Su Mingyu was beaten, Mingcheng entered the cell, and the Su family turned into a pot of porridge. But except for his sister-in-law Wu Fei to take care of him, and his brother Su Mingzhe asked, no one else in the family paid attention to Su Mingyu's injury.

When Su Mingcheng beat Mingyu, the paragraph he said really hurt Su Mingyu's heart, and the behavior of others in the Su family was also contemptible.

Anyone was trying to persuade her to be tolerant, but no one remembered that she hadn't even heard a word of apology, so how could she be tolerant.

Su Mingyu originally prepared that Su Mingcheng must be put into the cell and be dismantled and tortured. When he learned to write an apology letter, he felt that he had been greatly aggrieved, and this was also what Su Mingyu had suffered since he was a child.

It's just that Su Mingcheng couldn't stand it once, Su Mingyu has endured all these years, and no one can feel the pain.

Therefore, if it does not happen to oneself, no one can really guarantee that it is deeply understood, even if it is a loved one.

She has more people who are worth her care and help, she can completely let go of the past, and she can also move towards happiness.

In fact, Su Mingcheng only needs to recall it carefully, and he will find that Su Mingyu has not really annoyed him since he was a child, it is he who has been stirring up trouble, and he has done something wrong.

Su Mingyu's thoughts about Su Mingcheng also changed, although Su Mingyu had always looked down on Su Mingcheng, she felt that her second brother was a child who had not grown up, and he was a mother. But at a critical juncture, she will still deal with the inconvenience of the second brother, even if the second brother once bullied her before, then he has always been her relative, and this connection cannot be broken.

There is also that Su Mingcheng is indeed gradually getting better, he has already looked down on him after experiencing a series of severe blows such as divorce, investment failure and layoff, and he has not done it right in the past, so he gradually filled everyone.

Su Mingcheng and Su Mingyu both changed their views on the other party, and they naturally reconciled.

chose to forgive, Su Mingyu is the most promising person in their family, and the relationship with these brothers has eased.

Yes, he chose to forgive each other because they are brothers and sisters whose blood is thicker than water, and his brother also recognized his mistake and ended up being very good to her.

Yes, in the end, Su Mingyu has forgiven the other party, and the relationship between the two of them has eased.

Yes, after all, the two of them are brothers and sisters, and there is no deep hatred, so it is forgivable in real life.

In real life, it is impossible for Su Mingyu to forgive Su Mingcheng at all, because the contradictions between the two people have accumulated for a long time, and Wang Liangheng has also brought a lot of harm.

No, there is no way to forgive this kind of injury, it will accompany you for a lifetime, and there is no way to forgive the other party.

Su Mingyu is a person with clear three views, but there is some rejection of his family. She feels that her family is patriarchal and doesn't care about herself at all, so she hates her family.

is a very strong person, but he also craves the care and warmth of his family, and he lacks love, and he is a career-oriented strong woman. Because I was treated differently by my mother since I was a child, I didn't feel mother's love.

He is a very poor man, born in this patriarchal family since he was a child, and the reason why he hates his family is not only because of this lack of fairness, but also because his mother's practices are too hateful.

Su Mingyu is an independent, rebellious, and strong girl.

For her emotions, she has always been in a state of avoidanceDon't dare to face her emotions, her sister-in-law's advice to her is "This boyfriend, yes, I'm very interested in you, you have to grasp it", Mingyu: "I'm most afraid that others will be interested in me, I'm too tired", which shows that she is afraid of getting hurt and has been avoiding. She has something to say to Liu Qing directly, she has no armpits, and she is also a good buddy who shares difficulties and blessings.

Except for being a little cowardly in terms of feelings, Mingyu is quite good in other aspects.

Su Mingyu lives in a serious patriarchal family, her two elder brothers have been favored by their parents, especially the second child is the most favored, and she, as the only daughter in the family, the youngest child, is always subject to the most serious feudal traditional thinking of the parents, all kinds of unfair treatment. Su Mingyu played by Yao Chen not only has a bold personality, but also a queen fan, full of "offensive" spirit, and has the title of "desperate Sanniang" at work, Su Mingyu through his unremitting efforts, met the nobles in his life, benefactors, Mingyu is a shrewd and capable, modern woman with outstanding emotional intelligence, Mingyu in the play sells training courses to Lao Meng, and finally Lao Meng saw her advantages, so he gave her support all the way, and gradually walked to the peak of life.

Commanding and powerful, the image of a strong woman with exquisite faces, her ability to deal with things is particularly strong, no matter how she deals with the troubles at work or the troubles in life, she is at ease and full of confidenceThis is inseparable from her perennial efforts, it is in response to that sentence, the harder you work, the luckier you are, the hard-working woman is the most beautiful, and the image of Su Xiaomei created by Yao Chen is particularly perfect.

As for why Su Mingyu became strong and capable, I believe some fans can also empathize. She has relatives, friends (Liu Qing), and a master (Mr. Meng), but none of these people can become the sustenance of her soul. A person who has nowhere to rely on his soul is bound to have an empty heart and no sense of security.

But such people are often very strong on the surface, because they don't want to be looked down upon.

It's all good, Su Mingyu played by Yao Chen is a strong woman in my heart, and she belongs to a woman who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, she is very gentle and kind in her heart, and she looks cold on the outside, so people dare not approach her easily, but she needs warmth and love in her heart.

Su Mingyu is a hedgehog wrapped in his soft heart in my mind, Ting is actually a particularly fragile person, but in order to protect herself, she can only pretend to be strong.

She is a very real person who will tell the truth and will never be afraid of others knowing her shortcomings and knowing her shortcomings.

Su Mingyu is in my heart, she is a goddess-like existence. Su Mingyu works very seriously and has a very strong ability, and she is very good at handling things and takes on the important responsibilities of the company.

Mainly because Chun Mingyu refused to cooperate with the second sister-in-law's company, which caused a misunderstanding, so Su Dan took Mingcheng and did it to Su Mingyu; It can be seen that there is a big gap between their brother and sister, and they always speculate on each other with the greatest malice.

Su Mingyu was very ruthless, causing his wife to lose her job. This incident became the fuse.

At that time, Su Mingyu wanted to protect his company because of Qi Bei's unavoidable reasons, so he said that the auditor was his second sister-in-law at the guessing meeting, and his second sister-in-law was criticized at work.

must have longed, even if they are strong and independent, they are eager to be cared for and loved by their families deep down, and the reason why Tan and she have always made the quarrel look strong is that she hides the fragility in her heart and is unwilling to show it.

Longing for family affection. She has been treated differently by her mother since she was a child, and she has never felt maternal love, especially hoping to have a parent who loves her.

In fact, he also longed for family affection, but later his words gradually returned to disappointment, and in the end, he made his hungry life very sufficient through this kind of work.