It s all good, why did Su Mingyu end up alienating her sister in law?

It's All Good" is a modern family emotional drama, starring Yao Chen, Ni Dahong, Gao Lu, Li Nian, etc., telling the story of Su Mingyu who stepped out of the shadow of her original family and became a strong woman in the workplace.

Although it has long ended perfectly, topics such as patriarchy, gnawing on the elderly, and support still have a certain degree of heat, and everyone sees their own shadow more or less.

Yao Chen plays the role of Su Mingyu in the play, she has lived in the patriarchal Su family since she was a child, and finally embraced the warmth of the family again. Li Nian plays the second sister-in-law Zhu Li in the play, while Gao Lu plays the sister-in-law Wu Fei. The concubine relationship between the three of them is also intriguing.

Why did Su Mingyu and her second sister-in-law Zhu Li get close in the end, but slowly alienate her sister-in-law Wu Fei? In fact, the following reasons are detailed for you!

In the play, the eldest brother Su Mingzhe is the only person in the Su family who can go abroad, and he is the one who got a green card in the United States, and he is also the object of Su Mingyu's admiration and inspiration since childhood.

But it wasn't until Su Mingyu went to the United States on a business trip that she found that her eldest brother was unemployed, and her sister-in-law Wu Fei was working alone and taking care of her children. is also a woman, Su Mingyu felt very sorry for Wu Fei, and Wu Fei also persuaded Su Mingzhe to be kind to his sister Su Mingyu at that time.

However, after returning to China, sister-in-law Wu Fei has always adhered to the concept of "small family", and she is a little selfish in her heart, she hates Su Daqiang's various unreasonable demands very much.

Wu Fei not only refused to pay for Su Daqiang to buy a house, but when Su Mingyu was beaten, in order to avoid the contradictions of the Su family, she also secretly left.

Wu Fei's practice of escaping and staying away made Su Mingyu feel very chilled, and later their family returned to the United States, so the relationship gradually became estranged.

And the second sister-in-law Zhu Li is recognized as a good daughter-in-law and a good wife in the play, at the beginning she was a woman who pursued petty bourgeoisie, loved to buy luxury goods and bags, was financially independent, and was also outstanding.

Because of Su Mingcheng's relationship, Su Mingyu rejected and hated her second sister-in-law Zhu Li at first. After all, under Su's mother's patriarchal thinking, Su Mingcheng often bullied his sister Su Mingyu.

But Zhu Li's later transformation impressed Su Mingyu.

When she learned that Su Mingcheng was gnawing at the elderly, Zhu Li took the initiative to propose a debt repayment plan and took on the responsibility of supporting the elderly Su Daqiang.

Zhu Li doesn't have too much care and scheming about this big family, and Su Mingyu sees these bits and pieces.

Although Su Daqiang's living habits with them are very different, she always thinks about problems from herself, accommodating and adapting to her father-in-law Su Daqiang.

The second sister-in-law Zhu Li is virtuous and sensible, and her general and sensible approach is clear at a glance compared to the attitude of her sister-in-law Wu Fei's avoidance, so it is natural for Su Mingyu to get close to her, and it is the real choice of human nature.

It is said that a happy childhood is a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood is a lifetime.

In the finale, Su Mingyu forgave his father Su Daqiang and began to learn to come out of the shadow of his original family.

It was also in the last contact that I found that the second sister-in-law still had a very good personality, but the sister-in-law was more calculating, so she was closer to the second sister-in-law.

The sister-in-law's family went to the United States, there are regional differences, it is impossible to say that they are too close to her, and the second sister-in-law and Mingyu are still in the same city, and there will be more opportunities for communication. There is no estrangement, just that the situation is different.

is because I found that the eldest sister-in-law was too purposeful, and the second sister-in-law was relatively straight and did not have so many eyes.

On the bright side, Mingyu is indeed closer to Zhu Li, and the most direct reason is in two words, contact.

Mingyu relied on her own strength to help her two sisters-in-law, but the reasons were different, stemming from family warmth and workplace ups and downs. Mingyu's help to Wu Fei is an external manifestation of the heart's desire for family warmth, like Xiaomi, want to be a good aunt, is a simple, selfless family love, but also from the identification with the sister-in-law Wu Fei, she can find the commonality of the image of an independent and self-reliant woman from Wu Fei.

In fact, in the original work, Mingyu and Zhu Li have a good relationship, of course, this adaptation is intentional or unintentional to create a sense of contradictory chaos, strengthen the complexity of human nature, and finally withdraw from the tedious pleasure. Although the second sister-in-law Zhu Li was not very good with Mingyu at the beginning, Mingyu felt that the second sister-in-law and the second brother were old and not self-reliant, and the second sister-in-law was pampered, butSince the second sister-in-law found out about the account books of her hometown and found out the fact that she was gnawing on the old, she had an in-depth conversation with her husband, and formulated an effective "repayment" plan, saved her own food and frugality, gave her performance bonuses to her father-in-law, and tried her best to meet many unreasonable requirements of her father-in-law. The second sister-in-law is also a person who respects the elderly, pays for the family, and can put herself in a good position.

But Zhu Li is not the only daughter in the family, she has been pampered since she was a child, she is a flower in the greenhouse, and Mingcheng has been working together to gnaw the old man since she got married, and she looks down on Zhu Li's vase from the heart, and helps her just to protect her professional conscience, after all, Mingyu also used Zhu Li's relative status to obstruct the audit, and Mingyu is still a step ahead.

However, Mingyu is vicious on the surface, but she thinks about Zhu Li every time. Mingyu helped Zhu Li get promoted, and also promised not to let Mingcheng go to prison, plus Zhu Li's mother's change of attitude towards Mingyu, valued her kindness, and supported her daughter to have more contacts with Mingyu, which can be regarded as laying the groundwork for girlfriends. Before you become a girlfriend, you can chat from the bottom of your heart.

The second brother and sister-in-law made trouble to the point of divorce, and Mingyu's first reaction was to support the divorce of the second brother and sister-in-law. But feeling that the second sister-in-law had a memory, Mingyu still persuaded him more objectively. The two of them do have something to talk about, and they can talk about it relatively well.

Speaking and doing things in harmony, they are all good women who can help Mingcheng transform.

As for why Mingyu and sister-in-law are estranged? It's not what everyone wants. The sister-in-law's evaluation of Mingyu is quite chilling.

Mingyu is not a fuel-efficient lamp", "I admire Mingyu, but only from afar". Obviously, the relationship between sister-in-law and Mingyu has always been within the scope of relatives, and she never thought of being best friends. Unlike Mingyu and Zhu Li's girlfriend relationship, it was established after Zhu Li and Mingcheng divorced.

You can talk about family affairs, you can talk about work, and you can talk about life.

Because Mingyu felt that sometimes her sister-in-law was very tired, and she didn't like to feel tired, so she changed her attitude.

is because Ming Yugang found out in the process of getting along with his sister-in-law that his sister-in-law is not as kind as she seems on the surface, and her sister-in-law has also done a lot of things that damage their family, so her attitude towards her sister-in-law has also changed.

Because Mingyu understands that the sister-in-law and the eldest brother still belong to the same hill, Mingyu doesn't like the sister-in-law very much.

Maybe it's because the sister-in-law didn't reach out to help at the critical moment, so she will change.

They later had a lot of conflicts of interest, and their attitudes towards their fathers were very different, and there were many mismatches.

Su Mingyu and two sisters-in-law, Wu Fei and Zhu Li. For these two sisters-in-law, Su Mingyu has a big difference from the beginning to the end. ignored Zhu Li from the beginning to the later solemn respect, and took care of Wu Fei at the beginning to gradually drift away.

Mingyu went to Mingcheng's house for the first timeWhen discussing the affairs of his mother's funeral,Zhu Li was very polite and made coffee for Mingyu, even if Mingyu didn't say thank you for her respect, but Zhu Li was still very polite. It may be that Su Mingyu doesn't have a good impression of Su Mingcheng, and by the way, he doesn't care much about his second sister-in-law. This shows that Zhu Li is a person who knows how to respect others, and she also knows that Mingyu must be in a very complicated mood at this time, and such a performance is also understandable.

What caused Su Mingyu to start to change her attitude towards Zhu Li? When Zhu Li learned that she and Su Mingcheng owed so much money to Su's father and Su's mother over the years, Su Mingcheng wanted to repay the debt. Julie still gladly accepted.

She did not hesitate to propose that she must pay back the money, so that Mingyu could see Zhu Li's ambition, and even Zhu Li herself said that she had the money to return it to Su's father first, so that she could raise her head in front of Su Mingyu.

If she hadn't been reasonable, she should have jumped out and made a big fuss with Mingyu, and she would have paid the bill. But Julie didn't do thatBecause she respects Zhu Li, she knows that this matter is indeed wrong with her husband, and now that she knows it, she accepts it calmly, takes the initiative to take it, and says that she is ashamed. When she said the words "I'm ashamed too", I was touched, and I think Mingyu must have been touched too.

Zhu Li and Mingyu are also workplace elites, Su Mingyu is similar to her image of a strong woman, and Su Mingyu has a bonus in Mingyu's heart for people who work hard the same time. Zhu Li went to Mingyu's company to audit, but Mingyu stabbed her on the spot as a backpad, causing Zhu Li to make a fool of herself in public and almost lose her job. As for Mingyu being beaten by Mingcheng later, it was also Mingcheng's personal behavior, not Zhu Li's instigation, and Zhu Li didn't want such a thing to happen.

And Zhu Li is very strong and has not asked Su Mingyu too much, at most she intercedes for the unfortunate Su Mingcheng, let Mingyu let Su Mingcheng go, and let Mingyu solve work problems for Su Mingcheng, and she has never asked Mingyu for her own affairs. This should be appreciated by Su Mingyu, after all, Mingyu is also a strong person, and he will not ask for help easily.

It's really rare to find a person like this, who is knowledgeable and reasonable, and knows how to understand people's affection and righteousness, based on these, Mingyu respects this second sister-in-law very much.

Because Su Mingcheng always bullied Su Mingyu when he was a child, but Zhu Li treated Su Mingyu very politely, so Su Mingyu also respected her second sister-in-law.

Mainly because Su Mingyu likes Xiao Mi very much, so she respects Zhu Li, the second sister-in-law.

Because this second sister-in-law is very smart and witty, she is especially respected.

Mainly because her mother is patriarchal and very good to her brother, but she thinks he is a girl** and doesn't like her.

That's because Mingyu's birth caused her mother to not have a good life, so her mother hated her very much.

It was because Mingyu's birth made Su's mother's life a mess, so Su's mother didn't like her, but Su's mother didn't express her kindness to Mingyu.

Su Daqiang is a strict wife, and he has no interest, so he has the lowest status in this family. And Su's mother originally wanted to divorce Su Daqiang after giving birth to two sons, but her mother disagreed and managed to make the couple pregnant again. Su Mingyu's birth can be said to have made the Su family even worse, and Su's mother almost regarded Mingyu as an object to vent the pressure of her life.

According to the original book, Su's mother originally planned to divorce because she was on good terms with a certain leader of the hospital, but after she became pregnant with Su Mingyu, she added family planning, which caused her and Su Daqiang to be demoted.

Poor Mingyu has worked hard since she was a child, but she was still treated unfairly by her mother's excessive partiality and eventually ran away from home. In fact, the two sons don't know all this, Su Daqiang knows that the Su family is sorry for Mingyu, but he is willing to say it in the end, which makes Mingzhe and Mingcheng can't believe it, especially Mingcheng, in his opinion, his mother has always been a gentle, kind and great adoptive mother, how can it be the selfish and ruthless look in his father's mouth, this is also a big blow to Mingcheng, it turns out that the Su family has always been sorry for Mingyu.

The arrival of Su Mingyu completely destroyed Zhao Meilan's life. If it weren't for Mingyu, Zhao Meilan would still have love and a better career in the second half of her life, instead of being with Su Daqiang for the rest of her life.

Zhao Meilan married Su Daqiang, not willingly, but took a fancy to Su Daqiang's conditions. "Helping Brother Demon" Zhao Meilan relied on Su Daqiang to solve the urban household registration of herself and her younger brother, but Zhao Meilan, who is beautiful and strong, does not look down on Su Daqiang at all, and Zhao Meilan has always been in a state of compromise in marriage.

With the development of Zhao Meilan's career, she gradually grasped the economic power at home, and she wanted to leave Su Daqiang more and more. Zhao Meilan met the "old friend" at the class reunion, a doctor in Shanghai, Zhao Meilan decided to go to Shanghai with him, coincidentally, at this time Zhao Meilan found out that she was pregnant, pregnant with Mingyu.

**There is a danger to her life, Zhao Meilan had to give birth to Mingyu, the "old friend" has long been gone, and the Su family was also punished by "superbirth" because of Mingyu's birth, and the Su family's economic level plummeted.

Commenting on Su Mingyu's life in the Su family is extremely suffocating, she chose to leave the Su family and work alone, which is also the most helpless choice after being hurt again and again, in fact, Su Mingyu is very eager for family affection, but the Su family only gives her desperation.

Su's mother is eccentric, and his father Su Daqiang is selfish and cowardly, and he watches his daughter angry; Su Mingzhe is indecisive, Su Mingcheng has violent tendencies, it is such a family, Su Mingyu still accepted them kindly after his career was successful.