What kind of marriage is a good marriage?

1.Minded.

Many people don't pay attention to like-mindedness, and after a few years of marriage, they find that two people are becoming more and more boring together, without common spiritual beliefs, and when they want to talk, it seems that the other party can't understand themselves, and they don't speculate for more than half a sentence. I can't agree on issues such as educating children, running a family, and spending a different view, and the same bed and different dreams slowly become improvised.

And spiritually compatible, the two of them have endless topics to talk about throughout their lives.

2.Complementary.

For example, personality, ability, knowledge, material money, appearance, intelligence, etc., you have what he doesn't have, he doesn't have what he has, two people can achieve a long-term strategic cooperative relationship, can help each other. Being in love is not the same as getting married. Love is a kind of emotional exchange, and marriage is the exchange of value, which determines whether the marriage is long-lasting, and looks at whether two people can provide value and emotional value to each other.

It is also a kind of value.

3.Look up to each other.

When you look down on a person from the bottom of your heart, your disgust and dislike can't be hidden, and you can't help but want to suppress the other party, so that a vicious circle has been formed.

4.People who are confident in each other and love themselves, how can people who don't love themselves love others?

Many people's mistakes lie in choosing a partner to focus on the other party must love you beyond life, love you to the point of madness, love to the point of no ego, love to think that you leave is about the same as the sky falling, such people are often very dangerous, when you choose to leave, your trouble will come, a person who does not care about his life is bound to have the idea of "if you don't get it, you will destroy it".

5.There is a sense of growth and improvement.

Marriages come to the point of improvisation, often from one partner who wants to improve the relationship, and the other party does not, refusing to talk about refusing to improve. In the long run, the party who originally hoped to improve the marriage was exhausted and gradually numb, so both people reached a consensus to make do, and ignored that the marriage harmony of the two people is the foundation of the child's education. If the relationship between parents is good, the child's psychology will be healthy, and the child's family of origin.

The environment is shaped by the male and female hosts.

Two people have the same three views, can quickly agree on things, can understand each other's thoughts, and will respect each other and understand each other.

When two people encounter problems, they will communicate and exchange in a timely manner, think about problems from each other's point of view, trust each other, do not suspect each other, and get along well A marriage is a good marriage.

Two people can complement each other, no matter what problems they encounter, both of them can get a good solution, and they will not say some cruel things in life and will not talk about each other's shortcomings.

Character comes first. Character covers many aspects such as character, self-cultivation, upbringing, and sense of responsibility, and a good character is the most basic element of the family. Poor character actually includes personality disadvantages such as selfishness, self-centeredness, irritable personality, isolation, and unsociability.

Therefore, when girls are looking for male partners, they must keep their eyes open, and they must not "look at the appearance", only look at the appearance, and ignore the inside. By the way: you must listen to what your parents say!

Don't assume that you choose the best.

Strength is the guarantee. The strength mentioned here should not be simply considered to be financial resources. The "strength" I am talking about is more inclined to the survival ability of the other half.

Because of a certain strength, the family at least has economic security in the later stage of marriage, and will not end up in the situation of "poor and lowly couples mourning everything". For male objects, the most basic skills to have, you can be knowledgeable, turning knowledge into economic ability, or ordinary, have a skill to support yourself, in short, you must have serious money-making skills, not idle. Therefore, the strength mentioned here also refers to the actual ability, when a gay man who has the ability to make money becomes the object, no matter how much money he has, his life will always move forward, so that the other half will not be dragged down, and his life will be difficult and difficult.

The family is the reference. When looking for a male partner, you should also refer to the situation of your parents' family, the most important thing is to see if the family is harmonious and normal, and whether your parents have a correct outlook. The impact of a good family background on a person is yes.

If the parents are selfish, unreasonable, and unhappy in marriage, this will have a great impact on a person's later marriage and family.

What factors are needed to get married.

1. Factor 1 required for marriage: the status disparity between the two parties is not too large.

Although it is said that it is not quiet and pays attention to the right door now, as long as you love each other, but in real life, it is not that there is love, but also consider whether each other's family conditions are too different, if one party's family conditions are very good, one party is poor, one party will be more inferior, and the party with good conditions will always feel that he is a little married, once the contradiction between two people breaks out, there will be a crisis in married life.

2. Factor 2 required for marriage: both parties are independent enough.

The so-called independence, not only refers to economic independence but also ideological independence and independence of life, if the other party is so old, everything is arranged by the parents, and even the feelings between each other also need to be handled by the parents, the mind is not independent enough, there is no own opinion, life can not be independent, can not do everything by themselves, as long as two people have a conflict, the parents have come forward to interfere and participate, then choose such a person to marry, the marriage will often have contradictions in the future, and even the marriage cracks.

3. Factor 3 required for marriage: both parties get along harmoniously.

When you and your lover feel that there is a kind of mutuality between you, then you are happy together, love is mutual, if you are cautious that the other party's heart is always single, then your marriage will eventually have problems.

4. Factor 4 required for marriage: both parties are easy to communicate.

After two people fall in love, it is easy to communicate problems in most cases, and the two can open their hearts to each other very comfortably, and they can face anything very frankly with each other without worrying about being suspected or despised by their lovers, then there should be no quarrels after marriage. You can be with someone with the same cultural cultivation as you, or you can find someone with a higher cultivation than you, or not as good as you, and the wealth is the same, but your values must be the same, if there is a deviation in each other's values, then it is better to leave each other as soon as possible.

Under normal circumstances, the male fortune eight-character marriage is based on the fortune star, and the female fortune-telling marriage is based on the official star.

In the eight characters, the wealth star official star and those who have a harmonious life experience are mostly happy in marriage, and those who are born in the years of great luck will be doubly happy, and those who are in harmony with the great luck in the year will have a discordant temperament, and their blessings will be halved; Those who are serious will be separated from each other and go their separate ways.

1. The Japanese branch is to use God to support life, the husband cares about his wife, the husband and wife have a good relationship, and it is helpful to himself; Weak and controlled, husband and wife do not return to lead for a long time.

2. The Japanese branch is jealous of God's life, the marriage is not beautiful, and there are concerns about divorce when they marry late; Weak and imprinted and leaked, the marriage is happy, and the husband is of great help to his wife.

3, the official star has been working for the recent days, and the wife has the help of her husband; The official star and the prosperous minister have to be supported again, the roots are thoroughly dried, and the wife will have to ride the dragon and the son-in-law; The official star is dry, weak and controlled, and the husband is incapacitated.

4. The Japanese branch is the god of use, and it is a superior marriage to be supported by the birth, and it is a great help to his career because of the care of his husband. The Japanese branch is a jealous god, the marriage is not smooth, the relationship is not good, and the marriage is late; If you are jealous and have to be supported by life, you will have the pain of life and death.

5, the official star is the god of use, prosperous in the moon, and the husband is handsome; Sit down with a tall root; has to be supported again, and he is famous for the official. The official star is a god of use, weaker than the moon order, and the husband looks average; Sitting, rootless, short; If you are dry and controlled, you will marry a second husband.

6, the official star is a jealous god, prosperous in the moon order, and the husband looks average; Sitting down has a short root; If you have to give birth again, your husband will be a bad person, and your marriage will not last long.

7. From the weak life bureau, the official is the use of God, the prosperous phase is powerful, and the husband is the official; The official star is a jealous god, and if there is no system, he will be a husband, and if he is supported by the birth without a system, he will marry a second husband.

8. No matter what the pattern, as long as the official star plays a bad role in the game, the marriage is not happy.

9. No matter what kind of pattern is missing, as long as the official star plays a good role in the bureau, the wife has the help of her husband and the marriage is beautiful.

I believe that all the difficulties in the dark are arranged, and it is my duty to fight for myself, and I must rely on my own control.

It is fate for two people to be able to meet, whether they meet to make people love each other or hate each other, it is fate. Positive relations have a strong attraction.

The so-called fate is actually not what we generally understand as destining two people to be together, and two people are together. But when you meet someone you are tempted by, this is destined to give you fate, but it will not be destined for your result, the result needs to be created by yourself, and whether the result is good or bad depends on yourself. When fate comes, that person will come to you.

When a person's fate comes, both parties like each other, but for some reason, it seems that there is a person who manipulates the suspicion, but sometimes when the fate comes, you have to rely on yourself to fight for it, and you don't have to force it if you can't fight for it. In fact, each one has its own biomagnetic field, what we are looking for is the one that resonates with us, the biomagnetic field is innate, no one is completely consistent with the magnetic field of others, what we are looking for is just a big magnetic field, so the other half we want to find is destined, that is, fate is destined.

There are many forms of fate between people, no matter which one they belong to, there is a certain way to get along, if you understand this truth, then you can usually get along more pleasantly.

Three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work! There is also little fate, and it is really unclear. But it's also real.

If there is fate, even if they are thousands of miles apart, they can meet each other. If you don't have a chance, you don't know each other. Of course, fate is also deep and shallow.

People who are not related to you can only become passers-by in your life, and will only stay in your life for a short time. Perhaps, we have known each other and loved each other, but in the end, we will also separate. Because of this fate, it can only end here.

When the fate is over, it will be dispersed. Therefore, for this kind of fate, we should not have resentment, nor regret, but should be grateful. I am grateful to have met each other, and I have had such a good experience with each other.

I thought that this encounter made our life more exciting, and it would not be too dull. And some people have a deep fate with us, even if there is a misunderstanding in the middle and there is an excessive reunion, but in the end they can still come together and stay together for a lifetime. Fate is full of variables.

It's the same with fate. We can't be sure who will end up with us for a long time. We also can't be sure who is only a short-lived resident.

But whether it is a guest who rubs shoulders or misses love, even if there is only one trip of laughter and touching, it also makes each other feel the taste of happiness. Whether it is a guest who rubs shoulders or misses love, even if there is only one trip of laughter and touching, it also makes each other feel the taste of happiness. As long as we cherish every fate we encounter, our lives will become wonderful enough.

Cherish every encounter, and when you are old, you will not leave regrets and regrets. Only when you can afford it and let it go can you usher in a better future and usher in the next beauty. In this life, I am worthy of myself, worthy of every encounter, worthy of every fate, and have a clear conscience, which is enough.

So sometimes there may be a lot of things that people don't know.

Stuff. So hard work is also a must.