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Most of the leftover women find second-married men to marry because the mentality of leftover women is more materialistic, and it is not that there are no young people who are willing to marry. Marriage and population issues are big problems in society, why do leftover women always choose second-married men? Food for thought.
Marriage in the whole society is structured, and if you think about it carefully, you will find certain patterns. First of all, most girls will choose a man with better financial means to marry. Because women are too vulnerable, she is very dependent on the man's economic foundation.
Both she and her family hope that the girl will marry a man with better economic conditions. It's best to be taller so that you feel more dependent. The same goes for leftover women.
I hope to marry a boy with better economic conditions. Because it is rare for girls to have premarital sex, most of the leftover women are still relatively pure, and there are few pure girls in this age group, so leftover women are actually very sought-after. Second-married men have very good economic conditions, which meets the criteria for choosing a mate for leftover women.
Therefore, leftover women will always look for second-married men.
This is not to blame for leftover women. Leftover women generally refer to women after the age of 30, and women in this age group themselves don't care much about love. So it will be more realistic.
Ordinary young men can't take these leftover women. There is no common topic between the two. For leftover women, marriage is more important than love.
Therefore, leftover women rarely marry young talents, unless they are particularly financially well-off.
In the age group of leftover women, men who have not yet married are mainly because economic conditions do not allow it. So the advantage of second-married men is that they are more wealthy than men who are not yet married. Of course, this is only a probabilistic consideration.
There is no doubt that some men like to be single, and they don't get married in their thirties. But it's rare. Because in the traditional view of China:
There are three kinds of unfilial piety. No queen is greater. What if a man in his thirties is not married and cannot have children in his life? Therefore, in the final analysis, it is not so much that most of the leftover women end up marrying second-married men, but that most of the leftover women end up finding rich people to marry.
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Normally, leftover women are people with superior conditions or strong abilities, they often have high requirements for their other half, so they will become leftover women, after becoming leftover women, they will lower their mate selection standards, but not all kinds of people can be married? They still have to find some people who are relatively suitable for them, and these people are often second-married men, so most of the remaining women end up marrying second-married men.
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Because age does not recruit people, as the years increase, your age is also increasing, and those who are suitable for marriage have already started a family, only those who are on the verge of second marriage because they finally have excellent talents, so they can only choose these.
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Because second-married men are mature and stable, and they will also take care of people, there will only be contradictions when looking for the first one, and single men will only despise you, and no one wants you anyway, and when they quarrel, they will say that you are just a leftover woman.
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Because good men are married, they will find a second marriage.
Otherwise, who would willingly choose to marry a second-married man.
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Not all older leftover women will find a second-married man to marry. Generally, girls who are looking for a second-married man to marry may have lost trust in marriage and just want to find someone to make do with. But I have a girl I love in my heart, and she will definitely find someone she likes and likes her to live with.
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Most of the leftover women end up marrying second-married men, because generally because the leftover women are older, then there are fewer opportunities to choose. Therefore, only second-married men can be chosen to marry.
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Because most of the men who have never been married with some ability are looking for young people, only the unmarried poor and the second-married are left, and the second-married men are better than the unmarried poor men in terms of economy and consideration, so the choice of one can only choose the second-married man with a little advantage.
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Because the leftover women are generally older, if you want to find an unmarried man, the conditions are basically not very good, so you can only choose your own suitable among the second-married men.
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The reason why most of the saints end up marrying a second-married man is that it is not easy for them to find a man who has never been married, and besides, they are not afraid of having no partner for leftover men like them.
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Because 12-year-old men know how to cherish their feelings more and feel more secure for older leftover women, they will do this.
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Hello, because second-married men know how to take care of girls, most of the remaining women end up marrying second-married men, so as to make their lives happier and more satisfying.
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Because they can't find a boy who matches his age, they will find a man who is married for the second time, in fact, it is also for the age of the two people to be more matched!
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Because leftover women know that second-married men who have experienced failed marriages will love their wives more, and know how to accommodate and tolerate their wives more.
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Because a good man has already started a family, and the conditions for a second-married man are still good, the older leftover women lowered their conditions to accept a second-married man.
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This is because many older leftover women have no advantage in marriage and love, so many older girls will choose to settle and choose to marry a man who is married for the second time.
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Because most of the leftover women find a second marriage, he hopes to find a good boy, and the boy may not necessarily fall in love with such a girl, and he will take it off after a long time.
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Most of the leftover women end up looking for second-married boys, because they are too old, and they can only find second-married men, dizzy, not so old.
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Because high-quality single men have found those young and good-looking women to marry, the remaining women can only marry some rich second-married men.
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Personally, I think that because the leftover women feel that the men who are married for the second time are very mature and very good at living, they choose to be with them.
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Because people of the same age have been turned into husbands who refer to others, it is impossible for him to find a younger one at this age, so he is looking for a second-married man to marry.
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The situation you mentioned is not universal, and older leftover women are not all going to find second-married men to marry, and some of them have this situation, and they always feel that they are leftover women, and they can lower their own mate selection standards, I think this is a kind of irresponsibility for their own lives.
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There are indeed a lot of such phenomena in life. As they get older, they will feel that they have to find a marriage partner, and in their eyes, the second male is more experienced, more mature and stable, and can take care of people.
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Most leftover women end up marrying second-married men, mainly because they are of the same age and such people are able to talk about going together.
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Lower the bar, I met a woman 79 years older than me at the bachelor party. I like young ones, her best friend comes to do my work, I say I go to a bachelorette party I have a crush on you, I don't feel anything for her. Later, neither of them succeeded.
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Because I think they may be older, if they want to find a boy for their first marriage, they usually can't find it, so it's more troublesome.
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Because a married man understands women better, knows what women want in marriage, and cherishes the next marriage even more.
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A married man doesn't look for a leftover woman!
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If you can't sell it, you can deal with it at a discount.
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Because the leftover women pick and choose, pick and choose, and in the end there is no way, I feel that if I find a younger one, I have to be an old mother, it is better to find a second marriage, or an older man to marry, and I can still be considerate by them, so most of them are like this.
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In the hearts of men, leftover women can become their first lovers, and they can inspire Lu to fall in love until they grow old, which is relatively simple, and leftover women are more picky, and they have never found the right person, and they are still trying to find a husband, although there are problems and defects, but after all, they are not married, and they are still stronger than second-married women in the eyes of men. The second-married woman is someone else's wife, and she may leave herself one day, and she has a past experience, the man will have a shadow, and if he has a child, the relationship is more difficult, and it is difficult for the man to accept.
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In the hearts of men, leftover women are too demanding of the other half, so they generally dare not try it easily. A second-married woman is too low a requirement for the other half, resulting in a failed marriage.
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In the hearts of men, leftover women can become their first lovers, and it is relatively simple to be able to fall in love with each other until they are old and sold.
The second-married woman is someone else's wife and may one day leave her.
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What is the difference between a leftover woman and a second-married woman in a man's heart? The leftover women are older women, and the young second-married women are married.
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This question is similar in women's hearts, and the answer to the difference between leftover men and second-married men is the same.
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I don't think there should be a problem.
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In today's society, there are more and more older men and women, and as an unmarried older leftover woman, if you have to choose a chaotic choice, I think I will choose an older leftover man instead of a divorced man.
Older leftover men are divided into two situations, one is too good, and ordinary girls can't match him, that is, we usually say that the vision is too high, and the family background and education are particularly good. Another kind of noisy leftover man is that the family conditions are not good, and the personal ability is not strong, this kind of man is not high-quality. In China, we have a traditional concept that we would rather find an older leftover man than a divorced man.
It's not that divorced men are bad, but our traditional concepts bind us, and there are few people who are married for the second time, so generally unmarried girls will not go to find a second-married man. Second-married men basically have children, and I want to meet young female friends who don't want to be stepmothers as soon as they get married, so most of them won't choose second-married men.
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Personally, I think that older leftover women should not marry a second-married man, because second-married men will have children if they have more limbs. And after bringing children, they only have children in their hearts, and such a marriage will have problems again.
Many men prefer to marry older leftover women, because their marriage records are blank, and their emotional needs may be more simple, rather than looking for someone to pick up the mess.
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