I m a sophomore and I m depressed in love

As long as you love, you will chase boldly, don't be like me, you lost the opportunity, as long as you confess boldly, you will not regret it, even if it doesn't work, you know?

You. Why don't you continue to contact her.

Just one word, I'll only say it once!

Just say that you have been wondering if you want to tell her what you think of her for the past two months, just confess it boldly!

Of course, hurry up and contact her, at least she has a good impression of you, but if you take the initiative not to contact others, others will definitely think that you don't like her, and girls are more shy, so I'm embarrassed to take the initiative to contact you, you have to be a little bold, a little confident, take the initiative to contact her, ask her to hang out, chat or something, I believe it's still too late, come on.

Then you send him a message.

First Strike... Miss, do you have time to enjoy your face?

Look at her, if you agree, there is still a chance between you.

Then take advantage of it.

1. Love can not affect learning: although college students can fall in love, but should still be based on academics, can not affect learning, the main task of college students is to study, love is secondary, love should promote both parties to study harder, for the future of both parties to lay a good foundation, not because of love when the wrong study, in the end the bamboo basket is empty.

2. Financially within one's means: during the college period, college students can not be financially independent, and they must rely on their families to provide the cost of study and life, and love must have a certain amount of consumption, which requires two people to do what they can, and the economic expenditure during the relationship can not exceed the scope of both parties, otherwise it will affect the study and life of both parties.

3. Romance is not in friendship: It is impossible to succeed in the end when you take students to fall in love, so even if you break up, you must leave a good impression on each other, rather than hurting each other, and ensure that the relationship is not in friendship.

College students are already adults, and sophomores can fall in love, but they can't delay their studies.

Yes, but try not to go out alone, because in your sophomore year, you are not very old, and you can't guarantee that your boyfriend is very safe for you, as reported in many news, there have been many similar cases. If your parents know you're together, you can take your parents on a trip with her. If you don't know, you can go with friends if you have them, and the more people you bring, the safer it is.

You may think that your boyfriend is very good to you and will not do anything bad, but people are separated from each other, and you are only a sophomore and you can't talk about it for long, and you can't guarantee how well you know him.

I have a few suggestions if you really plan to go with him:

1: Bring anti-wolf supplies in case of emergency, don't believe that a boy has good self-control, girls must learn to protect themselves and love themselves.

2: Be sure to live separately, go out to play can not avoid accommodation problems, must not save money, live in a room even if he has two beds or even two rooms, talk about grandchildren in the middle of the night and don't open the door to anyone, their own safety is the most important.

3: In the process of traveling, you must learn the AA system, not to refer to the absolute AA but for example, he paid the last fee, and the next cost will be paid by you, don't think that he will take you to travel and let him bear everything, even if he is a rich second generation.

4: And the most important point, try not to quarrel with him during the trip, if he does not turn around and leave you, and you are alone in an unfamiliar place, it is inevitable that you will encounter bad things, so even if you have an unpleasant relationship with the waiter, wait until you return home.

That's all I have to say, in fact, many people want to go out and have good memories when they are in love, and I don't disagree with such an idea, but we should go when we have the ability to protect ourselves and have a certain financial ability, not only to have a safe environment, but also to have better conditions to experience the beauty of travel.

I hope my advice will help you, and I hope that you and your boyfriend will get better and better.

Summary. Falling in love at school is the lowest cost of all life stages, and it is relatively pure, so you can experience true love at this time! It doesn't have to be with you for life, though!

Some students will ask questions like: Should I be in love during college? I want to fall in love, but when I think of the future, I feel that this kind of love is particularly illusory, and it is a question whether two people can come together, so is it necessary to fall in love?

Or wait until you graduate? What do you think about the problem of falling in love during college?

No matter what the outcome of two people falling in love in the future is, the college object is an exercise for the body and mind of men and women, and an opportunity for a deep understanding of feelings, so no college student should let go of finding a partner in this pure and budding season. The university is a kind of beginning for college students who have been closed for a long time to integrate into society, and it is a social mode to enter the society.

But this is on the premise of not affecting your studies.

Falling in love at school is the lowest cost of all life stages, and it is relatively pure, so you can experience true love at this time! It doesn't have to be with you for life, though!

First, don't talk about looks.

My own subjective evaluation is never accurate, even if he is really handsome, he will not be so easy to find a partner without some capital and interpersonal skills, especially now that a large number of high-quality resources in this female college student have flowed out of the school, and the beauties who honestly stay in the school and study with peace of mind must also be high-spirited, and the criteria for choosing a man cannot only include appearance.

Second, in the end, you're just because you don't have a girlfriend in this pantothenic acid, in fact, fools know that having an object in college is better than nothing, although college students are more realistic now, after all, the purity of campus love is relatively high, and after entering the society, the probability of peach blossom luck in the poor boy is even lower.

Third, love is not marriage, you don't need to buy a house or a car, and it doesn't cost too much money to fall in love in college (of course, if you want to say that it is a poor student, no money must be useless), any love has uncertainties in the future, and the uncertainty in college is graduation, so there is still a timetable for you to summarize those articles, not so much as a reason, but to make excuses for yourself. Forget it, since you can't find it for the time being, let's use these excuses to deceive ourselves first. If you really have the opportunity, don't fool yourself and miss it.

Actually, you're thinking too much.

It's over, you don't think that everything is right or wrong. There is still a middle ground in everything.

How to understand this sentence? Let's talk to you.

You currently see too many classmates in love, and the contradiction between your herd mentality and long-term rational thinking makes you feel unhappy. In fact, the solution is to make more friends, of course, including friends of the same sex and friends of the opposite sex.

Both of these can relieve your psychological stress, otherwise in the long run, your psychological anxiety will become a disease.

Happiness ...

It's mainly about looking for a sense of youth, right? It doesn't have to be a result.

You don't have to spend money.

A lot of money goes to the woman, such as the female bai, you must spend money and divide it, isn't it good for everyone to rely on each other, if you are handsome but don't fall in love in college, you will be too a failure, ask experienced seniors, they won't laugh at you, at most a joke, you don't have to be in love to the end. But it's definitely right to study hard, you might as well try it now, as long as what you say is right, you will definitely be able to find a good girl, but you can't give up learning, and you have to take care of your feelings, it's up to you, come on, don't waste your youth, and you'll regret dying when you're old.

。。。Later, wait until you get to work, and then find one.

Or try it now by finding a place where you feel ...

You won't be lonely all the time.

There are many people who regret not having a relationship in college after graduation, and when their youth is gone, you find that they can't find anything to make you belong to.

It's hard to give up the memory, isn't that a bit of a pity, and who said that falling in love affects learning, you can make progress together, read books together, go to the library, eat and shop, how warm, and one more person around you will learn to have more responsibilities, more thoughtfulness, which will also help you to mature, college is not only to learn textbooks, but also a place for you to learn to be a person before going to society. Campus romance can be cultivated to achieve positive results better, if not, this is also a rare lesson in life, or a good memory, even if sometimes there will be a slight sadness and pain when I think of it, but it exists, it is beautiful, and the result of life is just a death, but some people think about the wonderful life before they die, without regrets, and some people are monotonous and boring, regret and go. So if you meet, don't miss it because of the reason you appealed, and of course, if fate hasn't arrived, don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love.

Whether you choose to fall in love, choose to study, or choose both, but no matter what choice you make, don't give up your choice, let alone regret it, time can't go back.

So unconfident, who wants to talk to you? It's really boring to fall in love with someone with a feudal mind like you.

It's almost, I think I'm not bad at myself, and no one is chasing me. But I only envy it occasionally, I don't like people sticking to me, and the living expenses of college are not enough, not enough to play friends. It's better to study hard

Academics are important and can only be obtained after graduation.

When you meet what you like and talk about what you like, there are many college couples who end up getting married, and the key is whether you meet the right one.

People, don't envy others to find someone to fall in love with, it is irresponsible to yourself and others. If you don't fall in love, you can have more time to study, find a good job in the future, a man's career will develop well, it is easy to find a good wife, and girls are very realistic now.

Falling in love or depending on the mechanism of encounters, when you meet the girl you like, it is inevitable to like it, maybe this is your last campus love, the last innocence, just talk about it later, don't think too much, it will get better slowly, cherish the last campus beauty now, the innocent time!!

None of this is a problem, it's a sign of irresponsibility. Why do you think that college love must be ineffective? My boyfriend and I started our sophomore year, and now that we have graduated, our relationship is still very good, and the two of us are working hard together for our future. I want you to get your point right.

It should be talked about. Falling in love is a necessary process in almost everyone's life, don't deliberately overcome it.

College is about love, not marriage. There's no need to think so much about realistic things. You will spend the next few decades of your life in reality.

If you are lucky, meet the right person, grab the tail of youth, and talk about a simple love that has nothing to do with reality. At least for a lifetime of spiritual food.

My partner and I were together in college, and now we're still together after graduation, depending on who you choose.

First of all, life is boring because you can't find what you want to do, studying is annoying, classmates are terrible, participating in club activities is stupid, and those who enter the student union are pretending to be 13 ......Thoughts like these are normal, but not objective. The result of long-term "boredom" is that the moment you graduate, you will find that you are just wasting your time, perhaps cynical, or indulging in all kinds of games, and finally useless in life.

On college campuses, it is normal to fall in love, but the initial motivation of many people who fall in love is boredom, because there is no one to accompany them, because everyone else is in love, and because they have a ...... to bring out faceThoughts like these are normal, but also naïve. Of course, the result of this "naivety" may be to hurt oneself or others. Love is beautiful, but as a college student, you should have a certain ideological opinion, don't hurt this beauty because of simple emptiness and loneliness.

I don't know what I want, I don't know what I do, I don't know what I have, and I don't know what ...... I'm losingLife is just like this, many "don't know", many "others do it, so I also do it" years pass.

Falling in love in college shouldn't be anything wrong, as long as it doesn't affect your studies (but it will definitely affect your studies).

I regretted not falling in love for four years in college, and I regretted falling in love for a lifetime. . .

Please, how can falling in love in college be a waste of life, the process of falling in love is actually a learning process, so that you can be more aware of what kind of partner is most suitable for you and what kind of emotional life you want. Besides, sooner or later you are going to get married, if you don't take the time to fall in love now, you will definitely waste time on a blind date = = Besides, the major is not good and nothing, you see that there are actually very few people in the workplace who work related to their majors, so they are confident, okay?? Whether it's in school, future work, or in love!