Why don t men face up to your problems? Do you understand?

If a man keeps answering you questions and refuses to give a sincere response, then he may just pretend to love you. If a man loves you with all his heart, he will not easily run away from the questions you ask. When the relationship between you matures, you ask him a man:

When are you going to marry me? "And he is hesitant to talk about other things, and he is unwilling to face up to the situation you have raised, which means that he is uneasy, and he may not be ready to marry you, she is just playing with you. If a man truly loves you, his problem mentality will also seem extraordinarily sincere.

Even if your question might touch on his personal message, or if you're talking about something he doesn't like, he won't easily look at you impatiently. In turn, it will tactfully remind him that this is also his private information, and it is inconvenient for him to respond. In a relationship, if a man keeps answering the wrong questions, there are two main reasons.

One is that he is deliberately avoiding his own problems, and he pretends to be stupid with understanding; The second is that he doesn't understand his own questions at all, he doesn't know what you really want to know, and he lacks common topics and necessary tacit understanding between him and you.

No matter what the reason or motivation, it shows that she is just pretending to love you, and he doesn't really understand and love you. When we meet such a man, how can we protect ourselves?

I think there is a saying that makes a lot of sense, women hate being deceived by others, but they like to deceive themselves. Sometimes, women also understand that when a man is going to deceive himself and ask others for help, although he already understands that the man does not love him, he just doesn't dare to admit it, and he always wants to deceive himself again. Just like my little sister Liuliu, she got along with a flowery man when she was in college, everyone knows that this man has many girlfriends in addition to Liuliu, not only accounting for Liuliu's cost-effectiveness, but also always letting him pay for himself.

Everyone is upset about Liuliu, but Liuliu doesn't listen to anything, every time she asks her boyfriend, do you love me? Men just have to say, commodity, how could I not love you anymore? He could continue to exist like an ostrich.

In the end, her boyfriend met a girl he particularly liked, so he immediately broke up with Liuliu, and said everywhere that he and Liuliu were actually nothing, it was all Liuliu's wishful thinking.

All of a sudden, Liuliu became the object of everyone's teasing. Look at how ruthless and rational a man is, when she doesn't love someone, it can be said that she doesn't even want to deceive me. Therefore, women, please be sober in the face of love, if a man doesn't even want to be positive, then you have to be careful, if you insist on going your own way, you can only be scarred later.

No one in this world is worthy of hurting yourself like that, and that one who perfunctory your man is even less worthy.

It must be because your question is too aggressive, the man doesn't know what to do, he worries about the truth and may make you angry.

Men may choose to escape at this time, and men may not be ready for this problem yet.

I didn't know what to say for a while. Because I think it's never too late to talk about it in the future, because I think you will be full of expectations, and you will definitely not miss it, and you won't have any regrets.

Men are not positive, just because they don't love.

Because for a man, being positive means a promise, and if he doesn't love you, he won't give you any promises, so he avoids answering. After all, men are the most honest when they are not in love, so honest that they will not even give you a lie to comfort you.

A man who really loves you will definitely give you affirmation, no matter how much trouble you make, no matter how many nonsensical questions you throw, he will give you an affirmation, because he knows that this will give you a sense of security.

And when you have a sense of security, you will be happy and happy.

What should you do if the man you love is particularly fond of prevaricating you in this ambiguous way?

1. Be sober and rational and don't deceive yourself.

There is a saying that makes a lot of sense, women, they don't like others to deceive themselves, but they especially like to deceive themselves. Many times, women also know that a man is lying to herself, and when she goes to ask someone for help, she already understands that this man doesn't love herself, but she doesn't want to admit it, and she always wants to deceive herself again.

So women, please be sober in love, if a man doesn't even want to face you, then you have to be careful, if you are obsessed, you can only be bruised in the end.

2. You must love yourself well and don't pay for the scumbag.

I don't know why, many girls will be very humble when they meet a scumbag, which is probably a unique ability of a scumbag, they can provide you with high emotional value.

Let you want to give until you forget yourself.

Before a man has a clear relationship between you, please love yourself well and don't pay anything for him, because only if he doesn't love you, he will do this step by step routine for you, and if he loves you, he will use the best sense of ritual.

Makes you feel certain.

3. Be sure to stop losses in time and don't fall deeper and deeper.

Many scumbags will use this way to avoid responsibility by not facing your problems, and those girls who are not firm enough are particularly prone to wavering in the face of such men, and then fall deeper and deeper.

If you meet a scumbag who can never give you a future and is always perfunctory to you, please stop your losses in time, and don't wait until you have nothing to pay before leaving the scene.

The only reason why a man doesn't face you is not to love you, because if he loves you, he can't bear to hesitate so much.

So, stop hurting yourself, leave the person who doesn't love you, love yourself a little more, and eventually someone will come to you and give you the strongest sense of security, make you happy, and make you happy.

Because he's running away from the problem.