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Parent-child contact interaction is good and can enhance emotion.
However, not everyone is used to it, and this involves the habits of parents or the atmosphere of your family.
Of course, in China, many people are more conservative and may not be used to intimate contact, unlike foreign countries, where kissing and saying I love you every day is commonplace.
Not being used to contact doesn't necessarily mean they don't love you
Let's find out if there's a better way to communicate
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You and your parents are normal. When a girl is older, it is normal for her to have less physical contact with her father.
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This question should vary from person to person, and you should know very well what your parents are.
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When our daughters are older, we should be reserved, and our parents love us.
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You have ADHD, you !!Ordinary people don't have such a high level of comprehension, and they don't know Confucianism like in foreign countries, Chinese. You are so old, your father will definitely have some taboos with you, and it is also for your good, so as not to be seen by others and say that you are inappropriate and ruin your reputation.
If you are like Li Jiacheng and other wealthy families, you are surrounded by people who accept foreign ideas, and people will not say anything about you if you are open. If you want to show affection to your parents, you should show it in what they think is happiness.
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You can be close, but there must be a degree.
Why should there be a degree, becauseIt is very important for children to develop gender awareness
In infancy and early childhood, every child will be too close to their parents, this is normal, it is an expression of love. However, children's sexual consciousness begins to sprout at the age of 4-6, and parents need a certain awareness of gender boundaries when getting along with their children. If children are gender conscious, they do not understand that "the relationship between the opposite sex needs boundaries", and it is natural that they can get close to other members of the opposite sex like their parents, and if children can be gender conscious, they can help them establish a "physical defense" to avoid being hurt in the process of growing up.
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Of course, fathers can be close to their daughters, especially when their daughters are young, but they should also pay attention to the scale, especially when their daughters reach puberty, they should not be too close, because men and women are different, and it is still necessary to pay attention to mastering proportions.
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Absolutely. But if the daughter is older, she should not be too intimate when she reaches puberty, it will not be good.
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Before the age of five, the father can be close to his daughter, and after the age of five, he will gradually avoid suspicion.
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Yes, but it's just a father-daughter relationship, and there should be a degree of intimacy. There should be privacy.
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As a child, you could. What about when you get older? It's not going to work, waves. After all, the daughter is older and the father is the father. At least there is a degree! I can't kiss you like I did when I was a child. Hold on, whatever, whatever!
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When the daughter is young, she can be close to her daughter, but as she grows older, she should be selective in her adolescent years.
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Fathers and daughters are closer, and fathers generally prefer daughters to sons.
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Yes, cuddle, hug, kiss, hold hands.
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Men avoid their mothers, women avoid their fathers, and no matter how close their parents are, they should have a measured and measured scale.
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When the daughter grows up, there are some behaviors that you still need to pay attention to, you can be close to your daughter but you must also have a moderation.
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I don't know how to say it! My child was also anxious to get some things done when she was studying, she didn't eat or sleep, she ran to my room one night and said Daddy, I'm stressed! I don't want to tell her mother, I said, what do you want to say and do it?
She said, I just want to sleep with your dad, right?
I felt uncomfortable, the children were 17 years old, and I said yes!
It's always been like this, and now that children are admitted to key universities, it's nothing, right?
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This is the traditional patriarchal thinking that is at work, they think that if you want to get this love, you should go to your in-laws to get this attention!
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When children are young, the relationship between parents and children must be close and sweet.
It doesn't matter if the gender is not the same, when the father is young, he will bathe his little daughter and change the diaper of his little daughter, which is a very normal thing in itself, and the mother will also take care of her son in this way, so this intimate normal relationship is nothing, but when the child is getting older and older, just like if he has become an adult, he still needs to have a certain boundary, whether it is physically or psychologically, he needs a certain boundary, only to maintain a certain boundary, In order to enable children to grow up more healthily. <>
When the daughter is an adult, the father should maintain a certain boundary and distance from the daughter, this boundary and distance is not in the relationship between the two of you, but in some daily contactFor example, some parents, he is usually very close to the child, he and the child may express love in a hug or kiss, but if the child grows up slowly, if a daughter she is an adult, in this case, the father should stop such behavior, and at the same time should reduce the intimate behavior with the child, this is just some physical, of course, the closer the two people in the heart, the better. <>
I believe everyone has heard of a more traditional Chinese saying, that is, a woman avoids her father。Many fathers especially hope that their children have some intimate behavior with themselves, it seems that this will better express the relationship and love between two people, especially some fathers think that their daughters will not stick to themselves when they grow up, because they can't keep them, so they feel that their daughters are slowly reducing their love for their fathers, in fact, this is not the case, this can only show that the daughter has grown up, and the father and daughter should have some boundaries when getting along, especially some children when he grows up, Just like when a daughter is an adult, she is an adolescent girl, and if the father does some intimate behavior, the child will feel a little embarrassed. <>
If the father still behaves very closely with his daughter after she has reached adulthood, sometimes some big mistakes will be brewed. Whether it is between father and daughter or between mother and son, a certain boundary should be maintained, and when the child is older, casual kisses will make people feel a little weird and awkward. In the process of educating children, the father must know how to avoid suspicion, and generally girls do not need their fathers to participate in the process of children's bathing after the age of three, because sometimes children at this period will be particularly curious about some things, and if the father gives a bath, she may ask questions, which will be more embarrassing.
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This is not good, because the daughter will be a 18-year-old girl when she becomes an adult, so she must learn to distinguish between men and women, so that she can keep her life in the future society unharmed.
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This is not good, girls should keep a certain distance from their fathers when they become adults, if they behave too intimately, it will only make others feel uncomfortable.
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The daughter's father is too close, which may be a father-love complex, which will have a great impact on her in the future: a child with a father-love plot should have the following conditions:
1. It's a girl.
2. Think of yourself as a mother and act according to your mother's example.
3. She wants to monopolize her father's love.
4. She is often jealous of the people her father loves, especially her mother.
Psychological research has found that there are two trajectories in the formation of father-love complex: one is that father-daughter complex mostly appears in families where father and daughter depend on each other, or father and daughter are too close and mother and daughter are not close enough, which is an objective environmental reason. The second is that the personality of the paternal complex is mostly introverted and squeamish, which is the reason for the subjective personality.
The crux of the paternal complex is the inability of daughters to achieve psychological separation from their fathers, the results of which are often bad, which hinder the emotional communication between girls and their mothers; It will hinder the normal interaction and even marriage between girls and men of the same age; Even after marriage, it is difficult for the relationship between husband and wife to be deep, and it may also lead to family tragedy.
The crux and manifestations of those with excessive paternal complexes.
Psychological research has found that there are two trajectories in the formation of father-love complex: one is that father-daughter complex mostly appears in families where father and daughter depend on each other, or father and daughter are too close and mother and daughter are not close enough, which is an objective environmental reason. The second is that the personality of the paternal complex is mostly introverted, and most of them are squeamish, brutal, and willful, which is the reason for the subjective personality.
The crux of the father-lover complex is that the daughter is unable to achieve psychological separation from the father, and even some daughters are adults and still ask to sleep in the same bed with their father, the result is often very bad, not only will hinder the normal interaction between the girl and the man of the same age and even marriage and love, even after marriage, the relationship between the husband and wife is difficult to deepen; It will also affect the father's marriage, and it may also lead to family tragedy.
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The daughter is too close to her father, and it will have no effect on the daughter's future.
If the daughter wants to get love in the father**, just satisfy her, as long as the daughter is happy and happy!
Don't be afraid, be nice to your daughter.
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It will not affect the daughter to be too close to the father, but it will have certain benefits, as long as the daughter is happy and happy.
My girl and dad intimate photo.
Parents should first criticize and educate their daughters, teach their daughters to give priority to husbands and children in small families, understand the principle of husbands singing and following their wives, and then persuade their sons-in-law to tolerate and respect each other, and there is no need to hurt harmony.
This responsibility should be apportioned according to their respective economic circumstances. No one has any reason, any excuse to escape. Because there is no parental upbringing. There are no eight sisters today, and this is also a legal obligation. There is no excuse.
This is a very common phenomenon, and you are not the only one who will have such a problem, so you should not feel sorry for yourself, you should study hard, your face is worth a few dollars, to put it bluntly, your face is for others to see, and the current unhappiness should not be brought to your future work and work!!
In fact, parents and children should be friends, communicate and exchange well, and explain any problems face to face. In this way, it is beneficial to the growth of children.
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