I can t figure it out, so I ask for help from a master in love!

There is a generation gap in 3 years, and you should have two generation gaps. 28 years old is not the age to like clinginess. And you're just 21 years old. It's still more obsessed with love. It's only been 2 months, let's talk about it again, if it's really unbearable, it's still divided.

The age gap is not a problem, the relationship is not long enough, and I just regret it for a lifetime when I get married.

But since you said that it was chicken ribs, it is better to throw it away, otherwise you will regret it like Cao Cao.

A 28-year-old's attitude towards love may be a little different from that of a 21-year-old, but from what you said, I think he makes people a little suspicious. If he is really busy and cares about you, he can still take the time to explain it to you. If you really want to marry him, you still have to consider that in the future, he may be as busy as you said that time, and he will not answer your messages and answer you**, which is worrying.

Even busier, you are not acceptable to such a life. Feelings matter. Think it through. Happiness.

Try to be considerate of him.

Give him more warmth and send some words of encouragement, such as: Husband, I'm tired from work, remember to eat well... The body is important! Don't reply, just see it.

This way, even if he is busy, he will feel warm.

There is an age gap, but love transcends everything.

And then there's the need to fit into his life.

Get to know him better, there is any possibility, and after you integrate into his life and world, you will know if he is really busy and tired and loves you...

In school, boys are always very good at talking sweetly and being romantic, and that's because they have a lot of time and nothing to worry about.

In society, men don't talk sweetly, and sometimes they snub us, because they have to work.

Most men always put their careers ahead of love, and that's because they feel it's their responsibility to prop up a bakery and let women live in it.

If he complains to you, it means that you have a certain weight for him.

Let me tell you why. He's past the time of love, it's time to get married. And you may love you, he may like you, but he is sure that you are his marriage partner. That's why it's like this.

You have to be careful, it's better for you to separate early. If it's like you say, you're out of luck.

Everyone has this feeling, from the beginning of chasing a girl wholeheartedly, either chasing for a few months without news and letting go, or it is easy to be together and not cherish her later, this depends on the person, if he really cherishes and maintains it wholeheartedly, it is impossible to look like this.

I feel sorry for you, I want to accompany my girlfriend but she doesn't accompany me...! To get back to the point, there are only two possibilities for you to meet such a man.

1. He doesn't love you anymore. Second, maybe he really has a social connection! If it's the first one, then end the short relationship as soon as possible! Finally, I wish you happiness!

What are you asking for? Do you still want to chase it or don't have the courage to give up...

If she doesn't care about you, she won't be moved no matter what you do.

Love and dislove don't change in an instant. It also depends on whether there are any reasons that can make the relationship fade before? I think there must be a reason for the change from love to disgust, maybe the way we used to get along was wrong, if both parties have been good at maintaining this relationship, I think it will only become more and more love, not more and more disgusting.

There must be a reason for this ending, if there is a chance to correct, I hope to change myself in the future, and also have a good talk with the person I love, two people communicate together is the most important, and the feelings of lack of communication will not last long. Love is sweet, so people in love also have to think about how to keep this sweetness fresh. Don't always quarrel because two people are unhappy because of a little thing, everyone will feel tired after a long time, and when the accumulation of more times will make each other feel disgusted.

I hope you can get out of the confusion soon!

Wishing you happiness!

Man is a fickle animal, because man is an emotional animal!

Love or not love can really be a matter of a moment, I have also been as distressed as you are, my former girlfriend now hates me very much, and sent me a text message yesterday: Ask me why I haven't gone out and been hit by a car and died.

Two days ago, you could kiss me and me, even just now, but a third party reason appeared.

Or if there is a problem with one's own thoughts, you can instantly or slowly fade your feelings for a person.

Women's hearts are needles, and the same is said about all of us, who doesn't know this?

Do you see a person or something differently now than you did a few years ago?

Definitely, for example, you used to think that your elementary school teacher knew everything, but now you still think so?

It's just that this process takes you a few years.

It may take a few years for a person to have a different understanding of another person, to have a different opinion, to change the emotion he has given or to change to not give emotion at all, maybe at this moment--- he gets to know you again!

But there are many reasons, and I don't know the specifics.

Human nature is like this, is the sweetness of the previous one all fake? Otherwise, how could it suddenly turn from love to disgust? Love, can't figure it out, can't figure it out...

Maybe it's fake, but it's more likely to be true, we take into account the third-party reasons that arise, and the reasons for their own occurrence then it is very likely that this person has changed, and it is a matter of course. People can't stay the same, people are always changing!

Time can often change our perception of people or things, otherwise the time and years we lose are meaningless! Is that right?

Don't be trapped by love, even if you're an infatuated person, remember the first thing I said: people are fickle animals!

Anger can affect your judgment and can also lower your intelligence!

I hope what I say will help you, me.

I told my boyfriend that I broke up two days ago, before I was also good with him, in fact, two people together, will definitely accumulate a lot of problems very contradictory, but it didn't break out, both sides have always been patient, but when the fuse was ignited, so the problem will take revenge, in an instant, you will find that the other party is not so perfect, not the type you want, maybe you will think, I can't give you what you want, you can't give me what I want, why are you still together,. So people are like this, once they understand what they want, they will make a decision very decisively, my boyfriend knelt down for me, but I still didn't relent, because I knew that he couldn't give me what I wanted, I couldn't see the future, long pain is better than short pain, and the current desperation is actually the best antidote to you. In hindsight, you'll realize that it's nothing.

Whoever doesn't have it will still live and maybe it will live better, cheer up.

Time is the best medicine to solve the problem of love, I have also been happy in love, but also because I have not loved and suffered, now I have slowly come out, in the face of time and reality we are nothing.

I think it's not that you can't get out, but that you yourself refuse to come out, immerse yourself in the happiness of the past, and fantasize that one day you can go back to the past, but there is never such a thing as love, if you don't love, you don't love anymore, you don't need any reason, all you need is time.

Think about it, don't you live well before you don't have love, give yourself time to come out, let love have a way to live, and let yourself have a way to live!

A word from Baby Anne to you, the wound is a shame given by others, and the illusion of one's own insistence ......

To love or not to love is a long process.

Even if there is an emergency, it is impossible to change it all at once.

Maybe he doesn't love you at all.

Maybe the previous sweetness was all fake.

Although cruel to you.

But you should also face reality and life.

The road goes on.

Walking out, there is a broad avenue outside.

A good life beckons to you.

May you find true love as soon as possible and wish you happiness!

Love or not love no one can tell, maybe you feel this way because you haven't loved at all, then you don't need to be so painful. If you love and then don't love, it means that it is not the ture love you should pursue, so you should be able to take it and put it down, and be brave enough to find your ture love

You probably know something that makes you feel inappropriate and so disgusted all of a sudden, right?

In fact, it is because of love that you will be distressed, and if you don't love, there is no distress at all, which proves that you still care about him (her) very much. No one can help you in such a predicament, you need to think slowly for yourself to get out. Come on! ~

First, calm yourself down.

You can be alone in some quiet environment for a few days.

Maybe you can sort out your thoughts.

Secondly, you can vent your pain and dissatisfaction in the way you like, and finally, after these processes, consider your own emotional path in the future.

Who says it's not, I'm like this too, I'm still inevitably sad until now, but we have to be strong, it's not that we're not good enough, it's that those people don't know how to cherish it.

It's better to forget and let him pass, after all, that's what life looks like.

Pain is for everyone, it's just up to you to solve it.

It's just that you can't figure it out, and they probably have figured it out a long time ago.

If someone really loves you, then it's not.

Forget the past and start over.

Who in this world can't live without ...

It's fate! What is yours is yours after all.

I very much agree with the words upstairs, people are selfish...

Social issues.

It's all a habit. It's not that I look down on my fellow women. It is a problem in society.

I don't know how to say it.

Actually, I've experienced what you're talking about. The woman is older than me, and I like her. She definitely likes me too, it's just that there's an age gap between us. So.

No, this is what you think, and no one has given you a definition to think about.

This society is still traditional, and I am not interested in the men who are younger than me.

It's just that the older generation of people are more rotten in their thinking, and now there are a few people who can accept it!

I think it will be fine in a few decades!

Society is a little bit more open-oriented!

Love is very common, but true love, less.

Some people say that true love is like a ghost, and many people have heard of it, and they have seen it.

I can't say no, but it's rare.

Love is a super complicated thing, and it's better not to get old and think about what it is, otherwise you'll get tangled to death.

Sometimes it's a habit that you can't quit, and sometimes it's a dependency that you can't get rid of.

It's really complicated. It's such an indescribable tangled feeling.

Ay...

If you've ever really loved someone, you know what love is. Love can only be happy if it is wishful thinking. And to stand the test of time.

In fact, I just don't want to be with you anymore, I'm used to your care, your goodness, and your existence, so I face your sadness, she will be unbearable, your sadness, she will be distressed. So, it's a very good way to refuse. Let it go.

Maybe it's nostalgia and not love!

Maybe it's habit and not love!

Maybe he has another man!

Maybe what's the purpose of being with you.