Feelings after ten years of marriage Women who are unhappy in marriage have done one thing wrong, wh

It's about taking all the responsibility on yourself. As a result, her husband has no ability to be independent at all. I don't want to do anything, I don't want to give anything.

Being too strict with her husband, making her husband dislike talking to her, and making her husband not want to see her.

That is, she is too dependent on her husband, so it will cause such a thing, and at the same time, this incident also tells us that women must have their own economy.

It is very difficult to live happily without knowing the meaning of one's life, not being financially independent, and having no way to defend one's legal rights.

Often nagging, especially selfish, often relying on the other party to correct the other, leaking hunger and regretting tolerating the mistakes of the other party, the family status is particularly low, and generally make these mistakes so that they are unhappy.

The first is that they always answer early to regard marriage as the only one, or that they have lost themselves in marriage, and they have forgotten their dreams and forgotten what kind of life they once wanted.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are conflicted, quarrelsome, and not satisfied. If the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, it will cause the relationship between husband and wife to break down; trivial things are kept in my heart everywhere, and there are constant quarrels; This mountain looks at the mountain high, not satisfied with the status quo, and always compares.

There are many lessons from such unfortunate marriages, the first is that you must live separately from the elderly when you get married, which will reduce a lot of contradictions. The second is to check the character of the in-laws before getting married, because people with bad character can easily break up their marriage. The third is that we must have our own bottom line, if someone violates this bottom line, we must resolutely resist, protect our own rights and interests, and must not forgive others without a bottom line.

Have your own business after getting married.

Ability to support yourself, don't let a man feel that he is working hard outside to earn money to support you, you are at home watching a child cook is very simple.

In married life, you must not be too strong, if you are too strong in married life, two people will not be able to get along well, and then in married life, you must give men enough space and freedom, many times if there are many men, they will definitely be prone to problems after a long time, they are also eager to be free.

The focus of life is not well placed, and he cares too much about his family, children, and career, and neglects himself or his husband. I don't know how to run my married life. There is no tolerance.

Married life requires two people to communicate with their hearts and manage them with their hearts, many times if they don't communicate well, they will definitely be prone to problems, and then two people in their love life must trust each other, which is also very crucial.