Where should the love that everyone is against go?

There is a good saying, only you know whether the shoes fit or not, and you don't have to care too much about what others say. They may only see a one-sided or a surface, maybe it's age, maybe it's career, maybe it's personality, etc., but do they really understand you, they are all looking at your feelings from their own standpoint, and they are not optimistic that you can only represent his aesthetics. Of course, the two people in the relationship are often more affectionate, the so-called bystanders are clear, and some opinions and suggestions from others that we think are reasonable can be used as a reference to maintain enough rationality.

There are many such people around me, some of whom were optimistic when they first got married, but now, the two of them are about to divorce; Some of the little couples around them think they are not suitable, but their small life is prosperous. These are all inaccurate things, it depends on your own choice, whether two people talk together or not, whether their personalities are compatible or not, only you know. Choose to manage this relationship well, nothing is natural, you need to manage, in the near future, if your relationship is harmonious and happy, will they still talk, it is estimated that only jealousy and envy remain.

Of course, before making a choice, you need to look at what you really think in your heart, and don't settle for anything.

For your situation, in fact, it mainly depends on what you think in your heart, whether you really like your other half, how deep you like it, and other people's opinions also have a certain degree of truth.

If a relationship is not favored by everyone and no one supports it, I don't think there is really any need to stick to it. I know that it is very difficult for people who are in a relationship to make this decision, and they will feel why others do not approve of being with him, obviously the relationship between the two people is so good, but I want to say that the authorities are obsessed with bystanders.

Because you still like the other party, there is no way for you, as a party concerned, to look at this matter objectively, and others can analyze it in a more rational manner. <>

In fact, for most people, they will not persuade others to break up, because this kind of thing is thankless, and they are likely to complain about it, especially when the other party is just their own friend, even if they have a good relationship, they may not say these bad things. But now that your relationship has been opposed by everyone, I believe that there must be your friends in it, and they are willing to risk not continuing to be friends with you will also tell you that they do not approve of your relationship, you can imagine how bad your relationship is, and the person who is with you is not worthy of your trust. As for the opposition of the family, not to mention, the family will often take a longer view, and they must think that you and the other person are not suitable, so they will oppose you to continue to be together.

Next, I will talk about what I should do when my feelings are opposed by everyone. <>

First of all, it is necessary to understand the reasons for their opposition. I think different people have different reasons for being together, but one thing is for sure, they all don't think you're so suitable together, or they don't like the person you like, that's why it's like that. But you can think that if only one or two people are against it, it may be their own problem, but if everyone is against it, then you really need to find the reason from your other half.

So figuring out why they're against them is the most important thing you should do at the moment. <>

The second is to stay sane. Now is really not the time to be rash, I know it's hard to keep you sane at this time, but I think you really need to give yourself a few days of cooling-off period, it's best not to meet with each other first, and to be alone to figure out what happened together, I believe that at this time you will not only see the good of the other party, you will definitely find some problems, and then consider whether to continue.

If everyone is against the Yin Jing feelings, then I don't think there is any need to continue, because the bystanders are clear, and others must be against the Void Bridge because the other party has a bad point, so I don't think you should continue.

Personally, I think that the feelings that everyone opposes are not necessary to continue; I think that in the sense of forgiveness and affection, it is always the authorities who are obsessed with things, the bystanders are clear, and others see it most clearly, if everyone says that the other party is not good at covering the reed, then the other party may have a problem.

I don't think there's any need to continue, not to mention the pressure from the people around Shisan, just searching for everyone in the Hu family shows that there is a problem in this relationship, the two are not compatible, and it is difficult to get to the end of Sakura.

When falling in love, in fact, many people will share it with their friends, hoping to get their blessings, or to see if they have any opinions about their relationship. If a relationship is not blessed by friends and relatives around you, or even a relationship that is opposed by everyone, I don't think it is necessary to continue.

As there is a saying, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, and everyone opposes the feelings, in fact, because they stand in the perspective of the bystanders, and they can see more clearly what our feelings are in love. Because when many people fall in love, they will automatically add a layer of filter to each other, thinking that the other party is very good, and even give him a lot of reasons for unreasonable behavior. When we are watching others fall in love, we are actually more able to see what the problems between them are.

Because of many people, they can't analyze their relationship situation from an objective point of view. If only one person is against it in a relationship, then I don't think it's too much of a problem, but if everyone around you is against the relationship, I don't think there is any need to continue.

There are many people who will add a filter to their other half when they ask others for advice, that is, she doesn't think the other party is bad, because under the premise that everyone is against it, she will definitely say bad things about the other half.

Some friends will also analyze for themselves, the pros and cons of this relationship, but everyone may not listen, in fact, I have tried this situation before, when everyone thinks that I have no way to go on with her, thinking that this relationship is not equal, I have been immersed in love. In fact, in the end, these feelings will return to nothingness, which means that they will break up in the end.

If we can get out of this relationship and analyze the problems in our love, we will actually find that it is very likely to be unequal in love, and unequal love may not bring us a happy state.

Of course, don't continue to rub the relationship that some people oppose, otherwise you will continue the relationship under the pressure of many people, and the relationship between two people will have problems sooner or later under the weight of this leakage, and they will be miserable in the end.

The feelings of all the opposition could not continue. Because I think there must be some problems with such feelings, and you should look at it rationally.

In fact, there is no need to continue such a relationship, because it is very tiring.

In this extremely realistic society, when parents oppose a love, this love may really not go to the end. This love may have brought joy and sweetness to couples, and brought many indelible memories, but these are only in the past, and the fact of the present is that you cannot be together, you cannot be husband and wife. Only these two types of couples can make it to the end.

A couple who are right at home.

As a person in modern society, you don't want to admit that the door is right, that is, it objectively exists, it plays a decisive role in the development of a relationship, to a certain extent, if the door is not right, the household is not right, then it is bound to be opposed by one party's family, which brings a lot of difficulties and obstacles to this love. Boys and girls will also have a lot of contradictions and conflicts because of the improper door, the household is not right, when these contradictions and conflicts arise, if they can't calm down, calm down, talk about it, to solve these problems, then their love will not be long-term, the opposition of parents, so that the couple who has no emotional foundation has become anxious, they have quarreled countless times because of their parents, they have also tried to talk about this problem calmly, to try to solve this problem, But the fact is that they can't change these things at all, they will never be able to get the approval of each other's parents, no matter how hard they try, it will all be in vain. These couples will not be blessed by the world after all, and their consequences will only be a breakup.

Couples with common goals.

In the world, the worldview, outlook on life, and values of any two people are different, so they will think differently about the same thing, and will also make different treatments and reactions. If the husband and wife can unite as one, make their hearts together, twist into a rope, treat a problem, they can calm down and solve the problem well, then, any problem is not a problem, they can overcome it, become an enviable couple, they can understand each other, tolerate each other, trust each other, respect each other, they will also have conflicts and conflicts like other couples, but when these contradictions and conflicts arise, they will try to solve the problem, in their hearts, They always firmly believe that there are always more ways than difficulties, and with this firm will, they will be able to solve difficulties, use stumbling blocks as stepping stones, and finally be able to embark on a happy married life.

Those who oppose love, some people say that if you want to forget the previous relationship, then you have to start the next relationship, so that you can get out quickly. Those who oppose love, when they decide to start the next relationship, are actually completely letting go of the previous relationship, and they may still feel a little uncomfortable in their hearts. Those who oppose love, but women are also human beings, and if they don't respond for a long time, they will let go.

The snobbery who opposes love may end up marrying late, or they may get the material satisfaction they want, which is right in the long run.