I can t forget her, what should I do! Help me!

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Do you love her? 2.Does she love you?

    Why did she leave you in four years? How have you spent the past four years? Is she happy with such a life?

    Are you reluctant to leave her because you have been together for four years and her departure has wasted your youth? You hit her current boyfriend, what do you think she's going to think? It's been four years, it's not easy, and if it were me, I might do the same, but what's the use?

    Brother, for the sake of happiness in the future, you can tentatively ask about the situation, it really can't be done, only give up, the twisted melon is not sweet, live in a different environment for a while, time is the best healing medicine, brother, you will survive.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Everyone has felt this way before. You have to put your mind right. You can think about her shortcomings, write them down with paper and pen, and read them all the time.

    Compare her to her friends. Compare the good points of that friend with him. This method, although naïve, still works.

    Also, have you ever wondered if you are not used to it because she has been with you for a long time? It's like a loved one.

    On top of that, it's only been two months. In two months, he can forget about you. Why does she want you to love her?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Friends, people are in love normally.

    I love you to hit others, but you don't.

    said that others can't fall in love with her.

    Love, but I also admire it enough.

    Yours can quarrel for three and a half years, you've beaten people, leftover.

    I won't even say anything about it, but the man didn't look for you in turn. Affair?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No one can help you with this question, because no one has a love for it. There is a person who once said: It only takes a second to fall in love with you, but it takes a lifetime to forget you.

    Someone else said: How brave you have to be to dare not forget. Since we can't forget, let's be brave.

    What we, yours, can do is share your sadness so that you don't have to be sad alone. Find someone who loves you and have a good relationship again. Because Dad told me that a person who loves you, and a person you love, we have to choose the person who loves us, because it is too tiring to love someone.

    Finally, I will tell you that we have the same sadness, and I can't forget that young man. But I still choose to look forward.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't push yourself, time will tell, forget or not, your heart knows better than you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't have a sure choice, you should know that you are doomed to be hurt. Forgetting is the stupidest decision. Even if.

    Time has diluted everything. Someday, someone or something will touch your deepest memories. Forget to use it..?

    A person's life·· It's not easy to remember a few people.、Instead of thinking about how to forget.,It's better to think about how to remember whatever he brings you.。。 But he's always in your memory.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is always so hard to fathom.

    Loving someone makes you unable to be yourself.

    But it's gone, and you have to admit it, accept it, even though you have to learn to take your time.

    Life is like this, some unsatisfactory things come just to make us grow better.

    Everything will pass, grasp yourself, live well, and your life is in your own hands!

    I wish you a happy life.

    If you really love, it is difficult to forget, it will only slowly fade with time, it only takes a second to love someone, but it may take a lifetime to forget, "forcing yourself to deliberately forget the result will only deepen your memory of him, and miss him more and more" There are always some times when there is a loss or low premature period in life, then it proves that you have really loved, it is better to face the reality, looking for new feelings will make you slowly forget, the previous injury, time just let your memory slowly talk, not forget.

    Perhaps time is the best master of trauma. But I can't get rid of all the scars in my heart. Time just changes a person. But it can't change a person's memories and past. The country is easy to change. A crow never the whiter for washing herself often. A truth.

    Love has penetrated deep into the soul, and it is difficult to forget, so it is better to forget what should be forgotten and keep it in the soul. If you want to forget, you have to die for this love.

    Forget that word is. Lose. Heart.

    Dead heart is the beginning of forgetting, heartbreak.

    It hurts. is numb, and slowly talks about it quietly over time, maybe when you meet true love and fate, your heart will be reborn like a phoenix in the fire. No matter how inevitable the injury is, it is not easy to give up, but the result of continuing is doomed.

    What you lack is not opportunity, but the courage to zero yourself back in the face of opportunity. Confidence. If you escape for a while, you can't hide for a lifetime.

    Although it is said that time can dilute everything.

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple. If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them. If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    If you really want to forget about someone, learn to let go of something, let your mind go, and not think about it often, perhaps, you will think about it once in a while, but it's also inevitable, right? Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    Finally, I hope you can be happy!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't do it indifferently, maybe it's okay.

    1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

    2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

    3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible.

    4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

    5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role6Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "tomorrow is another day."

    I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person".

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have to understand that we like a type of person, not just one, love is a matter of two people, you can't force it, it's important to meet the right person at the right time. You're bound to meet someone better than her. You have to learn to accept other people, and don't hang yourself from a tree.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, people who are in love are fools, knowing that the other party doesn't like them, but they still have to be tough. We used to think that our feelings would be so strong that it was hard to forget, but time would dilute everything, including helplessness and sentimentality. Try not to think about it, find something you like to do, everyone will take a strange road, listen to strange songs, meet strange people, but gradually you will find that everything is just a point, let you go up little by little, and then, find that you once cared about the things that you cared about, just like that, disappeared, at this time, you will find that a more important thing is in the palm of your hand

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forgetting is a painful process, but for some people there is no need to wait any longer. Do something fulfilling, get busy, and don't be sentimental about it. Someday you'll be fine.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There's nothing wrong with liking someone, there's nothing wrong with her not liking you, you can only think about it a little, don't you say that if you like her, you'll be happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be strong and be a better version of yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Letting go is also love, are you just consuming it like this, be strong, manly, your career, your future, and the woman who loves you are all ahead, why do you have a crush on her!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After a long time, you will forget that you are meeting better people.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's just a matter of time if you can't forget, and when the time comes, you will naturally forget it, so don't deliberately avoid it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is nothing that cannot be forgotten, only that I do not want to forget.

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