Suggestions and strategies on whether a third party can be involved

It depends on what kind of mindset you have.

Do you want to redeem or give up?

If you can't accept it and don't want to be miserable, you just give up.

If you still love him, you can't do without him, and you don't want your child to lose his father.

You use your heart and your love to influence your husband and communicate with your husband well.

Adjust your mindset and have a good talk with that third party.

And the key is your husband.

So it's up to you to decide where to go.

Don't get upset, calm yourself down, and take care of your thoughts and emotions.

I believe you will be able to make the right decision.

I bless you.

If you still love him, pull him back, if you hate him to the core, leave him, he belongs to the party at fault, and the law will favor you.

You can try to talk to the woman calmly.

At the same time, talk calmly with your husband.

That is, to figure out the reason first, and then think of other solutions.

Find someone to abolish that.

1. Make a big fuss.

If you find that your lover has a "third party", losing your temper and making a lot of noise is not the best way to solve the problem, and it may not necessarily work, but it may cause your him (her) to break the jar and fall, and things will become more and more out of control. If you can't accept his (her) betrayal of you at all and decide to part ways, then why not fight with him, what should you do, if you want to save your marriage with him, it is wise to restrain your emotions first, and then calm down and carefully analyze the reasons, and understand the investigation from multiple sides without showing a look, to find out if there is a problem between you and your husband and wife, whether it is your own problem or the other party's problem. Next, you have to do the work in a targeted manner, you can first knock on your other (her) side, explain the harm of the third party to a family, and reminisce with him (her) your hard-won union process, know it with affection, move it with reason, let him (she) wake up to the development with a third party may break up the family, and let him take the initiative to solve the trouble he caused.

2. Positive contact with a third party.

Use the information you already know to talk to a third party, the attitude of the conversation should be sincere, or you must insist on knowing it with affection and moving with reason, first let the third party understand the love process of your husband and wife, so that he (she) knows the depth of your relationship. In the course of the conversation, a third party should also be warned of the legal consequences of interfering in the interests of another person's family.

3. Seek. Third-party relatives can help.

If the problem is not completely resolved by direct contact with a third person, you can seek help from her relatives (note that the relatives here refer to the parents of the third party, and if she is already married, do not go to the husband and his family, as this may cut off her and make the matter more and more irreparable). First inform the other party of the truth, seek the support of the other party's relatives, and let them do the ideological education work of the third party, so that the third party has a deeper understanding of their immoral behavior, generally speaking, as the relatives of the third party are more taboo for their children to make this kind of mistake, and they can be more harmful to both parties, and their education of the third party will be greater and the effect will be better.

Fourth, resort to administrative departments for restraint.

If it comes to the point where there is no more power between individuals, it is necessary to resort to the executive branch. **Regulations, social morality do not support the existence of the third party, there are specific relevant policies to give the third party strict party discipline, regimental discipline and political discipline, at the same time, the third party's immoral behavior will also be condemned and spurned by the whole society.

Fifth, the final killer feature.

When many efforts fail to work, it means that it is no longer possible to reconcile with him, and the relationship between the two parties has broken down, and the value of marriage has been lost. You should make a decision immediately, choose an agreement or litigation divorce, end this sad marriage, start over, and find the happiness that truly belongs to you.

The third party is a person who ignores the traditional concept of marriage and family in Chinese law and wantonly violates other people's families according to his own personal preferences until he breaks up other people's families.

Evidence can be gathered, and if the relationship does break down, a lawsuit can be initiated. Determine whether he has the crime of bigamy based on the circumstances, and require him to pay damages.

Article 46 of the Marriage Law stipulates that there are four circumstances in which damages can be claimed:

1.bigamy;

2.A person who has a spouse cohabits with another person;

3.committing domestic violence;

4.Abuse or abandonment of family members.

Article 258 of the Criminal Law: Whoever has a spouse and marries another person, or clearly knows that another person has a spouse and marries him, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or short-term detention.

Although the issue of "third-party involvement" is not favored by ordinary people, I am still very sympathetic to "interfering". Because:

1. The courage of the "intervener" is commendable, and "knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, they prefer to go to the tiger mountains" ......

2. Don't you blame one party for the reason for "plugging in"! At least fifty boards each!

3. Worldly prejudice makes those who intervene speechless, maybe they are deceived or can't say for sure?

4. If there is no hardship, who wants to risk the world without a stool?

5. "Flies don't bite seamless eggs" If the family is as solid as a rock and impregnable, who can break in? Doesn't the "pin" have to "see the seams"? What's more, "enough"?

6. True love is not subject to any conditions, is it true that "the same bed and different dreams" or "the same dream and different bed" are in line with the moral norms?

Persuade everyone upstairs: put yourself in the shoes of the "intervener" to leave some space, it is not easy for people to live, why do you do it and cheer for yourself, live a little free, a little more tolerant, a little more realistic, a little more practical, wouldn't you be happy!!