Tell a story about what you want to do quickly? What does this story tell us?

Handan toddler", a metaphor for imitating others mechanically, not only can not learn the strengths of others, but will also lose their own advantages and skills.

Story: According to legend, two thousand years ago, there was a young man somewhere in Yan Kingdom, who did not worry about food or clothing, and he was also a middle-class talent in terms of appearance, but he just lacked self-confidence, and often felt inferior and inferior to others for no reason - clothes are people's good, food is people's fragrance, and standing and sitting are also people's elegance. He learns what he sees, learns the same and loses the same, although he renovates his tricks, he can never do one thing well, and he doesn't know what he should look like.

The family persuaded him to change this problem, and he thought that the family was too much to manage. Relatives and neighbors said that he was a bear breaking stick, but he didn't listen to him at all. As time went by, he wondered if he should walk like this, and the more he looked at it, the more he felt that his walking posture was too stupid and ugly.

One day, he met a few people talking and laughing on the road, and only heard someone say that the Handan people walked in a beautiful posture. When he heard this, he hurriedly stepped forward to inquire about it. Unexpectedly, when the men saw him, they laughed and walked away.

How beautiful is the walking posture of Handan people? He couldn't imagine it, and it became his heart disease. Finally, one day, he hid from his family and went to distant Handan to learn to walk.

As soon as he arrived in Handan, he felt that everything was fresh and dazzling. Seeing the child walking, he felt lively, beautiful, and learned; Seeing the old man walking, he felt steady and learned; See women walking, swaying, learning. That's it, but in the middle of the moon, he couldn't even walk, and the travel fee was spent, so he had to crawl back.

"The Analects of Zilu" Zixia once served as a local chief in Ju's father, and he came to ask Confucius about politics, and Confucius told him that the principle of government is to have a far-sighted vision, a century-old plan, don't be anxious for success, don't think that you can get results soon, and don't spend too much effort for some small interests, but take into account the overall situation. "If you want to hurry, you can't reach it" is what Mr. Nan has always emphasized. Blindly subjectively seeking urgency and speed, violates the objective law, and the consequence can only be that the desire for speed is not achieved.

Only when a person gets rid of the quick mentality, actively works hard step by step, and works step by step, can he achieve his goal. There was a child who loved to study biology and wanted to know how the chrysalis broke out of the cocoon and became a butterfly. Once, he saw a chrysalis in the grass, took it home, and observed it day by day.

A few days later, a crack appeared in the chrysalis, and the butterflies inside began to struggle to break through the pupal shell and fly out. The arduous process lasted for hours, and the butterflies struggled in the chrysalis. The child looked a little unbearable and wanted to help it, so he picked up scissors to cut the chrysalis, and the butterfly broke out of the chrysalis.

But he didn't expect that after the butterfly broke free from the chrysalis, because its wings were not strong enough, it couldn't fly at all, and soon died in pain. The process of breaking out of the cocoon into a butterfly is very painful and arduous, but only through this experience can you exchange for dancing in the future. The help of external forces turned love into harm, contrary to the natural process, and finally caused the butterfly to die tragically.

It is of far-reaching significance to magnify this small phenomenon in nature into human life. Rushing leads to ultimate failure. We should have a long-term vision and pay attention to the accumulation of knowledge, and we will naturally achieve our goals.

Many undertakings must have a process of painful struggle and struggle, and this is also the process of training you to be strong, to make you grow, and to make you powerful.

The story tells us that we should do things gradually, don't be in a hurry, and you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. If you blindly pursue speed, it is likely to backfire in the end and not get the desired result. "If you want to hurry, you can't reach it" is from "The Analects of Zilu".

Original. Zi Xia.

For the father of Ju, ask the government. Zi said: "There is no desire for speed, and there is no small profit." If you want to be fast, you can't reach it, and if you see small profits, you can't do big things. ”

Translation: Zi Xia once served as a local governor in Ju's father, and he paid homage to Confucius.

When asked about political affairs, Confucius told him that the principle of government is to have a far-sighted vision, a century-long plan, don't rush for success and profit, don't think that you can get results soon, and don't spend too much effort for some small interests, but take into account the overall situation.

Use cases where speed is not enough.

1) If you want to hurry, you can't reach it, and if you see a small profit, you can't do a big thing.

2) Do things step by step, step by step, otherwise you will not be able to achieve speed.

3) Everything must be done step by step, otherwise it is inevitable that the speed will not be achieved.

4) This incident made me understand a truth, just like pulling out seedlings to grow, if you want to hurry, you can't reach it.

5) You can't swallow dates when doing things, you must calm down and do it, otherwise you won't be able to do it quickly.

6) Of course, if you want to hurry, you can't reach it, so Daji does not dare to carry out drastic reforms.

7) As the saying goes, if you want to take it, you must give it first, and he also believes that his vision will not look at the wrong person.

8) Cultivation is about doing what you can, and if you want to be fast, you can't reach it.

9) If you want to do everything quickly, you can't reach it, and you must master a degree of everything you do, and you can't do it too much.

1. The story of speed, but not reaching: Zixia is a student of Confucius. One year, Zixia was sent to Jufu (now in Juxian County, Shandong Province) to be a magistrate.

2. Before leaving, he went to visit his teacher and asked Confucius for advice: Excuse me, how can Qin and lead transport manage a place well? Confucius said to Zixia very enthusiastically

Governing a place is a very complicated matter. However, as long as you grasp the fundamentals, it will be very simple.

3. Confucius explained to Zixia some things that should be paid attention to, and repeatedly instructed: There is no desire for speed, and there is no small profit. If you want to hurry, you can't reach it; If you see small profits, you can't do big things.

The meaning of this passage is: don't simply pursue speed in doing things, and don't be greedy for small profits. Simply pursuing speed, not talking about effect, will not achieve the goal; If you only focus on the small profits in the near future and do not talk about long-term interests, then you will not be able to accomplish any big things.

4. Zixia said that he must follow the teacher's teachings, and said goodbye to Confucius and went to office. Later, the proverb was handed down as a proverb, and was often used by people to explain that being too hasty is counterproductive and cannot achieve the goal.