I m emotionally involved with a third person, but I don t want to lose my family, what should I do?

I think you should reflect on your heart and whether you have true feelings for him, instead of losing your mind.

You should break up with a third party. A momentary heartbeat is not love, but the one who makes you reluctant to lose is love, so you should break up with a third party.

You should choose one of the two, either go with a third party and let your wife go, or you return to the family to get your wife's forgiveness and give up the third party, and don't step on two boats.

For the sake of your family and children, then decisively end this extramarital affair. It's good for everyone.

yes, it's so hard! I'm looking for two men! One earns money, the other plays with it, how happy! Desire and greed are endless, who doesn't want to have more, it's just that women are more responsible and forbearing!

This kind of person still has the face to ask questions and is confused.

Let it go, girl. There are so many men in the world, there is always one who loves you and can give you a bright future, and if he doesn't let go, it will be bad for you. Let it go for yourself, and you can have a better future.

Then don't be a junior, no one in the world can't live without anyone, as long as you make up your mind to leave him, it may not be long before your real other half appears, you will find that you actually don't like him so much.

Adults have to learn to control their feelings, and if you are a third party, it is better to quit as soon as possible. Because it is not good for your reputation, and it is not good for your happiness. And as time goes on, you are no longer young, and you will regret it even more in the future.

Then you give up your current love, otherwise you will really become a third party. If you leave early, you will be relieved early, and you will be the most hurt in the long run, so you must understand this.

I can only tell him, let's be good friends, and then you transfer your energy to work and study, and then slowly introduce your good friends to chat, so that you will forget about it for a long time.

Since the other person already has a family, then you can only control your sensibilities through your reason Because your feelings are wrong, since you know that you are wrong, don't insist on pursuing this goal.

You should recover your losses in time, take back your feelings in time, and don't associate with such people anymore, because love and morality are more important than morality.

You should let the man make his own decisions and not interfere with the man's decision, so that you can satisfy your own feelings, and this is fine.

Then you have to stay away from him in time, give up this relationship, no matter how much you love, you can't be a third party, this is the bottom line of being a person.

Let yourself go, give yourself a chance to be happy, and when you ask such a question in the title, you are actually very uncomfortable in your heart, and it is already a state of love. At this time, I think I should persuade myself to give up, love is to make people feel happy and beautiful, since you are here.

Hello. Reading between the lines, you can see that you are also struggling in your heart.

There used to be a saying that there is no one who is married who has not thought about divorce. It's true that living with someone will feel different, but will it feel the same now as it will feel five or ten years from now? The answer is hard to say.

If you really have problems with your current partner, I advise you to calm down and decide not to fight. Calm means don't touch each other, and you think about the trade-offs yourself.

As for the children. In fact, children are the most sensitive, and they don't need you to say anything to feel the atmosphere of the family (because children are born with a sixth sense). However, I think that the relationship between husband and wife will determine the parent-child relationship, so let's deal with the relationship first, and then consider the parent-child relationship.

If you really want to care about the child, then under normal circumstances, it will definitely be better for the child to pretend to be a father and mother.

Hope my analysis is helpful to you.

If he or she insists on doing so, it will be really difficult to do. Perhaps separation is your best choice. If your lover has repentance and is willing to be a new person, it will be much easier to deal with the affairs of the court.

Keep lying, I love to watch, but I don't believe it.

It's good to be separated from this person directly, and then start living alone again, and find someone you like to be with.

Then keep a certain distance from him and don't have any more dealings with him.

There is definitely a way, but it's a bit cruel, but only this way of making yourself suffer can make yourself unforgettable, and you won't repeat it next time.

Here's how:

If you are a man, you can cut three small willow branches in the spring, and keep pumping them at your bird, and you will remember to break these three willow branches.

If you are a woman, you can buy three sturdy fly swatters, slap your wontons all the time, and break these three fly swatters and keep them in mind.

It is not easy for a person to have a family, and loyalty to the family is everyone's obligation, especially the husband and wife need to be loyal to each other, which is beneficial to both husband and wife, and to the whole family, including parents and children. Taking care of a family requires the long-term management of everyone, especially the male and female heads of the family.

You have a family, and you don't want to fool around with a third party now, which is a good thing, which means that you have found out in your conscience that you don't want to do anything that hurts your lover and family anymore.

What should you do to stop this immoral behavior, it's almost to the point where we are messing up.

You have a family and don't want to continue with the mistress. You can communicate well with the junior and explain the situation. Seek the cool solution of the junior. In addition, you have to make up a large part of the money of Shang Sanyi.

It is estimated that it will be difficult to do, this does not mean that you want to start and end if you want to, there will be unpredictable results later.

In this way, you must be sorry for your other half and break up if you don't want to continue, which will hurt many people, and you must be responsible for yourself and others.

You have a family, and you don't want to continue with a third party, so you cut off contact with a third party.

Cut it off immediately, it is wrong to have a family and a third party, correct it immediately!