Why do students who enter the system basically not participate in class reunions?

Many people choose to take the civil service exam after graduating from university, because for them, entering the system is equivalent to "going to insurance" and getting an iron job. So, why do students who enter the "system" basically not participate in class reunions? I think there are several main reasons why students who enter the system basically do not participate in class reunions:

First, they are afraid of being begged to do things by their classmates; second, they feel that their vision is very different from that of ordinary students; The third is that they feel that attending such gatherings is a waste of their time. Let's introduce this topic to you in detail.

I think that the reason why those students who have entered the system basically do not participate in class reunions is because they are afraid of being asked to do things by their classmates. Because people in the system still have some small power in their hands, they are afraid that some students will want to take convenient ways to find them to do things. As classmates, they can't refuse directly, so they simply don't attend class reunions.

For these people who have entered the system, they feel that their vision is very different from that of ordinary students. Many students who are not in the system can't understand their work, and they will complain about people in the system at the party, so he feels that he has no common language with these nonsense classmates, so he doesn't want to go to the class reunion.

For people in the system, they feel that attending this kind of class meeting is a waste of time. Because this kind of class gathering is the most useless socialization, they can do more work when they have this time, they might as well spend time with their families, and they might as well do something practical for the residents of the community under their jurisdiction.

Because people working in the system need to maintain a good work style, if they appear in some high-end entertainment venues because of the party, it will be worth the loss if they are reported.

Because the financial situation of these students is not very good, the students in the system do not earn much money, so they do not like to participate, and they are busy with work.

Because I don't have a lot of time in my life, my work is very busy and the work is very difficult, so I don't go to the party, and I may not like the atmosphere.

In addition to "avoiding idleness", it may also be to avoid former classmates from asking him for help.

There are two reasons why people in the general system rarely attend class reunions, one is that they are not particularly successful, and the other is to avoid unnecessary entanglements, and one party needs help because of personal favors and accidentally brings difficulties to work.

Because there are regulations in the system to reduce gatherings between classmates, this is an unhealthy trend, and it is absolutely not allowed in the system for such behavior, and more than a few people are a violation of discipline.

Nowadays, many class reunions are to show off how they are doing, many people do not like such gatherings, and they will also be afraid of other people's opinions, they just want their current situation not to be known by others.

Afraid of trouble, afraid of being called to do things by others, they are all classmates, and it is difficult to shirk. And some units need a certain level of confidentiality.

If your classmates have successfully entered the system, whether it is a large or small reunion of classmates, these students in the system rarely attend. Is it because the relationship between classmates is far away? No, the real reason is actually very realistic.

The reason why students who enter the "system" rarely go to class reunions is not because the relationship with their classmates is far away, but the real reason is actually very helpless. First, the staff members in the system represent the image of the country.

Words and deeds are constrained, if you openly go out and go to large dining establishments, it is inevitable to giveBring trouble yourself。After all, class reunions generally go to larger places, and once they are seen, they will be punishedIn the worst case, it is very likely that the job will not be guaranteed

You must know how difficult it is to enter the current system, and how can you say that you will lose the iron job bowl that you have finally gotten out? Then there is the fact that the social circles of students in the system are all powerful classes, in case of their ownThe old classmate begged to do his own thingIt's hard to respond on your own.

The ability to promise to help himself is not enough, and it is easy to get into trouble, and if he doesn't help the other party, he is his old classmate, the scene is very embarrassing, and he may lose an old classmate. Such a loss is indeed a bit large.

Because of this, these students who enter the "system" rarely attend class reunions, although they are helpless, but the reasons are very realistic. After all, in the face of work and raising a family, it is still easy to choose which is more important.

However, even this does not affect the determination of graduates to enter the "system", although the current competition for jobs in the system is relatively fierce, but not all positions in the system are difficult to land, the key is how graduates choose.

Students who enter the "system" rarely attend class reunions, which is a very real problem and the most real situation. After all, the competition within the current system is relatively fierce, and it is very difficult to go ashore.

I finally succeeded in going ashore, and I can't let a small party affect my future and development. People go to higher places, water flows to lower places, and contact with higher resources can have better development. Finally,What do you think is the reason why students in the "system" do not attend class reunions?

There are some special influences on identity in the system, and you should pay special attention to your words and deeds. Rarely attend class reunions

Because the classmates in the system will have discipline and requirements, participating in class reunions will have some unnecessary negative effects.

There is no need for this, most people are busy with work, and if classmates want each other to do things, it will affect their work.

Because students in the system rarely have time to attend class reunions.

After graduation, the students went their separate ways. Years later, when we attended the class reunion, we all had our own lives and careers. Some students started a business and became the boss, some students were a screw in the enterprise, and some students had happy families and happy marriages.

In fact, the students who enter the system to work are the most popular, and their jobs are very stable. It is recommended that everyone cherish the identity of the fresh graduates when they graduate, and try to enter the system as much as possible.

Some students are unable to attend class reunions due to work, and there are always fewer people at the dinner table. It is very normal for students in the system to rarely go to class reunions. Their work is special and cannot be extravagant.

The higher the position, the greater the responsibility, especially in the life of the individual. I feel that there is no need for class reunions, and people with good relationships will contact me often, so I don't have to wait for class reunions at all.

1. Because these classmates are chaotic, they don't have time to attend class reunions.

There are already a lot of social interactions, and they don't want to waste time on this kind of dinner, so they choose not to go. Not every classmate will have a good relationship, and if you don't have a close relationship with your classmates, you will naturally not participate.

2. Because the unit has requirements for the personal life of employees.

After many years, you have been given the opportunity to be promoted within the system, and you must pay more attention to your words and deeds. You may lose your temper at the wine table, so you just choose not to go. The ** in these systems are very cautious, and nothing can be exceeded.

3. I am busy with work and can't take a break.

It is not easy to work in the system, and it is definitely indispensable to socialize in ordinary times. I really wanted to go, but I couldn't get the job done first. In front of your own career, the friendship of classmates can be put aside for the time being.

The stronger the ability to work, the more opportunities you will get for appreciation and salary increases. After you have the right to speak in the unit, you must first consider the things that have more units.

Why do you think the students in the system don't go to the party?

Most of the students in the system represent the country in their work, and once they participate in class reunions and are seen, it is easy to lead others to misunderstand, which will affect their own image and development, and even lead to the loss of iron jobs.

Because the students in the system are very busy with work and the income is not high, it is rare to see students in the system participating in class reunions.

Because these students in the system are really busy, and their salaries are not very high, they are reluctant to come.

Nowadays, there are more and more college students who never attend class reunions, and I am one of them, and there are many reasons for this, but generally speaking, I think there are definitely the following two reasons.

First of all, I think this kind of classmate and class reunion is meaningless, as far as I am concerned, I prefer to enjoy my time alone, which creates my character of not wanting to communicate too much with others, and the general class reunion is to eat, and then go to KTV to sing at night, which is some particularly boring activities for me, it is better to do something I like in the dormitory. I believe that many people think this way in their hearts, instead of wasting their time, it is better to refuse this kind of things that are meaningless to them, and spend all their time doing what they like, so that it is a more meaningful life.

Another reason may be because of the more withdrawn personality, I myself am not such a character, but many classmates do not participate in class reunions for this reason, there is a student in our class who belongs to the kind of person who is relatively small, and then he is not very good-looking, he may not be very confident in his appearance, so he will have low self-esteem when communicating with others. Every time we asked him to go out and play together, she would refuse us, for all sorts of reasons, and then we gradually stopped calling him.

I have a few college classmates who just never attend our class reunions, and I can say that every time we have a party, they always don't attend, saying that something can't come. I know if they're okay or not, I just don't want to come anyway.

It can be said that when we chat in the WeChat group, these students who can't participate can also chat with the performance of the voice, and sometimes send a red envelope, but they are reluctant to come to the party, I heard my classmates say that the reason why they don't come is that the mix is not very good, they see that our classmates have a car, some are more generous, generous, but they don't seem to be willing to come if they come to us well. Actually, what I want to say is that we are classmates, we are brothers who have fought together for four years, and we don't care so much about what we do, as long as we come, we are classmates.

The friendship of classmates is higher than the sky, the friendship of classmates is deeper than the sea, the friendship of classmates is wider than the ground, and the friendship of classmates is harder than stone. Whoever mixes well or not, they are all classmates, as long as they come, they will be happy, they should drink and eat, and they should not talk about anything else, just talk about our classmates, our classmates, and our past youth.

There are generally three kinds of people who never participate, one is that their lives have not improved much, or even at all. That's where I be. I know what it means to be at a class reunion now, but I really don't have the face to go to it.

There is also a kind of person who is really busy, people really don't have time to participate, people often travel or talk about business, how can they have time to participate in the current class reunion! If there are so-called businesses or things that you are interested in, you may be able to participate. This is the answer to that sentence:

Don't renew friendship, but talk about benefits! It can be seen that the current alumni association is a place for the exchange of interests.

The third type of person is the one that everyone forgets, and I belong to this category. Basically no one will remember that I was the kind of person who was unknown, and that was the case in our college days, and in my life now. I'm such a speck of dust.

Therefore, I will not attend the class reunion because no one has notified me to attend!

Some college students are introverted and not good at communicating with others, so they will have stage fright when they attend parties, and they feel that they may not be able to fit in with the party.

Some students are shy of money and don't have the money to attend various parties, and many opportunities in college cost money, and those who don't have money don't want to participate.

Some students are too busy with their studies to attend meetings. These students believe that learning is the most important thing and that they have spent their time attending meetings rather than studying.

Part of it is that the university gathering is flashy and meaningless. Some gatherings are nominally good, but there is no point in getting together other than eating and drinking, so there are people who don't want to attend.

Personally, I think that this part of the people is either because of their financial pressure, and every time they attend a party, they need an expense. Others are different from everyone else because of their personal interests. My roommate basically didn't go to these kinds of meetings because he only liked to play games, and he felt out of place at every meeting, so he didn't go to it at all.

It may be that the family conditions are not very good, and there are many such gatherings, which is also a large expense for students. In addition, it may be that students are more introverted or unsociable, and do not like to participate in such group activities.