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No, the elderly are picking up garbage outside, and they also want to increase their income for the family, and they want to share some of it for you. We have to be more considerate of them, after all, there are not many people who can be so diligent when they are old.
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The elderly at home picking up garbage outside will not affect the luck of the family, and this practice of the elderly is to subsidize the family. The family has a better life.
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It will definitely not affect the luck of the family, the elderly at home picking up garbage outside will not affect any problems at home, but it will only cause a very dirty phenomenon to the home.
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No, luck depends on one's own mentality and the harmony of the family, the old man is thrifty and loves to work, and it is normal to pick up garbage, understand each other.
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The old man picking up garbage outside and going home will not affect the luck of the family, because the old man has nothing to do, and he just wants to pick up some garbage to earn some pocket money, so it will not affect the pregnancy.
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The elderly at home pick up garbage outside, well, it will not affect the luck of the family, but it is also necessary to consider the hygiene of the garbage and its safety, whether it will affect the surrounding neighbors.
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Will the elderly at home picking up garbage outside affect the luck of the family? I think that the elderly in the family are picking up garbage outside, will it affect the luck of the family when they come home? I think that the old man in the family is picking up garbage outside, and when he comes home, he does not affect the luck of the family, picking up garbage and luck are two different things.
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Does the elderly who come to your house pick up trash outside affect the luck of the family? I don't think the elderly will affect the luck of the family when they pick up garbage, so I don't think so.
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Hello dear, in the face of the problem that the elderly like to pick up garbage, we need children to deeply understand the behavior of the elderly picking up garbage, and understand the compensatory psychological complex behind the behavior of the elderly picking up garbage. As children, we should learn to be psychologically empathetic, stand in the perspective of the elderly, and put ourselves in the shoes of the elderly to understand the various psychological needs behind picking up garbage. By properly responding to and understanding the various psychological needs of the elderly to pick up garbage, children can take appropriate response strategies according to the situation.
For example, it can guide the elderly to enrich their lives, can help the elderly develop hobbies, can take time to spend more time with the elderly, can deliberately arrange the elderly to do some housework within their ability, and so on. In this way, the psychological lack of the elderly can be compensated, and the behavior of the elderly picking up garbage is unconsciously diluted, and even the behavior of picking up garbage cannot help but stop. However, if the behavior of the elderly picking up garbage cannot be eliminated, and the children cannot blindly stop it, but should deal with it head-on, guide and help the elderly to pay attention to hygiene and safety under the premise of understanding and care, and avoid unnecessary harm.
If the elderly pick up garbage because of their pathological psychology, they need to accompany the elderly to seek professional psychological help in time.
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Maybe it's the fine tradition that they were used to frugality in those days, look.
To some of the waste products can still be used, you have to go back and continue to sell waste products by yourself.
The second is that the heart is empty and helpless and has nothing to do, it is possible that he has nothing to do when he retires, it is not that he cannot live, it is possible that he is idle and idle, and he has nothing to collect some waste products, such as who drinks and leftover bottles and cans or other things that can be sold for waste.
Or they may feel that they are forced to live, and they don't want to make trouble for their children to cause the burden of economic support, and they don't want their children to support them.
In the eyes of young people, what they think is useless, maybe some elderly people will feel that there is still use value, maybe one day they will really pick up the baby, maybe it's okay? Just pick up the things that don't seem to be used in their eyes but are useful, maybe one day there will be a scrap ** will be a valuable collection, maybe some old objects, old antiques, old antiques are not all because of its old sense of age, nostalgic and ancient, some seem to be forgotten, but have become treasures??
Perhaps behind the psychological deviation ——— picking up garbage may be the loneliness of the heart.
For the "peculiar" behavior of some elderly people who love to pick up garbage, if the elderly do not pick up garbage for economic gain, there is a situation to gain a sense of security. Each individual is different, but they certainly have some kind of deficit that is psychologically compensated for by the act of picking up garbage. Some elderly people have experienced the economic scarcity of the country, and there is a deep anxiety and insecurity in their hearts, and their self-control decreases in old age, which may be manifested through the act of picking up garbage.
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The old man has no job, so he has nothing to do. The family is poor.
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Are they picking up ** garbage?
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Because it can be sold for money! You know, in the eyes of the elderly, it can be saved! It's not bad for money, but it's good habits!
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Because the elderly live in a different era than we live in, they all come from a hard life, so they are more frugal, they are used to saving, although now they are living a good life, they also maintain the habit of saving, and they can't change it for a while.
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The old man has passed away at home, if you are far away from home now, I don't think you need to pay tribute to the old man, first of all, you are renting a house outside, because the landlord, they are also very taboo in this regard, but during this period of time, try to wear clothes, to wear a plain one, don't wear too fresh colors.
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Personally, I suggest that you go to the community or the management committee and let them coordinate, but in this case, if the old man is too old, or the family conditions, of course, there are various reasons in it, it is really impossible to deal with it. I've seen a lot, this kind of case is that some old people like -1000 to deal with the persuasion in the passage to no avail, and there is no way to force the detention, let him how, even after the compulsion, he will pick up garbage like this. Through mediation, it is best to find their children to persuade them.
When we went to Xi'an to study, we heard the teacher tell us a lot of life principles and philosophy, he also said this problem, parents love to carry a bag to pick up garbage every time they go out to play, no matter how they say it, they don't listen, and the biggest responsibility of being a child is to make their parents happy, but just like you said, the temper is too stubborn, no matter how you say it, you can't listen, and there is discord, and finally the teacher came up with a way: to tell your parents seriously, our family conditions are okay, we don't need these things at all, And some people need these things more than us to make a living, everyone should have a kind heart, you don't pick up and leave it to others, that is, you have done good deeds, sorry, maybe what I said is not very smooth, and I forgot the teacher's convincing statement after a long time, but the general meaning is this, in fact, every different way has different results, and it is better to find so many excuses to escape than to solve the problem bravely, this sentence is for myself, hehe.