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When we went to Xi'an to study, we heard the teacher tell us a lot of life principles and philosophy, he also said this problem, parents love to carry a bag to pick up garbage every time they go out to play, no matter how they say it, they don't listen, and the biggest responsibility of being a child is to make their parents happy, but just like you said, the temper is too stubborn, no matter how you say it, you can't listen, and there is discord, and finally the teacher came up with a way: to tell your parents seriously, our family conditions are okay, we don't need these things at all, And some people need these things more than us to make a living, everyone should have a kind heart, you don't pick up and leave it to others, that is, you have done good deeds, sorry, maybe what I said is not very smooth, and I forgot the teacher's convincing statement after a long time, but the general meaning is this, in fact, every different way has different results, and it is better to find so many excuses to escape than to solve the problem bravely, this sentence is for myself, hehe.

The main thing is that there is nothing to do! I hope you can cultivate hobbies for the elderly, and don't let him do nothing, the elderly are sometimes like children, I hope to understand.

You take him on a trip once and he will change.

No, let him go, I have the same problem, but I don't listen.

Find something for the old man to do.

It's still good to prove yourself with your ability, to show her, and not to pick up garbage.

What type of garbage do you pick up?

In fact.. Old people are like children. To coax. You can't resolutely oppose it. COME AS HE WILL ...

If the conditions at home are good. You can buy him a four-wheeled motorcycle... It's safer.

**The price is about 4000 yuan. If the conditions are limited. More than a thousand to buy a three-wheeled old man's moped.

Powered by electricity. Please the master to modify it. The speed is limited to 20 or less.

There won't be much danger ...

It's exactly the same as you, and so is my grandfather.

This has a lot to do with the mental health of the elderly. On weekdays, don't always do things according to the will of the elderly, try to be obedient. Don't say to the elderly:

How are you, don't say these things. (Actually, this tone is an accusation against the old man, who will definitely not be happy, let alone listen to your persuasion). Don't use the word "you", it's easy to create a sense of distance between the two sides of the conversation.

When talking to the elderly, please use a friendly name, example 1: Dad, I bought you a new shirt, I don't know if you like it or not, people who wear it say that this material is warm and comfortable, if you like it, you can try it, put it here for you. Example 2:

Dad, I bought you a new dress, and you put it on after you took a shower!

The above are two tones, the first is with a tendency to listen to the opinions of the elderly, the second is a slightly commanding tone, the old man is very stubborn, does not listen to persuasion, and is unwilling to listen to the words of the young man, so your good intentions must be agreed by the old man, he can accept, you have to use the tone of command, the old man will definitely refuse.

The elderly have too many experiences in the past, and the changes in society are too complicated, and their hearts and thoughts may still be very traditional, so respecting their wishes is filial piety. I didn't understand it before, I bought good kitchen utensils for my mother, but she didn't use it, and she used a laborious fire to cook, and I couldn't understand it. Take your time and respect them, even if it's filial piety.

Because times have changed too fast.

Young people, understand the older generation more.

It's okay to do it, find something to do for him, many people are nostalgic for the feeling in their previous lives, and the emptiness in their hearts after retirement is not something that everyone can handle.

Suspicion and changes in temper are predominantly associated with advanced age, which may be related to the presentation of senile dementia. In view of this abnormal temper and suspicion, which may be related to the patient's delusions, it is recommended to go to the geriatric psychiatric outpatient clinic of the local mental health center in time, and the rational use of antipsychotic drugs can reduce the abnormal behavior and speech of the patient.

Live separately or with other siblings.

This must not be educated...

It's just very stubborn.

Won't change your mind easily.

Other persuasions have no effect.

Very stubborn.

Overly assertive, only believing in himself, not accepting other people's advice, and not knowing how to be flexible.

It's also good to be stubborn and listen to other people's opinions once in a while.

You can't argue with him, the more you argue, the more she will be on the face.

As younger generations, we must know how to be filial to the elderly, for example, follow him, and not the old man who says that the south is the north, and we are competing with ourselves. As for the role model for children, it will always be you, your every move, word and deed are remembered in their eyes, and now how to be filial to your grandfather can give birth to filial sons.

It's best to respect your grandfather's ideas, it's not easy for the elderly, think about how he used to raise you.

Let him decide for himself, you will give a certain amount of sponsorship, and you will bear the good or bad in the future.

It's better to agree, it's not necessarily a bad thing to have a woman in charge of him, and it will give you peace of mind.

Just say that grandma just left, you are like this, see what he says.

The country is easy to change, and if you have money, listen to him.

Everyone has their own ideas, the old man is the same, when he is young, he can't live a beautiful life, even if he is old, let him be.

Your grandfather is already a grandfather, if it doesn't break the law, let him be...

If the old man is too stubborn, it will be difficult to persuade. You can discuss with him or her gently, don't be too impatient.