Will a divorced man over forty still care about his ex wife?

A: Yes. Because the older this divorced man in his forties gets, the more lonely he will feel in his heart, so his heart longs for someone to be with him, and therefore, he cares about his ex-wife.

I shouldn't care, because at this age I don't particularly value feelings, and since I chose to divorce, it means that I don't value it.

It will still be, because after the divorce, these men will feel that their ex-wives are very good, and they will miss that time very much.

Men around the age of forty are in the prime of life, financially wealthy, and mentally mature, and most of them will remarry after divorce, after all, they all want to have a new family, a harmonious and sweet family.

There are no absolutes in this, it depends on who and what situation.

Personally, I think that after the age of 40, I will not regret not being with the person I once loved, since I can't be together, it means that the two people are not suitable, and I can't affect my current life because of the people and things in the past.

After the age of 40, I will not regret not being with the person I once loved deeply, because I was separated at that time, which means that the two people are not suitable, since I have separated, I have to accept the reality and face my new life, and I can't affect my future life because of him.

Learn to listen to your own voice and discern the difference between intuition and thinking. Be able to align with our inner thoughts when we are about to make a big decision or need to figure out why we should act. Sometimes we persist in the wrong path for a long time, and this is the time to recognize our limitations, admit the facts, and choose to give up when the time is right.

Focus more on the things you can control, spend time on the things we can change, and try to change ourselves rather than others. Life is a piece of pizza, the good and the bad are on it, and if you want to eat the delicious, you must accept the bad food.

Both good and bad things will happen in life, learn to accept it calmly, we are not the general director of life, and we can't deal with all the bad parts.

Accept the reality, do not stay in the past, do not live in the unrealistic imagination of the future, the past has become a fact and cannot be changed, learn to accept and turn it into an indispensable nutrient on the road to growth.

Live in the moment and cherish what we have while dreaming and working hard to complete the plan.

Be tolerant of the fact that wisdom does not grow with age, honestly face your own shortcomings, accept your imperfections, and strive to change on this basis.

Depending on the situation, some couples divorce impulsively, so they often regret it.

If you divorce after careful consideration, there is a high probability that you will not regret it.

Impossible, there are no regrets about the divorce.

What is the difference between a remarried wife and an ex-wife in the eyes of a man in his 40s?

The answer to this question should be different for everyone. Because there are many reasons for remarriage, some divorce because of discord between husband and wife; There are also because of their own problems, which caused their wives to leave them; Others are because of the wife's problems, the husband can not bear it, and finally divorced; There may also be a widowed second marriage.

Therefore, in each case, the comparison between the second wife and the ex-wife is different.

I have a cousin who divorced because of a simple marital relationship. Both of them are very individual, no one can tolerate anyone, they often quarrel together, and they start to do it after they quarrel, and over time, the marriage of the two people finally lights up the red light.

We went on to talk about my cousin, who finally found his right fit and got married again. At this time, he will also compare his current wife with his previous wife. In the comparison, he not only found some of his ex-wife, but also found some of his past badness.

Therefore, marriage does not mean that it ends once, it is a complete liberation. A second marriage may not make you feel that your current wife is much better than your ex-wife, the important thing is that you have to learn to change yourself.

I have a colleague who is widowed and married for the second time, he is in a special situation, he is only 40 years old and has to face remarriage, and he also has two sons. In this situation, it is very difficult to find someone to live with him, even if people have the heart to follow him, they will consider his two sons.

However, under the introduction of everyone, he still found someone who was willing to marry him. The woman remarried, and she divorced because she couldn't have children.

As a result, the wife he married later looked like an outsider in his eyes, and no matter how he accepted her, he felt that she was not a member of the family. Perhaps, the estrangement between the two of them is also due to the fact that there is no relationship with children as a bond. If so, I really hope that he and his second wife can have another one, and if they can, it would be better if that woman could resume childbearing.

With the progress of society and the development of human beings, modern people's concept of marriage has also undergone earth-shaking changes, and the concept of marriage of the older generation is no longer the eternal law of modern marriage, and people's concept of marriage is also advancing with the times. The word "divorce" has evolved from what was originally thought to be a desecration of marriage to a relief from an unhappy marriage. And the "remarriage" that accompanies divorce and symbiosis has gradually been accepted by people and has become a common phenomenon, after all, people are social species, and the life of two people will be much better than one person.

In the eyes of men who have entered the age of confusion, the biggest difference between a remarried wife and an ex-wife is that the purpose of forming a remarried family is different. If you are with your ex-wife because you love each other, then you are with your remarried wife because you are together. After a man enters his 40s, whether it is physical age or psychological age, he is already in a very mature state, so at this time he is no longer the hairy guy who can think that as long as two people love each other, everything else is not a problem.

At this time, he learned from his previous marriage, and knew more clearly that it was not enough for two people to have love, but more to find a person with the same three views to accompany him for the rest of his life. Only when the three views are in harmony can two people in a marriage go further and have a longer relationship.

In the eyes of a man who has entered his 40s, the way his ex-wife and his remarried wife enter marriage is different from his way of entering marriage. The ex-wife was united because she had gone through the process from love to marriage with him, so the two would ignore each other's feelings because they had been together long enough. In the case of a remarried wife, the two of them have made it clear from the beginning of their relationship that the ultimate goal is to live together, so they will be relatively more responsible for their marriage.

I think whether it is an ex-wife or a remarried wife, the most important thing for men to learn is how to carry out love to the end, and how to manage the family better is the king.

I think that no matter how good a remarried wife is, she is not as good as her original partner, after all, her age is there, and there are many things that will be clearly distinguished.

In the eyes of a 40-year-old man, there is a big difference between a remarried wife and an ex-wife, and the remarried wife will be more attractive and know how to manage the marriage.

For a 40-year-old man, remarriage is to find a new partner, and remarriage with his ex-wife is to return to his family, which depends on the relationship between the two people.

Generally, they are full of disgust with their ex-wife and do not want to see her again, while they are full of freshness and curiosity about their remarried wife, and they are more looking forward to the future.

The remarried wife must be better than the ex-wife, otherwise she would not have made such a choice.

I think it still depends on the situation, some will love their ex-wives, and some will hate their ex-wives.

Marriage is like that. It starts to get active, it becomes banal, then it becomes numb and boring. Many couples go their separate ways on the path of marriage.

In fact, many couples divorce, most of them on the spur of the moment. When the divorce does happen, I'll regret it. After all, I love it so much.

Then, "Will men still love their ex-wives after divorce?" ”"Why do men always think about their ex-wives after divorce? "The truth about divorced men is very realistic.

Mr. Wang: I regret it after the divorce.

Mr. Wang and his ex-wife met at work and then fell in love. Because they both came out from somewhere else to work, the two still resonated a lot together. In this state, it is easy to have feelings and dependence.

Relationships are developing smoothly. After that, the two got married. When he got married, Mr. Wang could say that he had nothing.

Even the house was rented. At the time, his ex-wife's family was also very much against it, but his ex-wife still resolutely married him. At that time, he was very moved and vowed to be good to his ex-wife for the rest of his life and never leave her.

It's always hard to make money working elsewhere, and it's hard for both people to buy a house. Mr. Wang's family situation is also not good, and there is no way to help. After discussion, the two decided to go back and develop.

There is more room for development in small places. So, the two returned to Mr. Wang's ex-wife's hometown and opened a small shop with the help of his ex-wife's family. Two people who have seen the world in big cities are still far-sighted, and their business is getting bigger and bigger.

At that time, Mr. Wang's ex-wife was pregnant, and since then, he has been taking care of her full-time at home. He has been running the business on his own. Because of the money, there are more and more women around him.

In the end, Mr. Wang still failed to stand the test and made a mistake.

In fact, in this matter, Mr. Wang also regrets and feels guilty. He also felt sorry for his ex-wife. However, after his ex-wife found out, she would divorce without saying a word.

No matter how much Mr. Wang pleaded, she would not accept it. After the divorce, Mr. Wang found that he was still deeply in love with his ex-wife. He was not in a hurry to find the right person, but was waiting for him.

He hoped his ex-wife would change her mind. But his ex-wife was very disappointed in him and there was no room for **. So I think it still depends on the situation, some will love their ex-wives, and some will hate their ex-wives.

This may vary from person to person.

It's an inevitable thing.

Then it depends on what the two people divorced for.

I don't think so.

Definitely, after all, we have been together for so long, we have shared memories, and if we have children, I can't even think about it.

I think I'll love it again.

I think so, because women at this age are still very emotional and soft-hearted.

I still care about it, after all, I have gone through a lot of ups and downs together, and getting along for a long time has become a habit, but I also feel that my life is the most important thing now.

It should care. After all, the days together are emotional, and they should go through the hardships of life together, so women should not be able to forget it.

Because I feel that things are wrong. In fact, most middle-aged couples are not in a state of life and death after divorce, they may just have too flat feelings.

Because people only know how to cherish after they lose, before the divorce, you can't stand her various behaviors, you can't stand her old people, and when you leave, you find that you are living a very messy life at all.

There is a feeling of regret, regretting that when he was young, he easily divorced his ex-wife, which broke his family apart, and his children could not be well educated and raised, so he was very disappointed.

Because there is a sense of déjà vu in my heart, goodbye is also a sense of distance from the world.