How to quickly forget a person always in my heart, it hurts

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think everyone has things that they want to forget and can't forget, it may be emotional, it may be things. We all try to forget about these unpleasantness.

    But at the same time, we will be very helpless to find that we can't forget at all, and I think to say that forgetting is self-deception, because whether we see or come into contact with some previous things or things, it will remind us of those unpleasant things or people.

    But I don't think anyone will live in their memories forever. I think we will downplay it and replace it for different reasons, it may be time, it may be someone, or something or something. So when we want to forget, I think the most important thing to do is not to deliberately forget, that will only make you deepen your memory, do something you like, or play more, relax, maybe you will find people, things, and things that can help you get out of your memory. ls

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This is a manifestation of psychological pressure.

    Check out some relaxing books or movies.

    Take a walk around places with nice views.

    The key thing is to get a lot of rest.

    can play a certain role in mitigation.

    The best thing you can do right now is to keep yourself busy!

    This will make you forget the past more quickly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hurry up and find a person for your next beloved. Renew your relationship. In this way, you will forget it relatively quickly, and you will feel that the person before you is not worth thinking about in your heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Some people can't forget, so don't forget it.

    Maybe it's a beauty that hurts to the extreme.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is also what I really want to ask, it is good to accept a new person, but for the time being, sooner or later you have to think about how to forget this new person, everything will repeat itself...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, I'm not sure if you really don't have a chance at all, if you still have a chance, then go hard, if there is no hope at all, forgetting is the best way, in fact, it's hard to forget a person, but if you think about it from another angle, there is a kind of called letting go, loving him doesn't have to be with him, it can also be a blessing. Fate is wonderful, let go a little, your other half has already been arranged by fate.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think the best way to forget is to replace it and find a better place to take its place! Suddenly letting you drop a relationship and forget about someone is really like cutting off a piece of your flesh. There will be a big scar in your heart.

    For such pain, if you can't help it, you will live under this painful torment for the rest of your life. Forbearance is a method. But not the best way. There is also a method called healing.

    The effect of medicine can quickly reduce the pain, and it can also have a nourishing effect on the body.

    Emotional substitution is the best way to heal emotionally.

    Work replaces, tying yourself up with heavy work, there is no time to think about it, and slowly you may forget it. This kind of doesn't work very well, I think.

    Emotional substitution, put yourself in a new relationship, let the new love dilute the old hatred, and gradually you will forget this feeling.

    The highest substitution realm is self-substitution, improve one's mind, let one's wood light see farther, and don't lose sight of the forest. After all, there is no grass at the end of the world. This kind of self-substitution, replacing the narrow self of the past with a new higher realm self, so that the most fundamental ** method, even if you encounter the same experience in the future, will not suffer the same damage!

    Tough emotions are the heart of a big husband.

    It is recommended that you look further, reinvent yourself, and have a new beginning.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forget? You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't you forget, your life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, There should be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma and dilute everything unpleasant, let's wait together...

    Love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    。Everyone has their own journey, there will be a variety of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Not being able to forget is the proof that your love is present and profound, don't deliberately forget, don't indulge in pain for a long time, everyone.

    Have your own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by along the way, every relationship and every experience everyone is a mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more empty energy to face the future

    Don't say anything, if he's happy, you'll be happy. Happiness is all your own. It's true that you're happy. Don't be unhappy for someone who can make you unhappy.

    Don't think about it, the person you love will never be forgotten for a lifetime. It's just that with the passage of time, his memories are like tea precipitated and buried in the depths of his heart, there is no feeling of love or pain at the beginning, and there is only a feeling of regret or enlightenment! Everyone will experience such pain to a greater or lesser extent, just so that we can learn how to love, so that we can know how to love the real right person when we meet him!

    Let us be like butterflies out of the cocoon, go through the soul washing again and again, and finally grow!

    Cherish the present and live today!

    Do something you like, try not to think about it

    Or just think about it thoroughly

    Brave face, real solution

    One is to escape, the other is to face, which is feasible?

    People say that there will always be a day in the life of a man (woman) who will meet a woman (man) who can change him, but you haven't met it, don't worry.

    When you meet that girl, you can't help but think of the girl or boy you're talking about as if you're a passerby.

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  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time is the medicine for forgetting!

    People will fall in love with one or several people in their lives, inevitably hurt, after crying and hurting, one day after a long, long time, when they finally meet their true love, they will understand that pain is sometimes precious, it enriches life and leaves some traces on memory!

    Just do what you are happy about, just do what you want to do, live a relaxed life, there is no need to deliberately force you to forget something, this will only make your life harder!

    Let yourself go, think clearly, and don't make unnecessary offerings! There are so many things in life that you have to learn to deal with, you don't lose everything when he is gone, you still have your job, your family, your friends! Integrate into life anew, where you will have a new self.

    And you must not believe in love, you just didn't meet the right person at the right time, and one day you will definitely find that happiness that belongs to you! He will truly love and care for you, and will not let you be hurt at all, let alone hurt you at all! Stop thinking about the person who is not worth thinking about, and accumulate feelings until your person really appears before using it!

    Bless you! A person who is not happy for a while!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forgetting a person either takes time or a new love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After getting along for so long, how can it be easy to forget each other? Can't forget, or don't you want to forget? Maybe no one knows better than yourself, if you can't forget, it means that you have experienced a lot together, and all of this deeply knocks on your heartstrings, so you can't forget!

    And if you don't want to forget, then why force yourself to forget? Just make it a good memory!

    Hurt, always hurts; Time may erase memories, but waiting for time to pass is a long time! Thinking about the good and bad of the other person always makes my heart tremble. Don't be afraid, as long as you are ruthless, everything can be solved! Throwing yourself into a new relationship is a great way to forget about old loves.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Remember to forget, forget.

    I remind myself.

    You already are. A back in the sea of people.

    For a long time. I should have new memories.

    One cannot decide who one will be tempted for.

    But at least you can decide whether to give up or not.

    I admit me. I'm still going to love you.

    But I will never touch this memory again.

    Remember to forget, forget.

    Pass me by you.

    After all, it's just a very fortuitous kind of encounter.

    It won't be easy.

    I have a lifetime.

    Enough to forget.

    I have a lifetime left.

    Can be used for effort.

    I will definitely forget you.

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