My boss often asks me to shine her shoes and wash her socks, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-13
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You say that she is very arrogant, then prove that she treats you as a maid and not a subordinate by making you shine your shoes and wash your socks, please politely refuse, it is not the duty of a clerk. There is no distinction between high and low, she disrespects you so much, how can you swallow your anger? It's a big deal to lose this job, people must have backbone to live!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Han Xin can endure the humiliation of his crotch! You've done it before, so take the initiative to help her do it in the future. Then learn a little more with her, and soon you won't be shining anyone's shoes and washing socks! Bow your head to the end, or you won't get used to it once!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Politely and tactfully refuse, as this is not something that is within your scope of work. If you don't say it, she will be even more arrogant in the future, and she will directly call you as a servant!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    With some power, it's the leader's style, but what she asks you to do, as long as it's not intentionally insulting, just bear with it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, you work for his company and you're not her babysitter or partner. Sometimes you have to refuse if you should refuse, or people will think you are too fake! A reasonable refusal is appreciated.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The landlord is a girl.。。。

    I don't think you have to worry about this kind of thing, if you have a good relationship with your boss, it's okay to help her, you need your help to wash socks, it can be seen that she has a good relationship with you, unlike other leaders who can't put down the shelf, and look high; Even if you really don't want to help her, you can remind her tactfully, and she should accept it, after all, friendship comes first.

    If you don't have a good relationship, I don't think she needs to think about this way to fix you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This also needs to be asked, if it goes on like this, he will not treat you as a subordinate, but a person who calls and drinks, refuse, otherwise there will be countless times!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can tell your leader in a tactful way, such as your experience, your ability, and your character, and use this information to convey to her that you are here for the company, not for her personally.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be a p, are you a soldier? If not, ignore him.

    If you do that, he won't give you the heavy lift.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    it, you're not the babysitter she hired! If I had been, I would have quit my job a long time ago.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Communicate with her, you are one of our fellow men!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be so stupid, do whatever others tell you to do, you have to have your own character.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Boss Girlfriend Is that your girlfriend?

    There's a boss girlfriend on your back.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Wipe your shoes and socks and wash them, and I'll tell you to wash them later.

    After washing the socks, put some itch powder in them, which is the kind that people will itch when they wear it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Scold her and fire her squid!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Snatch her shoes and stuff them into her mouth.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do you have a girlfriend, does she have a boyfriend, how does she look !! You get the idea.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is obviously luring you, whether the socks are black silk, if there is, go to her at night.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Upstairs is the right solution, seduction is king.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After washing, she will wash you in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First, if you want to keep the job, help her.

    Second, if you have a "yes or don't" attitude towards the job, don't help her!

    Although you are not as strong as her, you must be a dignified person! If you do it for her this time, she'll ask you to do it next time. And best of all, you're just an administrative assistant, not her babysitter!

    Work is your real job. It's not your job to do that for her at all.

    If it were me, I would not do it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No way??

    Shoe shine and wash socks?

    What did she take you for her??

    It's better not to do this kind of work.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    How to deal with the private work arranged by the leader?

    We can often see such a phenomenon: in many units, leaders always add some of their own private affairs from time to time and arrange subordinates to complete them. In the face of such a phenomenon, how should we think and how to do it?

    First, learn to be a human being.

    Under normal circumstances, leaders will not tell their subordinates about their private affairs, or let their subordinates do their own private affairs. Because it's easy for information to leak. Leader, can arrange these things for you. Explain the leader's concern for you and trust in you.

    In that sense. We should have the courage to accept all kinds of work tasks, including personal matters arranged by the leader. Of course, in the process of completing these tasks, we must clearly prioritize things.

    At the same time, the personal affairs of the leader should be placed in a more important position. In this way, we will become people who are recognized by leaders, people who are reassured by leaders, and people who leaders are willing to promote.

    Second, accurate understanding.

    Whether it is a business or a private matter, the leader can arrange these things for us, which is a test of our work ability. In the process of completing these tasks, the leaders will definitely give us all kinds of evaluations. At this time, we must keep our eyes open and analyze in place.

    Often, the completion of the leader's private affairs is even more reflective of our respect for the leader than the official business.

    Because completing the private affairs arranged by the leader is an important sign of one's loyalty to the leader. If you can quickly and satisfactorily complete the private work arranged by the leader in a short period of time. In the future, the scope of self-growth and progress will be larger, and there will be more opportunities for self-development and progress.

    Third, do it carefully.

    Under normal circumstances, the leader can hand over his personal affairs to you, which means that the leader is very important to you. The expectations for you are also very high. In this process, we can't have this or that bad idea about the leader from the bottom of our hearts because what we do has nothing to do with our work.

    That is to say, our work is not only for the sake of the public, and sometimes the mutual help between comrades is also an important aspect of showing our own work ability. If we can do the leader's private affairs to the leader's heart. Then, this will have a very big impact on our future development.

    The leader will also arrange the work suitable for us more scientifically according to our efforts.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I will still do it, and I will still tell my boss before I do it, I have not completed my work, can I do it after the work is completed, and I must make my boss realize that I can't just let me do private things, which will affect my work and make my boss restrained.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it were me, I would find a way to reject my boss. Because I am just a subordinate of my boss at work, not his follower. I will tell him that it is not convenient for me to deal with these personal matters, and that it is appropriate for him to deal with them.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The official level crushes people to death, as long as it is within my ability, I am still willing to help if I can. After all, it is also a kind of trust for you that he asks you to help, and your relationship will be better, and your future career will definitely help.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I will occasionally say that I can't let an outsider do too much in private affairs, and the leader still needs a sense of mystery in order to better maintain the majesty of the leader! Secondly, I will also find some suitable excuses, refuse once or twice, after a long time, I guess he will not let me help often!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I will do it, because after all, it is my boss, and sometimes I need to "pat myself on the back" or something, so I do something private to make my boss deepen my impression of me.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I will say in a joking tone that it is not a little inconvenient, hint at my boss's thoughts, and then let him pay attention to it, and if it is too private, I will retreat, and suggest that the boss handle it himself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you have something to do at hand, you can politely refuse, after all, it is a bit inappropriate to agree before your business is completed. If you are not very busy, you can do it appropriately, so that you can have a good relationship with your boss, and then you have more opportunities to remind him what will happen if you can do this, and you can help!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends on the relationship between the boss and yourself, and what the private affairs you want to do are, whether it is worth helping. If it's a good relationship, almost like a good friend, if it's not too much, it won't affect the normal operation of my work, and you can help. If it's a very serious kind of relationship between superiors and subordinates, then forget it, more things are better than less things.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I can tell him that I can do things in the company in the future, and I also have to do my job well, and I don't want to help you do personal things.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Wash? I'm a woman, and if you wash it, I look down on you. Women don't like how to be men.,And wash that It's not that I don't help the woman.,Her reasons are too fake.,Wash those for 5 minutes? I'm done talking to you. Hmph

    If you don't test you like this, and it's not your girlfriend, it's too early, right? It would be interesting if buddy knew, even if you were together, what would others think of you? She's getting a maid! Even if she loves you, you will feel tired.

    When she follows you and is really good to you, then you don't care who washes whom.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Why wash it for her?

    Washing her socks is the same as washing her feet.

    also "by the way, I also helped her wash it down".

    She'll help you as a servant.

    If you want to show that you are happy to help others.

    Just help out. If it were me, anyway.

    Absolutely do not wash.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you want to have something to do with her, go wash it for her.

    Do something more for her, and you will have a show.

    It doesn't matter if it succeeds or not.

    I suggest you go for it haha.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There is no particular reason for this, one is that she is too lazy to wash, and the other is that she wants to prove that you love her in this way, so even her socks will be washed for her.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think that's because you're not that patient and diligent person, otherwise, your girlfriend would have given you her underwear to wash.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This means that you are immediately afraid of your wife.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's a very honorable and difficult task indeed, and if you want to take care of her for the rest of your life, start by washing her socks. If you just want to be her general friend, give this opportunity to someone else.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Your friend washes your socks, which shows that she is very virtuous. Of course, you also have to show that you don't necessarily wash his socks, you can do the laundry or something else for him.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Girlfriend wants you to wash his socks.

    If you don't have anything else.

    You can wash it for him.

    After all, this is also a manifestation of love for him.

    Maybe he will be moved.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you like her, wash her My girlfriend is not someone else's, what are you afraid of when you wash your socks.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Has she ever washed your clothes, and after you get married, you two will have to wash your own clothes, and if you can do it, it's okay if you don't wash it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't wash, the problems are used to it, C4N socks are recommended, you won't smell your feet when you wear them, and you don't need to wash them at all.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Wash it, this shows that you are not afraid of being dirty or tired, and the female ticket prefers you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It depends on whether you love him or not? If you love her, you can do a lot of things for her, if you don't love her, then do anything for him, you will find it annoying, and now you have a choice.

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