How do you find the sparkle in yourself?

How do you find the sparkle in yourself? Everyone has a shining point, maybe it is a very common point in your own opinion that this behavior or a sentence is very normal, but in the eyes of others, this may be your shining point, generally friends or colleagues, relatives can see it, put yourself out of the matter may be able to see your own shining point. People who are pessimistic about life or have low self-esteem may feel that they have no shining points, and those who are overconfident, they will feel that they are full of shining points, and sometimes a small gesture may intoxicate them.

In fact, everyone has a shining point, and in the person who appreciates you, you are shining. It's impossible for everyone to make everyone feel that her sparkle is flashing. How can you find your own shining point, when you sometimes do something, when you give praise and words, it proves that it is when you shine, you can show more of this behavior in the future, and slowly you will send more of your advantages and flashes.

In fact, everyone has their own strengths, and although I say so, I haven't found my own shining point. But it doesn't matter, the important thing is that we learn more, do everything with a learning attitude, as long as we do things whether we can do it well or not, it doesn't matter, just do our best. As long as we do our best.

Don't be afraid to do it badly and not do it. You never know how good you are. I don't find my own shining point, I think so, because we are ordinary people with no characteristics and no specialties, we shine, but we may not have the light of others, so we are not discovered, haha, it doesn't matter.

At least we still have light! The sun is shining, but there is only one! We are a drop of water in the sea and a grain of sand in the desert.

First of all, you must build self-confidence, and then you should also cheer yourself up, slowly discover the shining points in your body, summarize your strengths, or you can learn about your shining points from friends around you.

Usually look in the mirror to understand yourself, be very confident, and communicate with others more, so that you can find your own shining points.

You should know yourself, and you should also know what kind of strengths and weaknesses you have, so that you can find your own shining points, and you will also make these shining points have a particularly good development.

You can find it by looking in the mirror, or you can also understand your personality by yourself, so that you can understand that you also have shining points.

A cool head thinks twice. No matter what you do, you should think about it several times before you act. The so-called thinking is to take into account the problems that may be encountered in the process of the development of things, and to make full preparations in advance.

The ancients said that "things are made in thought, and destroyed in follow", which means this. ‍‍

I'm actually very good at controlling emotional stress, and every time I'm upset, my mood gets better quickly. I think it's my magic weapon. Life will not be smooth sailing, and only fairytale princesses and princes can enjoy eternal happiness.

Reality is always full of challenges, fun and pain. However, no matter how much "difficulty" and "suffering" there are, life still has to go on, bravely face the challenges of life, strive to adapt to the environment, and adjust one's emotions, which is what should be done. ‍‍

I've always been confident, and then most importantly, I've been persistent. I think that's the key to success. "Self-confidence in life for 200 years, will be a water for 3,000 miles", which fully explains the importance of self-confidence.

Successful people must have strong self-confidence, as long as they think it is right, even if they hit the south wall, they will also knock down the wall. If you persevere, you will be able to unswervingly continue to do what you like, and then you will be more successful. ‍‍

"Those who know the times are handsome", in short, the master is to know how to judge the situation, and it is most important to see the general trend in today's society. No matter what kind of era we are in, we must clearly understand the situation of the times and keep up with the pace of the times. If you go against the current, then elimination is an inevitable result. ‍‍

I often praise people from the bottom of my heart, and then my relationships are good. The praise here is not a slap in the face. In fact, everyone is willing to be affirmed by others, likes to listen to praise, and praise from the bottom of the heart can make people's fighting spirit safe, can strongly encourage morale, and play a cohesive effect. ‍‍

The shining point in myself is that my family is very happy. Haha, that's nice. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and this "scripture" is a burden for every man who wanders around.

What men need is to let go of these trivial things and devote themselves to their careers, but with this "scripture", it is equivalent to having a burden and having to be distracted. A man with a happy family is something to be proud of, and with the strong backing of the family, he will definitely ride the wind and waves on the road. ‍‍

I think it should be like not admitting defeat. When I was in junior high school, English was really very good, according to the full score of 100, if the Chinese score was 95 points, the English score was only 40 points, and the head teacher was an English teacher, and the whole junior high school was very unable to raise its head in terms of grades. My parents in high school spent 30,000 yuan to buy me into an ordinary high school, and I still lived in a mess in my first year of high school, until my second year of high school, I felt very sorry for my parents and so on.

Then I started to read hard, and when others were out on the weekends, I would listen to the tape over and over again, and the table would be full of those inspirational words. Because I know how proud my parents are to be admitted to a good university, it would be good to be admitted to a junior college in my first year of high school, but after the results of the college entrance examination came out, I was admitted to the second book! Two books!

When I saw the results, my whole body exploded! ‍‍

Be lenient with others and strict with yourself. The ancients had a saying that "the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly", which is a good illustration of the fact that if a great cause wants to be successful, it must be magnanimous and broad-minded like the sea. Be good at dealing with different people, tolerate others' strengths, and avoid your own shortcomings, so as to win and succeed. ‍‍

The shining points of each child are different, some study well, some are filial to their parents, some love to work, some talk about unity, some respond quickly, some pay attention to hygiene, some do not pick up meals, and some love public property with too much enthusiasm. Each child has their own shining point.

Appreciation and motivation are one of the most effective ways to push your child to progress. Every child has the psychology of hoping to be valued by parents and teachers, and appreciating its merits and achievements is precisely to satisfy the child's psychology and make them feel a sense of honor and pride in their hearts.

In my life, I have met many ordinary people, but there is one one that I feel very respectable. His name was Mr. Li, and he was a cleaner at my company at the time. He works hard every day, whether it is mopping floors, washing windows or cleaning up garbage, he does it very carefully.

He always greets everyone who passes by with a smile and will take the initiative to greet and communicate. Even when he is very busy or tired, he still maintains a normal heart and love for his work.

I think Mr. Lee deserves respect because he embodies a quality of tenacity, diligence and humility. He is not a person with a high education, high income, or high status, but he can influence the people around him with his ordinary work and real attitude. He is very conscientious and responsible about his work, and at the same time respects and pays attention to everyone, which is worth learning and respecting.

Although such ordinary people seem to be ordinary and noisy, they are the brightest stars in society, and they are worthy of our learning and respect.

I think there are a few things that shine in me:

First, love nature.

I like the beautiful nature, especially wandering in the mountains and rivers, wandering in the fields, feeling the sunrise and sunset, and savoring the four seasons. There was also a bit of Tao Yuanming's tranquility, perhaps full of Wang Wei's poetic rhyme. It's just a little less hustle and bustle in the city.

Once upon a time, I was alone in the dream and came to a sacred place of self, where everything was mine. Modern architectural concept, the city is small and sophisticated, and everything is extremely idyllic. The pedestrians on the street generally seem to be very energetic, in a good mood, elegant and noble.

There are no cars, no rush to set the time, no traffic lights, no billboards, not even bicycles. This is a village in a dream, a city in the fairy world, and the highest example of human habitation in the world. Small cities, delicate and smooth buildings, erratic, now in the distance.

The road under your feet is neither wide nor narrow, and there are neat sycamores on both sides of the road, and the sycamore leaves instantly turn into butterflies in autumn, flying in the wind. There is no end to the road, only the comfort under your feet. Here, there is autumn dusk, there are summer wheat fields, and there are cute puppies surrounding me.

Unconsciously, sitting on a ridge, there is a winter desolation, and there is a fantasy of the future. Hehe, there is a beautiful cherry blossom garden next to him. It's truly a magical place.

Here, I found my soul's home. I saw my six-year-old self, riding on my grandmother's back, happily going to the grandfather's temple in the village to offer incense; Here, I saw the excitement of receiving my first award since I went to school, and my young heart was driven by happiness, and I ran from school to the door, and I pushed the door hard, but I couldn't open it. After a hurried knock on the door, the door opened, and I saw that in the alley, my parents were beating the corn in the basket with wooden sticks, and I saw the sweat on their faces and their excited ......Here, the gate of time and space keeps revealing the course of his life.

In a dark corner, I saw my sixteen-year-old self, sitting on the edge of Fengshi's playground, reciting ......something by the dim street lightsI even saw my future self, with a suit and leather shoes, full of economic ......

Second, work conscientiously and steadfastly.

I was very serious when I went to work and was never late. Arrive at work 30 minutes before each work and make all preparations. Among them, I am good at presetting at work, and I have a strong ability to preset the work to be carried out.

It can often be done, arranged in advance, arranged in advance, done in advance, and achieved good results.

Third, I also have the advantage of not being impatient when encountering problems. Do things well and be able to meet the needs of all parties. In the circle of friends, he has the popularity of teaching well.

Everyone has their own shining point, that is, the advantage, and I am no exception, so I will talk about my own shining point to enhance my self-confidence.

First, I have a gentle personality and don't lose my temper.

The common evaluation of my classmates who used to study with me and my colleagues who work with me now is that I have a good personality and are very friendly. I myself am indeed like this, I never lose my temper in front of outsiders, I will tell my good friends or family if I have any troubles, I will not easily quarrel with others, I think this is very bad for my interpersonal communication.

If I don't like a person's way of doing things, I won't argue too much with him, just slowly distance myself, there is no need to fight to the death and affect my mood.

Second, be filial to your parents and care for your family.

Although I sometimes argue with my parents, I am a "knife mouth tofu heart", and I will shake hands with my parents afterwards. I still remember when I was in elementary school, I started living in the dormitory from the fifth grade, and I went home once a week, and my parents gave me one dollar a week, and sometimes I didn't spend the money and finally went home. Because my family's financial conditions were not very good at that time, I was actually a day student before I was in the fifth grade, and I was able to spend a few dollars every day at the school commissary.

But then there was an accident in the family, and I gradually became sensible, even if my parents took the initiative to give me more money, I would not ask for it. Now that I'm working, I charge the electricity bill at home and my parents' ** fee, and every time I go back from vacation, I will quietly put some money under my parents' pillows, because my father had a car accident when I was a sophomore, and now he has difficulty moving his legs, and he can't earn much money in the countryside, I just hope that my parents can live an easier life, and it doesn't matter if I raise them! Last time, 618 also bought a Meizu mobile phone for my father, and every time I bought something for them, they said that I spent money indiscriminately and should save the money.

I think the happiest thing in my life is to have such a great father and mother as me, they never thought of giving up on me no matter what happened, and despite the difficult financial conditions of the family, they always insisted on providing me with education. So I want to say that the happy life I have now is due to my parents, and everything I have is everything my parents.

Third, work hard and dedicated.

I started working at this school in 2013, and I am now a member of the school team. Since I started working in this school, I will complete the work assigned to me by the school leaders in a serious and timely manner, and I will not shirk the work. Although I sometimes feel a little tired, I think I'm a young man who has just arrived, who will do it if I don't do things?

I have many other strengths, but I think these three shines stand out in particular. Everyone is unique, so we have to be confident in ourselves.