How much does changing kindergartens affect my child?

Summary. Different kindergartens, different classes, and many differences in education methods may cause cognitive conflicts in children.

First of all, children need to re-familiarize themselves with teachers, children, and material environments in different kindergartens, and also need to slowly adapt to the differences between different kindergartens. If you can't go deep in one place, the child's heart will not be steady, and there will be a sense of turmoil, which is not good for the baby's physical and mental development.

The biggest problem for children to change kindergartens is the pressure of adapting to the interpersonal environment. Familiarizing yourself with the sense of security in an interpersonal environment and re-establishing it in an unfamiliar environment may cause the child to withdraw behaviorally.

Different kindergartens, different classes, and many differences in education methods may cause cognitive conflicts in children.

But I offended the teacher a little.

The child is a little worried at school.

Oh, in this case, you can communicate with the teacher, the average public kindergarten teacher will not bring the difficulty with parents into the child's education.

Are you there. Because the child was bullied, I might have been a little angry when I looked for her a few times, and then the homework was not done in time, and I was misunderstood in the later stage.

In your case, it is recommended that you try to communicate with the teacher more to understand the child's learning, and then cooperate with the teacher's education method, and buy some small gifts for the child to send over on holidays such as Teacher's Day.

You can only take your time and try to find an entry point for communication, such as the child's learning situation, whether it is causing trouble to the teacher, etc.

Children should go to kindergarten when they reach the right age, and having professional teachers to educate and care for them can cultivate good living habits and promote children's social and personality development. However, after the child goes to kindergarten, he may have to transfer to the kindergarten because of his parents' work, which is a very common situation, as long as other places allow it, there is no problem, so does the kindergarten change school have an impact on the child, and the child has an impact on the kindergarten in the first half of the year?

Kindergarten change school will have an impact on the child, the impact can be big or small, some children are introverted, go to the new kindergarten to face the new teachers and children will be very uncomfortable, the mood is also very bad for a period of time, and even produce kindergarten anxiety, unwilling to go to kindergarten to study, at this time need the encouragement and companionship of parents, so that children can slowly adapt.

In fact, some children are very adaptable, in the kindergarten for half a year and then a new kindergarten will not have too much impact, children can quickly integrate into the new environment, at the beginning there will be some discomfort, there is also a little loss in the heart, but after getting familiar with each other and knowing new friends, the sense of loss will be swept away.

In short, the child's kindergarten in the first half of the year will have a certain impact, especially the character of the sensitive child has a greater impact, there is also a kind of rejection in the heart, which is not conducive to physical and mental development, it is recommended that parents communicate with their children well, and let the child be psychologically prepared before transferring to kindergarten.

Now the child reading is from the kindergarten to grasp, most parents hope to be able to find a good kindergarten for their children, once they find that their kindergarten is not good, will use various ways to change the place for the child, what are the pros and cons of changing kindergartens often, what is the impact of frequent changes to kindergarten?

Frequent Kindergarten Changes:

1. Improve the quality of learning, if the teaching quality of the kindergarten is not good, then after replacing a good teaching institution, it is also very helpful for the child's learning to improve, for example, the original kindergarten did not have English teaching, and the current kindergarten has, which can lay a good foundation for the child.

2. Exercise children's adaptability, now children's tolerance and environmental adaptability are not very good, after changing the new environment, they can exercise children's adaptability, and at the same time improve their communication skills.

Disadvantages of children changing kindergartens frequently:

1. Because the teaching style and teaching strength of teachers in each school are different, as soon as the child adapts to the teacher's teaching mode, he will immediately change to another one, which is not good for personal thinking and learning habits.

2. If you don't have friends, it takes time to make good friends, and every time your child leaves as soon as you get acquainted with your friends, it will make your child lack friends.

The pros and cons of changing kindergartens often are mainly these, and I still hope that parents will give more consideration before each school transfer, and it is best not to change them casually.

For adaptable children, changing to a kindergarten is just a new environment for the child. They adapt to the environment relatively quickly and can quickly integrate into the new environment, but they may be a little uncomfortable at first, after all, they are suddenly given a new kindergarten, the teacher has changed, the classroom has changed, and the friends around them have changed. The little girl who plays with herself every day has become someone she doesn't know, and the little girl who is bullied by herself every day has become a group of female men.

They will feel a little lost in their hearts at first, but after a longer time, everyone will get acquainted with each other, and they will meet new friends, and the sense of loss will be swept away.

If it is a child with a more introverted personality, he may not be able to adapt to it for a while, and he may even become sensitive. After all, they have adapted to the previous kindergarten, and they are familiar with those children, and they play better. Suddenly changed to a new environment for him, after all, in this new environment, he belonged to the later additions.

And the children here have their own fixed circle of friends before he came, and he suddenly parachuted in, he will have a kind of rejection in his own heart, and the friends here will also have such thoughts. These rejections can make him feel some unfriendly atmosphere, which can cause him to be unsociable and withdrawn. Children's hearts are relatively fragile, after all, their minds are not yet fully mature, if at this time, leave some bad shadows in his heart, it may affect his life.

My little nephew started out in kindergarten near their house, but then I didn't have time to pick him up because my brother and sister-in-law were busy with business. I sent him to my house to bring to my parents. Because the previous kindergarten was far away from our home, it was not convenient for my parents to come back from work to pick him up.

So my brother and sister-in-law thought about changing him to a kindergarten. At that time, when I changed kindergartens, I didn't discuss much with him, so I directly found a kindergarten close to our home and signed him up. Probably because he was relatively small, no one asked for his opinion.

But we can clearly feel his mood low.

When he first went to kindergarten, he was obviously not as happy as he used to go to school, and he usually came back from school and chatted about a lot of things he did at school, but during that time, he went back to the room silently after he came back. The amount of food is also much less than usual, and the food is not as fragrant as before. When I went to pick him up from school, I heard from the teacher that he didn't sleep at noon.

My mother also went to his previous kindergarten for this matter, asked the teacher over there about some of his usual habits, and then asked his current kindergarten teacher to help him integrate into this environment as soon as possible. It took him almost a little over a month to return to his former activity.

How much impact does it have on the child, only to know that this year's 4 and a half weeks of our daughter on September 1 just transferred to a new kindergarten, before the transfer we are still more worried, whether the child can adapt, after the transfer to find that our worries are superfluous, the children's adaptability is very strong, there is no impact on the child, we carried out the following work before the transfer, so the child quickly adapted to the new environment after the transfer, did not affect the child.

1. Before you want to transfer to the kindergarten, take your child to the new kindergarten for inspection. Familiar with the environment, introduce more about the advantages of the new park, such as amusement facilities and fun, courses and diversity, for example, my daughter likes to play house, cooking, the new garden has these courses, I will focus on introducing her, she likes it more, I asked if I want to transfer to this kindergarten, she said she wanted to. Note that you must take your child to the new garden a few times, familiarize yourself with the environment of the new garden, and ask the child a few times if he is a new child.

Second, find a transfer partner for your child. We were more worried that the child was completely unfamiliar after the transfer of the kindergarten, the children did not know, afraid that the child could not adapt to the new environment, my lover asked the parents of other children in the class, whether there is a want to transfer to the kindergarten, after hard work, my lover really heard that there is a want to transfer to the kindergarten, we transferred together, as soon as I heard that they went to the new garden with half of the children in their class, she wanted to transfer to the new garden even more. Later, I found out that it was not necessary, and I went to Xinyuan for a day to play with new friends The child's adaptability is really strong.

3. After transferring to the new kindergarten, communicate with the teacher more. Tell the teacher about the child's strengths and weaknesses, and communicate with the teacher every day about the child's performance in school, and guide the child to talk about her situation in kindergarten after the child goes home, so that you can grasp whether the child has adapted to the new environment.

In short, from our experience of transferring to kindergartens, the children's ability to adapt to the new environment is really superb, and the transfer has no impact on the children.

For children, the biggest trouble is the pressure of adapting to the interpersonal environment, the sense of security in the familiar interpersonal environment, and the need to re-establish in the unfamiliar environment, which may cause the child's behavior to withdraw.

At first, you may be a little unhappy, but you will be able to adapt to the new environment in about a week.

The impact will definitely be there, because not every child has such a strong ability to adapt, when my son just went to kindergarten, he almost cried for about half a year, and many children in the same class have adapted to campus life in a month or two, I think it is best not to change halfway, the child has to start from scratch, in a strange place adults will be afraid and worried, let alone children. ‍‍

It may be uncomfortable at first, but it will be fine after a month, the child is naïve, and the adaptation period is relatively strong.

The biggest impact is that there is no friend to accompany it, my aunt's child is to change the kindergarten, the child used to be lively and active, the day before yesterday came to my house timidly, hiding behind the adult and not talking, looking strange and sad, if he has other children to play with, it will be much happier.

After changing the environment, the child may be afraid of life, and it may also lead to unsociability, low self-esteem, and loneliness.

At first, there will be some influence, you will not be familiar with the surrounding environment, you will not get used to it, but after a long time, you will get used to it.

Changing kindergartens will break the social world that children have just established, and will tamper with the learning thinking that children have formed, which will have a great impact on children. So as a parent, try not to do this, even if it is a last resort, you must do enough ideological work for your child.

Changing kindergartens is because of the irrevocable reason of moving, so you should say hello to your children in advance, or you can take a weekend to go on an outing with a few good friends and family, and tell your children that even if they change kindergartens, good friends can still play together often. Tell your child picture book stories and tell them that people will always be separated, and old friends will be left and many new friends will be made. At the same time, take the child to the new kindergarten in advance to familiarize yourself with the environment, so that the child is not so unfamiliar.

The child is very adaptable, and I believe that he will soon be able to make good friends in the new kindergarten. ‍‍

I changed my child's kindergarten twice to improve her resilience, and now my child is not afraid to go to an unfamiliar place.

The child is still young and adaptable, and the impact of wanting to transfer should not be too great. The key is to explain it to your baby before the transfer, so that it is easier for him to adapt to his new peers, teachers and new environment. Cheerful baby will adapt in a few days, if the child is more introverted, you should think more, discuss with the child, take the child to the new kindergarten to see, to meet new friends or try to read for a few days to familiarize yourself with the environment here, so that there will not be much resistance. ‍‍

There are two sides to everything, there is good and bad, and vice versa. In an unfamiliar environment, the child is easily scared, lonely, and feels that there is no familiar person to communicate with. In this case, the child is likely to express his heart by crying, throwing tantrums, throwing things.

But this is only temporary. Don't forget that children are much more adaptable than us adults. Soon there will be new friends and new fun to discover.

It won't take a few days to get acquainted with the new environment and be happy again. ‍‍

It still depends on the reason, and before talking about everything, parents should not look down on children, and do not really treat children as adults. First of all, my child is a transfer school. The reason is simple, she doesn't take a nap, which the original kindergarten teacher can hardly afford.

So when I find a new kindergarten, the first thing I say is this problem, and you can change it only if you accept it. So it is such a reason that it must be changed. Secondly, if there are other reasons, it is recommended to coordinate with the child and the teacher.

A new beginning should be started by the child independently, which is much better than passive. ‍‍