What am I going to do? Is this the first love?

Updated on society 2024-07-15
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Your current situation shows that your academic pressure is very high, and the precious time of four years of college is fleeting, although this girl has broken into your brain, the most important thing for you at this time is your studies, if you don't even do your most basic things, how can you talk about pursuing her. You also said that with your current situation, I am afraid that you will not be able to maintain this relationship, so why do you still linger outside the door knowing the answer? Cause confusion in your own mind.

    My Fair Lady, a gentleman is easy to ask, this is true, anyone who meets a good girl will be excited, but your main task at the moment is to complete your difficult studies, and when you really succeed in your career in a few years, you will come to her again, and now you will take her as your motivation to move forward, for yourself and for your beloved girl, come on.

    Because you used to be classmates, she has a place in the depths of your heart, so now when you see her, your heart is pounding, and your heart is in chaos; Because of your "crush", you are "in turmoil"; In fact, you have two choices now, you can get close to her, and become good friends with her and her boyfriend, then your heart will be calm, and if you confess to her, there is a result that will make your heart as calm as the sea.

    You can't calm down now, think about it by yourself, be quiet, maybe you will figure out a clue. Or find a close friend to confide in your little secret, and say it. Don't try to suppress yourself.

    Of course, if you think your studies are important, don't give up your entire garden for a single flower in front of you. Let's work hard for the girl you love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    True love she directly told her that love will not greatly affect your learning and prospects, it depends on how you deal with it, if you have a deep relationship and a certain foundation, then do not hesitate to be together for your beloved to work hard.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    God just likes to make such boring jokes with people, and some people think his jokes are really annoying, but there is no way, don't we have to endure it?

    But you guys are also fateful Think about it, junior high school + high school, I haven't seen each other for 6 years, and now I can see each other again, and I am studying at the same university!!

    This is fate

    I still suggest that you follow the fate, what is yours is yours, no one can take it away, what is not yours is not yours, forcing it will only make you miserable, understand?

    Also, since your schoolwork is so heavy, you should work harder, if your mind is still full of her figure, you can't eat, you can't sleep well, then how can you be worthy of your parents who worked hard to raise you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Try hard, but don't force it, God arranged for you to meet, which means that you still have fate. If you work hard, you won't regret it! Such a first love, even if it fails, is worth nostalgia!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since Brother Tai has made such a big determination to himself, then don't be attracted by the nostalgic scenery outside the window, because it is all temporary.

    I've never been in a relationship, and I feel that even now I can't maintain this relationship) This sentence shows your lack of self-confidence or advises you: career first!

    I've also come from the days when you (now my mind is full of her, I can't eat, I can't sleep well, I can't forget it)! In a word, "Men must be cruel to themselves"!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Always remember: men's careers come first. Don't give up your entire garden for a single roadside flower. Besides, he also has a boyfriend now, and you don't get anything from talking to her. It's not bad to have some feelings treasured in the bottom of my heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't be caught up in love, but don't waste the opportunity as you said - since we can't be together, why should we meet?

    If you love him, pursue him boldly, love what I love, and have no regrets!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First love? It's called first love when you have it with him, and it's called a secret love if you don't have it.

    If you can forget, you can forget, if you can't forget, you can say, and if you can't say it, you can endure it yourself.

    There can be a way

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    a love affair in real life;

    a platonic love affair in the virtual world;

    an indescribable emotion in youth;

    When romantic love encounters reality and adds the elements of responsibility, morality, affection, friendship, and money, love begins to swing between reason and emotion.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go love, don't hesitate!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just confessed to her.

    Only when the two are happy can they be happy.

    Be proactive. Fast!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not necessarily, it depends on her decision.

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