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Your problem is similar to mine, but, compared to me, it seems that I am a little worse than you. My him, in fact, doesn't have me in his heart, because of a big matter, he lost his temper with me, even if it wasn't my fault, I apologized, it didn't help. I hid in the corner and cried, and my friends came to persuade me to let go a little, but I couldn't get past myself.
The day before yesterday, I felt better, thinking that I had done it like water, because there would be no waves in the face of him eating or chatting. I thought everything was fine, but today, seeing his personality signature, I suddenly broke down again, and I don't know if I still love him, after all, everything was given to him, and my parents didn't agree, but I just couldn't control my heart. Even look up some self-hypnosis methods, so that you don't think about him in your heart, it will be good.
I know I'm stupid, and I'm sure you too, actually, for the first time, for young people nowadays, it's not as important as it used to be. As long as the other person cares about you. If he loves you very much and is willing to fight for you, if you believe that your parents will also be moved, then there will be no problem for you to be together.
If you have other intentions when you are with him, I advise you to leave early, after all, if you are together for a day, the relationship will be deeper, and if you separate, you will be more painful.
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Pessimistic and unconfident performance, it is difficult for parents to say left and right, and the heart is unstable. If you look for it again, it may be more successful, at least there will be no pressure for the first time.
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Don't think of yourself like that. As long as you truly love him, he will truly love you. After all, it's you who lived with him, not your parents. But if he's just playing with you, then you'll have to pay attention.
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Because a word will make you very sad, which shows that you care a lot about what others say. At the end of the day, are you not very confident?
A confident person, as long as he knows that he is doing the right thing, will not care too much about the voice of others, even if he knows that he is wrong, he is not afraid of others to say, because he believes that he can correct it.
Find ways to improve your mentality, don't care too much about other people's opinions, this is one.
Believing in one's own type and not belittling oneself at will is two.
Do things well to improve your success rate and gain self-confidence. It's three.
It's hard to find someone to talk to, so you can ask for help on this platform. Everyone can help you unravel, maybe a certain sentence can open your heart knot.
If it's just a momentary impulse, engagement is not marriage, before you get married, you still have hope to recover, the key lies in your attitude, since his family let him get engaged, it means that his family hopes that he can settle down as soon as possible, if you really like it and don't want to let go, think clearly, go to redeem, even if the result is not ideal, at least you work hard, you will be sad, but you will not regret it, bravely catch up, at least just disappointed rather than despair. Come on!!!
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