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Although everyone treats feelings differently and expresses love in different ways, remember that the person who truly loves you, no matter how restrained they are, can't help but be nice to you.
Just one thing you have to be clear about is that in terms of the way men and women express their love in a relationship, women will not hesitate to praise each other and will pass on their love to each other.
And men are used to digesting emotions by themselves, which leads to the situation that men are not good at expressing themselves in their relationships.
It is precisely because of this that many women have no way to feel the love of a man in their relationship, so they wonder if the man in front of them loves them.
In fact, in the process of dating, the most taboo thing for two people is mutual suspicion. If you want to maintain a relationship and develop steadily, trust is indispensable for each other.
In particular, when a woman is in a relationship and has no way to accurately feel the love of a man, she should not speculate. Use the things in life as much as possible to judge whether he likes himself or not.
After all, not every man knows how to be romantic, and not every man can say nice things.
Learning to judge oneself can effectively avoid suspicion between two people, which can also reduce unnecessary conflicts.
Three ways to teach you to discern whether a man loves you or not:
A man who smiles at the sight of you really loves you.
If you like someone, you will beautify that person, she is perfect in her heart, she will enjoy the time with her, and she will long for the next meeting to come as soon as possible when they are separated. When I saw her, I couldn't help but be happy in my heart, and I couldn't hide the smile in my eyes.
There is a saying, "If you like it, even if you don't say it, it will run out of your eyes." Indeed, when a man sees someone he likes, his eyes are different.
When you look at someone you like, you feel like you're looking at something that is most precious in the world, and you have a happy smile on your face, and you fall in love when you see it.
Not only that, but the man who smiles at the sight of you, deep down, has also planned the future between you.
The reason why I behave so positively is mainly because I want to use my sweet smile and positive attitude to infect you and lead you to a better future together.
On the contrary, for those men who don't have a good attitude when they see you, even if he says I love you a thousand times, it's just a deceitful lie.
A man who is willing to spend money for you really loves you.
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If I had a different life plan, I would have broken up.
But it depends on the situation, if you talk about your future plans during your relationship. I don't know if you will discuss this topic together, because there are usually misunderstandings, two people do not communicate, relying on their own imagination to think that each other's planning, it will lead to regret for a lifetime, in case of a direct breakup, it will be a pity, after all, it is really not easy to meet the right person you like.
You should communicate with each other, understand each other's life plans, if you find a difference, the two people should discuss how to deal with the difference, if you love each other enough, two people should make a change to the life plan together, which is called making concessions and efforts for love. In case neither of you wants to make changes, but you have deep feelings and don't want to leave, you should try this way of life.
Generally speaking, it is difficult to go to the end in such a state, if one person is very demanding and has a long-term plan for the future, but the other person wants to live a comfortable life, so it is better to break up early and give each other a freedom.
Otherwise, after getting married and forming a family in the future, the contradictions will be more prominent, and even the time to get married will not be able to go, rather than this, it is better to let go of each other as soon as possible and give each other the opportunity to find someone who is in step with each other to finish the rest of life.
Don't delay each other's time, long pain is better than short pain, some people may be destined to become passers-by, and being a profound passerby is much better than being unhappy for the rest of your life.
So it's up to you, but remember to follow your own heart and ask yourself if it's worth it.
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Hello, it depends on whether he cares about you very much and takes care of you and is good to you when you need help when you are in trouble.
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The most important thing is to love yourself, don't pin your emotional hopes on the opposite sex, and emotional things are all about mutual giving and understanding of each other.
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Love or not love you can only be confirmed by facts.
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One, completely ignoring your feelings, although men are thicker than women, but no one is really low EQ and has no feelings for the other party's feelings, even if it is a man who really can't coax people and cares about people, when you are angry, he will say a few good words, or accompany you to be silent. At least he won't be completely like a nobody, doing what he should do, ignoring your feelings. Especially when you have just started to get along, he should be more attentive to you at this time, if you can't get his care, then it is even more impossible to hope that he cares about you in the future.
Maybe a person has a very wooden personality, can't say nice things, and doesn't know how to comfort people at all, but sincerity and sincerity can be felt. If you're still asking yourself"Does he love me or not?"When it is"Not loved", whether he was raising fish or not, that is"Fish farming"。At this time, the relationship between you should be carefully examined, as long as you are not overdone, then ignoring your feelings is basically equivalent to not loving you so much, maybe there is a liking, but this kind of liking is not worth all kinds of trivialities in the long years ahead.
The other is that you are too pretentious because everyone acquiesces to men coaxing girls, so sometimes girls will be more sensitive, and they hope that the other party will coax them when there is a little wind and grass, and it may be okay at first, but if the other party is busy with work, it will be more tiring to deal with this kind of thing often. Slowly, he will ignore your requests, because it is not a big deal, in which case you have to communicate well in conjunction with Marshall Luxemburg's "Nonviolent Communication". Learn to state objective facts, which here refers to objective facts, such as you didn't pick me up when it rained today, not that you didn't come to pick me up or you didn't love me, these are two completely different expressions.
Then express your feelings, such as being uncomfortable, instead of blaming, why don't you come, at least see if the other person has any reason first. Finally, it is to propose a solution, and some people only complain that communication without giving the direction of the solution is vexatious, because the other party does not know what you want to do. In fact, normal boyfriends and girlfriends must have comfort and care, and it is impossible to be unwavering about each other's emotions, and even change the topic to escape.
Although liking someone is not so exaggerated, I will pay attention to her words and deeds, but if we can continue to be together, we must be interested in each other's lives. Because being willing to listen to even inconsequential topics must be genuinely interested in what the other person cares about. And in the process of communication, a lot of common emotions will be accumulated.
That is, every sentence has a response, and you keep talking nonsense, he thinks it is very interesting, and he will be willing to listen, so that you can come and go, form a good positive cycle, and the relationship will continue.
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Answer, from the description of the analysis, in fact, the most important thing is how the two of you get along, love is accumulated, even if you love deeply, it may be consumed.
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It depends on whether he takes the initiative to care about you, in small places, whether he cares about you.
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Starlight doesn't ask passers-by, time pays off Smart is always to make things simpler.
This is a girl's sixth sense, very accurate.
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I think you can judge from the way your mother looks at you, if she looks at you with special love and gentleness, it means that she loves you, and whenever you leave home, she looks at you with a reluctant look, which means that she also loves you.
It may be necessary to see whether the man can take the initiative to help him serve meals or vegetables, and whether the man can help him tie his hair.