I died last night and my heart stopped when I left

"I passed away last night, and my heart was like water when I left" is a sentence left in the suicide note left at home in December 2017 when an 81-year-old man living alone in a small community in Nanjing was found more than two months after his death.

This old lady, who had children before her death, moved to the community where she died alone 7 years ago. In her twilight years and illness, she had a premonition that she would leave, and wrote this suicide note on the night of the Mid-Autumn Festival.

She expected someone to come the day after her death. Unbeknownst to her, she was found more than two months after her death. And the discoverer is not her biological child, but her closest neighbor. There are several children, and no one asks about them during their lifetime; The suicide note fell into the dust, and no one read it after his death.

Approach to the elderly:

As juniors, respecting the elderly and elders is what we should do. Whether it is the elderly and elders of one's own family, or the elders and elders of other people's families, they should be respected.

The most important thing in dealing with the elderly and elders is filial piety.

People who can treat the elderly and elders with a good attitude are people with good intentions. Because they know that filial piety comes first.

The elderly and elders should be treated with understanding. As a child, understanding the elderly and elders is the most basic common sense. The elderly and elders are old, and sometimes they make mistakes in doing things. Well, the most important thing at this time is understanding.

You can accompany them to do some of the things they love. Seeing the kind smiles of the elderly and elders will feel very warm. Therefore, we should accompany them to do what they like to do.

I passed away last night, and my heart was like water when I left, and I was reborn this morning, and I came with a warm heart in my heart" means: I am no longer there yesterday, and I left uneventfully. And today I am a new me, and my heart is full of infinite hope.

Forget yesterday, start anew, and face a new life with full anticipation. A new life will move forward.

I passed away last night, and my heart was like water when I left, and I was reborn this morning, and I came with a warm heart in my heart" means: I am no longer there yesterday, and I left uneventfully. And today I am a new me, and my heart is full of infinite hope.

Forget yesterday, start anew, and face a new life with full anticipation. A new life will move forward. It doesn't matter what others think. Live like yourself, too. The same to the one you love and the one who loves me, starting with a new day.

This kind of expectation is beautiful, it is to exhaust his own hope for the whole day, with a smile on his life and a discreet job at work, so what's wrong with this? In this whole day, it may not be the way you hope, and it will be more or less unsatisfactory, but this day cannot ruin everything in the future because of this unsatisfactory one.

Postscript This article is inspired by a news, on December 21, an 81-year-old man living alone in Nanjing was found more than two months after his death, he wrote a suicide note on the night of the Mid-Autumn Festival (October 4), thinking that he would be found the next day, so it was written "I left last night". Unexpectedly, it was not until the body was decomposed that it was found by neighbors.

There have been many tragedies of lonely elderly people who have not been discovered in time, and if you search casually, there will be more than a hundred, or even more, my husband's father died suddenly at home alone, and if no one found out at home at that time, the consequences would be just as unimaginable.

The tide of migrant work, the left-behind elderly, and the difference in the living habits of the two generations have made more and more elderly people alone. I can't bear to see such a tragedy reappear, and I don't want my old age to be like this, I feel like this!

The following is the suicide note left by the old stupid Liang Collapse man in Yuanjing:

Text: Avocado The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. Life is a cycle, life is a parting after another, and we will eventually part.

Recently, I saw a piece of news that made me sigh. On December 21, in a community in Nanjing, an 81-year-old elderly man who lived alone was found more than two months after his death at home.

The suicide note reads: I left last night (the 15th day of the eighth month of the lunar calendar), and my heart was like water when I left.

It turned out that more than two months ago, during the Mid-Autumn Festival when the family was reunited, this lonely old man left this world alone.

On the morning of December 21, the neighbor passed by the corridor and smelled the foul smell from the old man's house, saw the power supply bureau payment notice stuffed at the door of the old man, remembered that he had not seen the old man for more than two months, and called the police because he felt that something was wrong.

The police arrived at the scene and found a locksmith to open the three doors, and there was a foul smell in the house. Behind the bedroom door, the police found the old man's body, which was already decomposed.

There was also a suicide note beside the old man. It can be seen from the suicide note that the time of the old man's death should be October 4, that is, this year's Mid-Autumn Festival, and it has been more than two months.

In the suicide note, the old man sighed: "In this world, no matter whether it is a high-ranking official or a nobody, they all cheat each other, which is terrifying. Fortunately, this world is very just, and everyone in Changchi is a hurried passerby, and no one is spared.

In addition, the old man also instructed his family that everything should be simple after her death was cremated.

Neighbors said that the old lady originally lived in the city, had children and daughters, and had moved here alone for more than seven years. I haven't seen anyone for more than three months, and I thought she had gone to relatives. I don't see any relatives coming and going during the holidays, and I rarely talk to my neighbors when I live on the other side.

Late that night, the police contacted the old man's son and handled the old man's funeral.

Practicing death every night will help you live this life?

Teacher Li Yinhe said that she practiced death every night. She imagined that going to bed every night was death, for for there was a period of total unconsciousness, which was indeed very similar to death; Imagine waking up every morning as being born, because that's what makes her life feel new and exciting.

Teacher Li Yinhe also said that every day should be spent honestly and seriously with the attitude of Thoreau. Thoreau solemnly wrote in his diary on a 19th-century day on the shores of Walden: I now begin to live this day of a certain year, a certain month, and a certain day.

Man has no interest in money and power until he perceives that he will leave this world soon. I remember when my father was about to die, my mother told him that he was going to give retired soldiers a salary increase again. He didn't have the slightest expression and didn't answer.

But he is very concerned about his family, misses his old comrades-in-arms, tells me to pay attention to my body, says that he is satisfied with me, and praises me for my filial piety.

Don't wait until you're dying to find out what's most important. What's the point of learning how to drive skillfully, only to find that you've reached the end? Coming to an end, the only thing to consider is how to exit.

You don't have to spend a lot of energy to pursue fame and power, fame and fortune make people miserable, and provide adversity for people. Not necessarily. Stay away from fame and fortune, not to let people be lazy, don't do any work, work hard, don't care too much about the rest.

If you try hard and are still not fed and clothed, I have never seen this situation. If there is, don't reflect on it, it's the society that needs to be reflected. If you follow the established route, you will not be able to break down society.

Don't be at the mercy of the noisy people around you, sometimes you are surrounded by tricks and tricks when you fall into fame and fortune. It's hard to get rid of this, and I don't think it's possible to do it without the help of religion. Because we live in this world, we are worldly people, and of course we are interested in what the world is close to us.

Without the power of religion, people do not have the courage to change runways.

I love one of Tagore's sayings: "One morning I threw away all my yesterday, and since then my steps have been light." ”

When you wake up in the morning, you will be grateful for the warmth of the sun. Throw away the old character and put on the new one.

If people want to be happy, they need to forget, forget about unhappy things, don't mention it, mention it is nostalgia is memory. Abandon the prejudices and mistakes of the past, like the sun providing fresh light, and not be held back by inferior desires.