The same surname is in love, and the father disagrees

As long as it is not a close relative marriage, there is no concern, if it is just that the family does not agree, it is just an old idea of feudalism, to communicate more with the family, try to persuade, do not make a stiff, it is not good for everyone, if necessary, ask for help from volunteers or staff of the civil affairs department to persuade it, it is the most complete in the case that everyone can accept, I wish you happiness.

It shouldn't be a big deal, if you're in a strong relationship. Together, you can ** the deeper reasons why both parents oppose you, that is, what they are actually worried about. In this way, we can know the countermeasures to solve the problem.

As for the parents who disagree with this issue, you two can slowly **, only if their concepts have changed or they have no worries, or these are being diluted. After a long time, they will accept it, and it will be good if they accept it and slowly adjust the relationship. Don't force yourself to intensify the contradictions, so that everyone can't turn back, in this case, it's not a problem, but everyone is fighting, and everyone will be hurt.

The above is purely a personal suggestion, marriage events can not be child's play, I wish the landlord happiness!!

How old are you? It's no problem to fall in love with the same surname

What should I do if my parents don't agree? "Feelings of parental opposition" can do this.

Let your boyfriend talk about your plans to his parents, and let your boyfriend quickly determine the development of **, and give his parents a word. And then you work in a city, and his parents don't have much to say.

Have you asked what the specific reason is? It can't be because of academic qualifications.

Let's go and meet my parents, be more diligent, and let my boyfriend work harder.

This kind of thing is the most difficult to do、I think I'll do it as I want.、But the distance really brings a lot of trouble.、My second uncle and second aunt are a living column.

It's up to you, and as long as your hearts are together, all problems are not a problem.

Has the relationship broken down? Do parents disagree?

Find out why your parents don't approve of you being together.

Then prescribe the right medicine.

First of all, I want to say that your parents' point of view is problematic, you are only 22 years old, even if you are a girl, but there is no need to go on a blind date so early, so you will miss a lot of wonderful life, it is possible that your pursuit of your life will be different in the next second, whether you choose to wait for him or not, you should not be busy thinking about your blind date now, so that your life will be bound, you can talk to your parents about this! His road to success may be long because you are as old as him, whether you can wait for him depends on your own vision, if you believe that he will succeed by the age of 26 or 27, and will cherish you who have been encouraging him, then you will be the happiest woman!

You try your best to convince your parents that you can't make trouble, you can't solve the problem, if you like it, don't let it go, you'll regret it.

You don't want to get into it.

In this relationship, I think you have to pay more than him--- although the feelings cannot be quantified, but in the eyes of onlookers, the truth is clear.

If two people want to walk together, it is not possible to have a warm heart.

He said that he would not be able to get married or anything until that age, and he didn't care about your feelings of not wanting to be separated from him, and directly said that he didn't care about you as much as you cared about him.

So you think about it, 22 years old is a wonderful age, take care of yourself first.

is still young, don't be trapped by the love of his children, he looks meaningless, why do you want to be entangled here alone? Running for a career can be an excuse, which is not contradictory to feelings. If you are only worried and unhappy when you fall in love, do you have to rethink it?

If he is willing to face it with you, he will not just care about the so-called career and ignore everything in front of him--- it may indeed be because he is not mature enough to take on this responsibility for you.

So don't think about it, do your best first, take care of your studies, career, and self-reliance, looking back, it's a different scenery.

I wish you happiness. And don't mess with your parents, they raise you and really do it for you, which is incomparable to anyone. It's mature for you to comfort them. Although 22 years old is also a young age, learn to be calm, mature, and slowly do yourself.

I wish you happiness again.

Decide for yourself and wish you happiness.

Do you love him? Are you afraid that you will be stressed in the future with him?

Everyone wants to live a good life, and parents want their children to have no worries about food and clothing, but do you think it is the love that comes from sharing joys and sorrows or whether it is good for him to be by his side after he is rich, to be honest, they are all young, and no one guarantees that he will not be rich in ten years.

At that time, the life of your parents was not as good as we are now, your mother still held hands with your father, and then now gave you a happy family, if you believe him, don't waver, after all, it is your own life.

Tell your parents that you love him, you believe in him, even if it is hard in the future, as long as you are with him, you will be happy, and it has nothing to do with money.

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Love is eternal patience and kindness, love is not envy, love is not boasting, it is not arrogant, it does not do anything shy, it does not seek its own good, it does not get angry easily, it does not care about the evil of others, it does not like unrighteousness, it loves the truth, it bears all things, it believes all things, it hopes in all things, it endures all things, it endures all things, it endures all things, it endures all things, it never endures. It is true love, worry about the people you love, be happy with the people you love, even if you burn yourself and turn into a speck of dust, for the happiness of the people you love, do not hesitate to sacrifice everything, true love is giving, not taking.

I just got married last month to my girlfriend who I've known for 10 years and been in love for 6 years. Before, both of our parents did not agree, but we truly loved each other, and completely trusted and relied on each other. We worked hard all the way and we won.

Because we all think of each other as the only ones in this world.

I have five sisters, three sisters and one brother, and my wife is an only child. Her parents are both doctors, they bought a nice house in Xiamen two years ago, one has high blood pressure and one heart disease, my parents are ordinary workers, and my mother has diabetes. Do you think we are under more pressure than you?

But we still won this family war, because we were more ruthless than them!

We talked for six years, before they had been against it, forcing us to no choice, so we lived on our own outside, I didn't have any special skills, and my appearance was average, but after all kinds of difficulties, they still didn't separate us. As a result, it is clear that the two of us have no emotional problems, but they insist on separating us, can't they imagine that we can't do it because of their simple sentence. Don't agree, how much suffering do we have to suffer, why do we force our dearest people to die, we haven't done anything bad, we're not children, don't we even have the opportunity to make an important choice in our lives?

They are so selfish, so selfish that they make us unbearable and make us want to die. Now we get along with each other's parents, and it turns out that they are not sure if their objection is really correct! Simple, then it's up to us to find out.

If you trust each other completely and feel that the other person is the person you are looking for in this life, then please do not hesitate, it is an insult to your love. You have to be brave enough to say what you think in your heart, ask face-to-face whether you have the courage to go on, stick to what you think is right, and break up as soon as possible if someone is timid. Don't use the weight of the burden as an excuse, who knows what the next decade will look like?

Are you so unconfident in him? If it is a family with good conditions, will your parents say that they are afraid that you will be bullied in the future? Remember, cherish the people who are good to you, and at the same time don't take your feelings too cheap!

And don't use other people's eyes to mistakenly link your own life to what a stupid thing, isn't it?

Your boyfriend is not very energetic, and he doesn't work hard under this condition. Your parents don't want to marry you to suffer, but pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

Falling in love is originally a matter of two people, but marriage is definitely a matter of two families, and a situation like your family will inevitably bump and friction in the future.

So be sure to think clearly, or hold up the young man with a little pressure and bet on tomorrow. Otherwise, you'll have to really think about your own future.

Your parents' worries are worth thinking about! Seriously, now bai society is very realistic, and du

It's brutal! The conditions are poor, and if you say that people don't have too much ability.

It is generally difficult to achieve success with the support of people who are DAO power! Then life will not be satisfactory! It's been a long time, and a lot of unforeseen things have happened!

Keep the relationship with the present, but don't deepen, and then deal with it, and at the same time, you are also seriously thinking about it! Finally, I wish you a good mood every day!

Emotional intelligence of girls in love.

Bai are all high, but du

There are not many girls like you who are still a little sensible. It is recommended that you do not rush to determine the relationship, parental rights are the people who have come over, and the experience of dealing with life is worth learning. You should take this opportunity to take a good look at your boyfriend and see how he treats your elderly.

If he is impatient and even mobilizes you to break with your parents, such a boy must not want it. If he is really good to your parents, I believe your parents will change their opinion of him. Besides, you don't need to get angry, and work with your boyfriend to get through your parents' work.

You must not get into a fight with your parents, as long as you silently show the steadfastness of your love. If your parents see that you won't change, it's only a matter of time before they change. Wishing you happiness and happiness!

Look at yourself, look at your boyfriend, if you.

Du is very in love with each other, zhi he is very good to you, it is worth entrusting, and dao is worth marrying even if he returns to his parents. Sometimes it depends on your own conditions, everyone wants to marry a rich man, but rich people also have requirements, if you leave this, is the next one better than this.

What should I do if my parents don't agree? "Feelings of parental opposition" can do this.

Do you love him? You're afraid to be with him.

Will there be any pressure after the attack? Everyone wants to live a good life, parents want their children to have no worries about food and clothing, but do you think it is the love that comes from sharing the joys and sorrows or whether it is better for him to be by his side after he is rich, to be honest, they are all young, and no one guarantees that he will not be rich in ten years. First of all, you have to figure out why you are not allowed to socialize, and what is the reason for not letting you socialize?

After understanding what the ideal daughter-in-law of the man's parents is, and then moving in the direction of the ideal daughter-in-law.

Hehe, that's it, parents.

I don't want you to be like them, no insurance, no car, no house, it doesn't matter, you can fight in the future, but it's up to you, and your boyfriend will survive, or. My teacher once said something that many people have said: many people would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle, but I choose to laugh in a bicycle because this life is still very long, and I don't know what will happen in the future, so I choose to laugh.

That's what my teacher said.

The consideration of parents is also normal, they eat more salt than us, even if there is love, they also need bread, the focus is on whether this man is enterprising, afraid of hard work, and has a great sense of responsibility for the family.

I'm sorry! I can only tell you the truth, your parents are doing the right thing! You can call your parents to take a stand!

If your child were to live with this kind of person, would you be able to agree to it?So, maybe you are not destined to be together in this life!Finally, I must say to you, "You can't disobey your parents' orders"!

It's just a matter of falling in love, and I want to make this system.

What are you doing?After only talking about it for half a year, I want to get married, and I want to do it in the future?If you know more, at least you can think rationally after the love period.

Don't you have to take out a loan to buy a wedding house?It is really a local tyrant who buys a house in full.

You two won't work and make money in the future?After you get married, the economy is your own business, and you don't need your parents to worry about it.

If you don't bear pressure at a young age and don't make good money, are you waiting to gnaw at the old?

These are not big problems, and they will be there when you work hard in the future. The key is whether the two of you are suitable or not, and you can't reach any conclusion after half a year of love.

Tell your mother Find a good condition may not be happy if you feel happy, show your sincerity to your mother, learn from Kintaro Jin Liang, I hope you will be together.

My personal advice is to stick to what you think in your heart and stick to your own view of love.

Loving someone is not thinking about anything, as long as you love him, he also loves you then it is not a problem, my method is that you work hard with him to lay a good foundation then your parents will agree.