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The woman begged for 5 cents, but she was very disgusted, in fact, the five dimes can do many things, it can help others, and solve temporary difficulties.
This happened in Shenzhen, Guangdong. Ms. Tang was working in the store, and at this time, an old man came in, watching the old man begging, Ms. Tang was very unbearable, so she took out a five-cent coin and handed it to the old man who was begging. Although the money is not much, but this is a little bit of Ms. Tang's heart, I didn't expect that after doing a good deed, the old man not only did not thank him, but disliked the little money given, and also said what can he do with five cents, so he threw the coin back.
After all, the elderly need care and love, and they can help others as much as they can, and such good deeds will certainly be supported by netizens.
The old man was helped, without a word of intimate thanks, but his words were amazing. In terms of face value, five cents is indeed not as good as a 100-yuan bill, but there is Ms. Tang's love in it, and this love is hard to change. It's like walking in the desert alone, he is carrying a big bag**, the weather is hot at this time, he is thirsty, **although there are many, he can't buy a drop of water.
Therefore, the kindness contained in Ms. Tang's five cents is warm. When the "end of the road" is at the end of the road, it is heartwarming to have someone to lend a helping hand. 5 cents can be donated to others, 5 cents per person, but the power of many people, as the so-called crowd firewood flame is high, more and more people participate in the donation, then its energy is endless.
For 5 cents, a child in the mountains can buy an eraser or eat a popsicle. On the surface, these are very ordinary things, but behind the love, there is the love of good people, and this love illuminates the way forward. Therefore, don't underestimate the power of 5 cents, it is not to be underestimated, after all, kindness is priceless, and love is strong.
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Now five cents is not enough to buy a bottle of water, but it adds up, and the woman gives other old people 5 cents out of kindness. Even if it's a few, it shouldn't be disliked and thrown back.
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Now not even a lollipop is enough to buy. It's true that five cents can't do anything, but it's also a piece of heart.
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Now you can buy a few candies for 5 dimes, but that's all there is to it, I think it may be a matter of heart to give a little, so let's keep it.
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It seems that since I found out that a lot of begging is a scam, I don't want to give them any more force, because they are really sometimes richer than us ordinary people. When you look at people begging, obviously with both hands and feet, but still pretending to be disabled, you will feel how cruel the world is, they regard your kindness as ignorance, and even laugh at you, in this case, there is really no need to dig out your heart and lungs to others!
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Not necessarily, if it is some elderly people who are more pitiful, they will give, if it is young people, they generally will not.
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If I happen to have change on me, I'll give it. Because I can't be sure if this beggar came out to defraud, the amount of change is not large, even if it is deceived, it doesn't matter.
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It depends, there are a lot of fake beggars now. If you encounter it, you may also give less.
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Because there are now some beggars who have forgotten their original intentions and also take other people's own affairs for granted.
When we go out, we often find that there are many beggars on the roadside. However, when we see these beggars, it not only makes us feel a special distress in our hearts. And we will also choose to help these beggars through our own actual situation.
And in this way want to improve the economic conditions that beggars have. <>
The begging old man was disgusted with the young man and threw the five corners back.
First of all, in Shenzhen, Guangdong, there was an elderly man who went to a supermarket to beg. However, Ms. Tang in the supermarket gave the other old man five dimes, but what Ms. Tang didn't expect was that the old man thought that the five dimes were relatively small. So she threw the 5 dimes back at the first time, which made Ms. Tang feel a big blow in her heart.
After all, for Ms. Tang, the five dimes are also her own heart. <>
The beggar forgets his original intention.
The second is that I think the beggars are so arrogant. The main reason is that the beggar forgets his original intention in the process of begging. In addition, people who give to themselves take it for granted that they are in the process of giving alms.
Therefore, in the face of a relatively small amount of coin, the prayer person will make some gestures to throw it back. <>
My opinion on this matter.
Finally, I feel that the act of praying to the old man in this matter has made me personally have a feeling of incomprehension. Because in the process of begging, it can only be said that their economic conditions are relatively poor. However, no matter how much money others give to them, it is a great help to themselves.
So when I saw the attitude of this begging old man, I also felt that Ms. Tang in this matter would have an unacceptable feeling. Because this not only formed a blow to Ms. Tang, but also gave Ms. Tang a new understanding of beggars.
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The reason is that 5 cents is really too little now, and it is not enough to buy even a pack of instant noodles, so it is understandable that the beggar said that it is less. But as a beggar, I don't think you should have this kind of emotion, because when you come to beg, others give you money is love, even if it is less, you get it for nothing, so you shouldn't dislike it.
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Because some people are not poor, they see it as a profession, so they have this attitude.
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Because now those beggars are making money, and they can't look down on some small money, so it will be like this.
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This behavior of the old man begging must be very wrong, begging others to give him money, that is a kind of love, but not only do he not accept it, but he is also aggressive, so that others are very embarrassed, this kind of behavior is very bad, this kind of unearned begging behavior can not become so reasonable, you must know that others give themselves money, that is a kind of love, if others do not give themselves it is also a duty, there is no mistake.
This kind of behavior of the begging old man is certainly not worth advocating, and at the same time it must be strictly criticized, because it is not earned for nothing, and it can not become so righteous from beginning to end, others give themselves five dimes, that is also someone else's situation to see themselves, and give themselves a love, expressing a kind of mind, we should accept it more or less, we can't spare less money, because others don't owe themselves, and to put it mildly, if the idle five dimes are less, Then in society, when others give other help, you will not accept it again, let alone rely on this behavior to make a fortune.
The old man has become a beggar, in fact, we have to reflect on it, but the old man's unearned behavior, but not every one of us recognizes, and what is not recognized is that the old man does not accept the wishes of others, but also in the process of being upright and aggressive, the old man in this process, not only put the five cents back on the counter, but also returned after ten minutes to continue to complain, to be honest, no one has the obligation and responsibility to help another person, If others help us, then we should be grateful, thank others for helping us in times of difficulty, and learn to help others in the future.
This kind of behavior of the old man is certainly not worth advocating, and at the same time it should be severely criticized, at any time, the old man should not have this kind of unearned thinking, of course, he should not be so hateful to others to give himself 5 cents, no matter how much or less, this represents a heart of others, and he should better accept.
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I think there is something wrong with this kind of behavior, after all, although helping others is a good deed, it is not an obligation.
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I think the beggars are still very tough now. I feel like I still look down on small denominations of money. If you have the ability, you can make money yourself, don't beg.
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Ms. Tang's experience has sparked heated discussions on the Internet, with many people recounting their experiences of giving beggars little money and not being respected for their kindness.
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In general, as a person who does not have any physical problems, then I think he can support himself, and a lot of these beggars, then they are also good hands and feet, so I don't feel the need to give them money.
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A woman in Shenzhen gave other elderly people five dimes was thrown back, in life I face a more pitiful beggar will choose to lend a hand, for those who have hands and feet they will not take action, after all, it is not easy for everyone to make money, and should also be considered.
We should all find that there are beggars in the streets and alleys, and they all rely on begging for a living, but in the face of such people, I will not choose to help, after all, my ability is limited. When I see those who are missing arms and legs and are very old, I will choose to give them a few dollars, but for those who are younger and have hands and feet, I will choose to turn a blind eye, after all, everyone is on the same starting line, and they choose to live this kind of life to make me feel despised.
In my opinion, it may be the reluctance of others to embark on the path of begging, and there are also some people who use the path of begging as a good way out, and in my opinion they should be blamed. I believe that many begging people, as long as they insist on appearing in the place where people come and go every day, will definitely get a good income, which leads to the fact that many people will not say anything in the face of beggars, after all, they are even their way of making money. You must know that the vast majority of people will only help those who really need help, and will not work people who have the ability to make money and rely on others for a living, after all, they are not good masters, and many times they still need help.
I won't help all the beggars one by one, after all, I am also an extremely ordinary person, maybe a few dollars is not important to me, but it is also a lot of money to accumulate in the long run. It seems to me that beggars are often also in the position of pitiful people who must be hated, and many times they just take advantage of everyone's kindness to embark on this path, so in the face of such people, I will not pay a penny at all, and the other party may be richer than myself.
You must know that not everyone needs to beg for a living, so I will identify the people who are begging before making a decision, and I will not reach out to all the beggars.
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When I see such beggars, I usually choose to ignore them, and if they are particularly pitiful or elderly, I will buy them something to eat.
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I usually choose to give him about 5 yuan and tell him not to come back in the future, you can support yourself.
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I usually give them 20 yuan directly, because my 20 yuan is enough for them to eat a meal, and I won't buy it for him again.
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I think that if you can work to get an income and you don't do it, you have to beg for nothing, this kind of begging for nothing is very disgusting, because they don't really need help, they just want to get money easily in this way.
Whenever we see some people begging on the road, the first thing we feel is that they are pitiful, especially for those who are disabled and have no way to earn income through their labor, we will be willing to give them some change. However, in real life, not all beggars are worthy of our pity and help. Because they just want to get something out of it for nothing, we shouldn't lend a helping hand to such people.
How things are
This is very chilling news. In Shenzhen, Guangdong, there was an old man who was begging in a shop to beg, and the owner saw that the old man was very old and not easy, so he gave him five cents out of kindness. However, when a chilling scene appeared, the old man not only did not thank him, but threw the five cents back to the shopkeeper and walked out.
Then, after ten minutes, the old beggar returned to the shop and asked the shopkeeper what the five cents could be used for. I believe that the shopkeeper's heart is already half cold at this time, and this old man's behavior is really a little unclear.
I find these unearned acts of begging disgusting
The reason why I think this is because I think that everyone's money is not easy to come by, so why can you get it by reaching out and talking. However, when people look at you pitifully, think that you are old and life is not easy, and give you some money, you still dislike it in turn, which no one can look at. For this kind of people who do not work hard, they should be ruthless and not give a cent.
Our love is for those who really need it, not for those who have bad hearts. All in all, when we encounter begging people in our lives in the future, we still need to discern whether we need to give our love according to the situation.
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Judging from the old man's various performances, he is likely to be a "professional beggar". Because when a person is faced with a problem of survival, he will only help in the unexpected world, and will not dwell on whether this help is big or not, because the latter is just a luxury most of the time.
It's like a person falling into the water, even if there is only one straw around him, he will cling to it, and he will not dislike whether grasping this straw can bring any effect, because this is his only hope now. For real beggars in real life, every kindness can bring warmth, and every act of kindness can solve the problem of food and clothing, which is enough, what else can they ask for? Unless you want to buy a car and a house by begging, and have a monthly income of more than 10,000 yuan, you won't be entangled in whether others give more money or less money.
As the saying goes, "the world is big, there are no wonders", and now there are many fake beggars in this society, and the money given by others is less, and he still has to speak to ridicule, which simply refreshes everyone's three views.
The incident happened in Shenzhen, Guangdong, where an old man dressed as a beggar came to a convenience store to beg, and the owner, Ms. Tang, was not surprised by this. Because there are too many beggars in the usual era, I wanted to refuse to send the other party away in person, but seeing that the beggar was a little old, dirty, and looking at her eyes very earnestly, Ms. Tang felt pity, so she took out a 5 cent coin and gave it to the other party. I never thought that it was okay not to give it, but after giving it, the old man saw that it was only 5 cents, and his face suddenly changed, and he asked Ms. Tang, "Why is it only 5 cents?" and then tossed the coin straight back. Ms. Tang was stunned on the spot and sighed: Are beggars so arrogant in this era?
After the incident spread to the Internet, it attracted a lot of attention, and everyone was holding the mentality that watching the excitement was not a big deal. However, from a rational point of view, this old man is obviously a professional beggar, because judging from his various behaviors, he is not begging to meet daily food and clothing at all, but to make money to beg, only the latter will dislike the money given by others is too little, and the former will only thank everyone for their kindness. Because the person who stops and stays in front of him to give a coin is much better than watching or walking away silently, so what can he ask for?
This is the difference between real beggars and fake beggars at the psychological and behavioral level, and the old man in the news is obviously a type of person who does not worry about food, clothing, and wants to take advantage of others for nothing.
I think this old man is too greedy, this woman is so kind to give him a seat, forget it if she is not grateful, and she will pick up someone's mobile phone and not return it, which will make this woman's heart cold.
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