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In the face of a man who can afford to give a bride price, but does not want to give it, a woman should figure out why he does not want to give a bride price, and his attitude towards himself in ordinary times, and then decide whether to marry or not.
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In the face of a man who can afford to give a bride price, but he doesn't want to give it, a woman shouldn't marry, and a person who is not even willing to give a bride price, do you still expect the other party to be good to you and pamper you after marriage?
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Personally, I think it shouldn't be, there is a good saying, if I have 100 yuan, I will give you the yuan. To truly love a person is to give her what she has, the best, love is to give, of course, there will be returns, if there is not even a little bit of pay, then there is no need for such a person to continue.
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The woman does not necessarily care about how much the bride price has, what she cares about is the importance that the man attaches to the woman, and the person who is willing to spend money for himself is worthy of marriage, and the man who is obviously rich but does not want to take the bride price does not take the woman seriously at all, so such a man should not marry.
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It depends. If the woman makes a lot of unreasonable demands, then there is a reason for not giving it, and you can marry. If you just don't want to give, it won't be too good for you, so you shouldn't marry.
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No, men don't even want to pay a bride price, so why don't they love you, this kind of man persuades women not to marry, because men who can't afford to give it won't give you the love and marriage you want.
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You shouldn't get married, you can afford it, but you don't want to give it, it can only show that the man doesn't value you, and your value in his heart is far less than the RMB in his hand, and such a man will not be good after marriage.
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A man who does not want to give a bride price cannot marry.
First, it is not an exaggeration for the woman to ask for a bride price, the bride price is also a marriage guarantee and sincerity money, if a man keeps saying that he loves you, but the result is not willing to give up the bride price money at all, then do you think he has a bit of sincerity towards you?
Second, many people now say that as soon as the woman asks for a bride price, some men deduct the girl's parents with a hat of selling their daughter, which simply ignores the efforts of the woman's parents and the weak status of women, and does not leave a little way back for the woman at all, such a man must not marry in the past.
Third, the more bride price, the more difficult it is for the man to have other intentions, now people are the more expensive things are more cherished, because the more expensive the bride price, the higher the cost of finding a female reed, so it can only be very good to you, if you don't want a bride price, most of the things that have no cost at all men will not cherish, but it is not that the bride price is not given by the other party, but on the premise that the other party can afford it.
Fourth, women have been damaged because they have children, and the workplace has also depreciated, so the bride price must be wanted, just depending on how much.
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The man thinks that you are not very valuable, he just wants to borrow you to have a child, and he wants you to take care of the housework, in this case he is not willing to give the bride price.
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feels that the other party is not worthy of the bride price, feels that the other party has already eaten the other party, even if he does not give the bride price, the other party will not leave him, he feels that the other party has been with him for a long time, and he does not have a lot of feelings for the other party, and he feels that there is no freshness, so he does not want to give the bride price.
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They want the white wolf with empty gloves, they feel that you are not worthy of his bride price, they are afraid that the father-in-law and mother-in-law will not bring back the daughter after getting the bride price, and the man's parents do not approve of each other, so they are not willing to spend the bride price.
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Can't, you can't give, but you can't do without attitude.
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1. From my point of view, the bride price does reflect a man's attitude and the importance of a family. But it shouldn't be a condition.
In ancient times, the bride price was a custom of giving a bride price to each other when the marriage was initially reached. Here I would like to make it clear that it is a mutual gift, not a one-sided.
Moreover, it is not what the woman asks for, it is usually given by the man on his own initiative, nor is it compared with others, but reflects a kind of sincerity.
At the same time, after the woman receives the bride price, she will also add a dowry to her daughter on the basis of the bride price, which will slowly become the property jointly owned by the husband and wife.
2. Marriage is a matter of two people, and at the same time, it is also a matter of two families.
It is a pair of lovers who naturally enter the stage of marriage, one is willing to marry, the other is willing to marry, and form a new family.
Therefore, for the bride price, everyone should look at this matter calmly, and then analyze it objectively. I think it should be discussed together according to the man's family situation, rather than a mouthful of **, how much it must be.
What's the point of having such a marriage go on? Some people may contradict me, what do you get married if you don't have money, and you should be single if you don't have money. Yes, if you don't have money, you should be single, but shouldn't marriage be a matter of two people?
It is impossible for God to shout that Sui is one-sided, which makes me feel that it is a feeling of being willing to marry and a feeling of not wanting to marry.
Here, I would like to reaffirm my point of view that I support the bride price given by the married man. But this kind of giving is not a "clear price" divination, but varies from person to person, depending on each person's family background.
3. Of course, when a man gets married, he is not even willing to pay the bride price, which means that you are not so important in his mind. Especially those with good family conditions can get this money, but they are unwilling to give it.
Let's think about how much energy and effort it takes for the parents of a woman to raise a daughter. And you only think about your own contributions, not about other people's parents. That can only show that the person is very selfish.
On the other hand, the process of a woman getting pregnant and giving birth to a child is quite dangerous, even if medicine is so developed now, there is still a certain risk for a woman to give birth to a child.
Then, as long as the woman is not shouting the sky-high bride price, it is completely within the scope of your family economy, and the man should not care about those bride price.
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It's too high, and a lot of it needs to be borrowed, which is beyond the ability to bear, so naturally I don't want to.
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Maybe he felt that after getting married, he would not be free, and everything would be different from now. He loves the way he gets along with each other now.
Obviously separated by thousands of miles, but I feel very close, in fact, sometimes it is true, although the distance is very far, but the hearts of two people are close.
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