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Cao Gong can't finish writing them one by one, unlike Baoqin and Baochai, who can only get gifts from Jia's mother occasionally, so Cao Gong specifically mentions it, which does not mean that Jia's mother likes them because of this.
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As a kind grandmother, the biggest benefit that Mother Jia can give Daiyu should be to arrange a good family affair for her.
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Mother Jia undoubtedly loves Daiyu's granddaughter very much.
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First of all, Daiyu's cleanliness. Although Daiyu is not as clean as Miaoyu, she also has her own cleanliness habits, and she doesn't like anything that a stinky man has taken, and she doesn't like anything given by the prince, so she refused Baoyu's gift.
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Jia's mother likes Daiyu, that's because her daughter doesn't pay much attention to it.
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Because she didn't want to leave Lin Daiyu with any thoughts that she could be with Jia Baoyu.
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In fact, a very realistic reason may be that he feels that Daiyu can't be her daughter-in-law, and she wants to break Daiyu's thoughts.
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Because it is a treasure for loved ones. There is no need to be obsessed with the details, and the book does not emphasize that it must not have been sent.
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It was Gao E who asked Baoyu to marry Baochai, not Cao Xueqin. Gao E distorted the meaning of Cao Gong, ignored all the clues and details buried by Cao Gong in the first eighty episodes, borrowed the backdoor to return the soul, and changed his own proposition to a golden and jade good fate, Lan Gui Qifang, which is despised.
Jia's mother is a resolute supporter of Bao Dai's love, whether it is from the depth of the relationship, the intimacy of feelings, the similarities and differences in thoughts, and the up and down of her eyes, she is inclined to Daiyu, not to mention that with her old man's eyes, she has long seen who Baoyu likes, Baoyu is her favorite grandson, from the perspective of thinking about Baoyu only, she will not bear to do things that make Baoyu sad, not to mention a lifelong event.
Mother Jia has a lot of open and secret words, allowing us to see her attitude towards Baoyu's marriage, in three details:
1.Qingxuguan beat Jiao, Daoist Zhang proposed to Baoyu, Jia's mother said that Baoyu was still young, and he should not marry early in his life, so Daoist Zhang asked, there are good looks and good temperament, whether rich or poor, they will go back and forth to her. This statement makes sense, you can't get married early, who is it for?
Naturally, it is Baochai, her age was not small, and it was already time to get married, and anyone with a discerning eye could see that she was interested in Baoyu, isn't the meaning of Jia's mother obvious enough? And then there is a good temperament, don't think that they all say that Baochai has a good temperament, and what Jia's mother said is that her has a good temperament, don't forget, Jia's mother likes to be smart, straightforward, happy and beautiful, for example, Daiyu Qingwen, Baochai's house has ordinary snow caves, white and scary, so that Jia's mother can see enough, a person who doesn't even have the taste of life, how can he please Jia's mother?
2.Baochai has been in Jiafu for a long time, Jia's mother has never asked Baochai's marriage question, and Baochai's cousin Baoqin just came, Jia's mother asked east and west, and she liked it very much, knowing that Baoqin had promised to marry someone or proposed to match Baoyu and Baoqin, and showed a pity after being rejected. Baochai was very depressed, and said to Baoqin half-jokingly and half-seriously, I am not as good as you.
The old lady is smart, a small trick is equivalent to telling everyone.
3.Sister Feng is Jia's mother's favorite person, and she is also the most powerful helper in Jia's mother's camp, and she is Jia's mother's spokesperson. Sister Feng is indifferent and speechless to Baochai, has few contacts, and is quite insightful to her.
For Daiyu, it is close and hot, you come and go, and interact frequently. In front of everyone, Sister Feng made jokes about Daiyu and Baoyu several times, and even said bluntly: When will you be our daughter-in-law?
made Daiyu blush.
All kinds of things clearly indicate Jia's mother's attitude. She saw that the two little lovers of Baoyu and Daiyu repeatedly had contradictions, fights, and cried, and used her old man's unique wisdom to hit the nail on the head of the truth of love: It's not that enemies don't get together.
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Jia Mu likes Daiyu very much. The reason why she supports Baoyu and Baochai to marry is because she thinks that Daiyu's character and Baoyu are not suitable. And Daiyu's physical condition is not particularly good, so she chose this way.
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Mother Jia actually likes Lin Daiyu. But I feel that Lin Daiyu is not suitable for Jia Baoyu. felt that Lin Daiyu was a sick seedling. That's why they support Baoyu and Baochai to get married.
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Jia's mother likes Daiyu very much, because Xue Baochai is helpful to the Jia family, so she supports Xue Baochai and Baoyu to get married.
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It can be interpreted as fate I love you!
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Mother Jia wanted Daiyu to marry Baoyu, but the people in Mrs. Wang's faction disagreed, Mother Jia was too old to control Mrs. Wang, and naturally she couldn't be the master to let Daiyu marry her.
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Jia's mother very much wanted Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu, he was a pity that he died early, and there were other people in the Jia family who didn't want Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu.
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Although Lin Daiyu is very good, Lin Daiyu's mother has passed away and there is no backstage, and marrying Jia Baoyu will not help Jia Baoyu's future.
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