Is life full of disasters and hardships a bad fate?

Just because life is full of disasters does not mean that this person must have a bad life.

Suffering from many disasters is an experience, and everyone is born with a limited amount of hardship, and if you suffer so much in advance, the situation should improve in the future.

Some people are bitter and then sweet, and some people are sweet and then bitter. I myself am a person who suffers first, physical hardships, growing up hardships, including spiritual trauma and emotional frustration when I grow up.

At first, I would break down and be sad, but after a long time, I was able to see a lot.

Now, the god of luck has also favored me. I've been eating for thirty years, and now I think I'm pretty good.

I don't appreciate the hardships I have endured, but I'm glad I survived, and I don't know what will happen in the future, but now I'm fine.

If there is a great calamity in a person's life, there will be great blessings in the future. On the other hand, if the first one has enjoyed great blessings, there will be great calamities later.

People who have been smooth in life will not do anything great, this is the truth, because the development of all things in the world has the law of opposites, you have an uphill and downhill, and you must go downhill first. Keep walking on a flat road, and there are no uphill and downhill slopes.

People are high-level animals, eat grains and grains, how can there be no illness, how can life be smooth sailing, look down, think about it, many disasters and difficulties are life, but there are indeed people who are beautiful, smooth and smooth, that is, not sick, not bumpy, this is also incomprehensible, fate makes people, believe it, don't believe it! Who can tell!

From the point of view of fate, it is indeed a bad fate. If you have a good life, there won't be a lot of disasters, so you should have a bad dream.

I don't quite agree with this point of view, there is a saying that it is good to believe in fate, but you can't accept fate, fate is fate, together it is called fate, fate is destined, but we can change, because fate is in our own hands.

Yes, this kind of person will be fine as long as he stays away.

I believe everyone understands this truth, no one is born with smooth sailing, and they will experience some pain of one kind or another. It's just that when we endure calamities, we may ignore other people's calamities, just as when we are happy, we can't see other people's calamities, which is just a kind of samsara. In addition to some ups and downs set for us by fate, there are also some man-made factors.

1. God is fair to everyone

Believe in yourself, believe in your own life, as long as we pay, we will definitely receive a return. God is always fair to any of us, both good and bad, when you feel pain in this moment, your happiness in the next moment is on the way to come. In the same way, when we are happy, a painful torment that may await us is on the way.

What we can do is to go with the flow, the soldiers will come to block, and the water will cover the earth. Be a super-mature person at heart, and you are already halfway to success.

2. In addition to the arrangement given to us by fate, there are also our own efforts the day after tomorrow

The reincarnation in fate, I believe everyone believes that there will be. The birth of a person, this is God's destined arrangement. It will determine where you will go in the future.

In fate, we can't do anything, because that is some of the calamities set for us by God, but some acquired factors, we can control ourselves, and we can change our current fate through our own efforts. Only if one is confident in oneself and tells oneself not to be discouraged at any time, then everything can be changed.

When those bad moments of pain come, we comfort ourselves and allow ourselves to meditate on the pain, believing that by our own strength, time will pass. The strength of one's heart is the greatest strength to support oneself to persevere for the rest of his life. If a person's heart is not strong enough, he will be crushed by everything around him, in this world, who of us can rely on each other, only believe in ourselves, so work hard, boy!

Go for it, girl!

The world is always full of strange things. A person's life is actually quite long, and there are many things that can be experienced in this life, and there will be ups and downs as well as smooth roads. When you encounter a smooth sail, you will feel very lucky and feel that God is favoring you, but once you encounter ups and downs or encounter many tribulations, you will feel very sad, and sometimes you will even give up on yourself.

There are many people who feel that they are very unlucky, they often have many disasters, and they see that others have always been smooth sailing, and rarely encounter ups and downs. So he often complains about the unfairness of fate and feels that the world is not fair to him. Let me answer with you why some people are having a good time now, while others are in a lot of trouble.

Maybe people are not in a smooth situation all the time, and sometimes they will encounter some setbacks. It's that you don't see the way he goes through the setbacks, what he shows everyone is that he has been going well, so people don't and the setbacks he suffers behind him. And there are many people who often have a positive and optimistic attitude, making them feel that everything they encounter is smooth sailing and is very easy to solve.

That's why there are a lot of people who seem to have a smooth ride.

Sometimes people do have bad luck and cause themselves to encounter some bad things often. However, if you don't have a good attitude to deal with it at this time, it is easy to cause yourself to give up on yourself, and you feel that you have a lot of disasters. I feel that fate is very unfair to me.

As a result, he felt resentful, feeling that everyone else was going well, and only he was unlucky. This mentality is very bad.

I hope that everyone can face anything positively and optimistically in their daily life, and don't feel that fate is unfair to them because they have suffered some unfortunate things. I should be positive in facing and overcoming difficulties, and I should believe that there will always be a rainbow after the storm.

You should not only see the smooth sailing of others, you should also see the many disasters and hardships of others, no one's life, he has always worked very hard, to Dogadona, so without hard work, he cannot exist. So don't worry about those things.

In fact, God is fair to people, but it seems to you that people are going well, but you don't know how many hardships people have gone through behind them, and you seem to have some people who have many disasters and difficulties, but in fact, they may actually make a lot of money in other places, so it is fair to everyone, and the mentality should be correct.

In fact, this is an inevitable result, how can anyone be born with smooth sailing, people are through their own efforts, through their own efforts to let themselves have such a situation, so the current scenery is the previous kind of hard work in exchange, on the contrary, there are many people who are lazy and unwilling to do anything, so his life seems to be more difficult and difficult.

I think the reason why there are such different situations in the world is because each of us is different, each of us has a different view on some things, and the family conditions in which we live are also very different. Although these sad things are different, some are very sad, and some are not particularly sad, but I think this is something that everyone should experience in their lives, so many people have a smooth ride along the way, and some people have a lot of disasters and difficulties, I think this is also a different manifestation of each life.

Generally, people who are smooth sailing are special stable people, they are particularly not good at breaking through, many times he is what he is like, many times he will not face some things, and some people although it is said that there are many disasters and difficulties, but they can get more things, but also because their starting point is relatively low, they will have to change the status quo through continuous exploration, so there will be a lot of disasters and difficulties, and sometimes it is indeed because of creation to make people, And I don't pay much attention to things, which is also caused by being too reckless.

I think some people are born with smooth sailing, but some people are born with many disasters, because their lives are different, there are no two identical leaves in this world, everyone has their own thoughts, everyone has their own way to go, so many things are different, many people are favored by God all their lives, and some people will have more unfortunate things happen to them, so I think this is something that everyone encounters on the road of life, which is also very normal.

In fact, it is not that some people are born with smooth sailing, nor are some people born with many disasters and difficulties, those who are smooth sailing are their own strong ability, so that we seem to feel smooth, but the efforts made by others in private are very large, and they have paid a lot of hardships, and people who have many disasters and difficulties are basically because they are not strong enough, and they are not good enough to make their life so unsmooth.

I have no way to explain this situation but to put it down to luck. I have always believed that luck is a very important thing in this world. Because of luck, we may be reincarnated in a very good family, such as Wang Sicong.

In this way, his life will be smooth, and if we are unlucky, we will be reincarnated in a poor family and many disasters from then on.

Because everyone's life is different, you don't just see the smooth sailing of others, but you don't see the kind of disasters and pain of others, so you will find that everyone's life is different in a large situation, don't just stare at the smooth sailing of others and suffer from your many disasters, you will find that in many cases multiple disasters are not a special feeling.

Because some people actually work very hard where you can't see, and where you can see it, you will feel like this, but in fact the emperor is the same for everyone, and everyone will go through the same ordeal in order to get what he wants or has been fighting for.

If a person's life is full of disasters and difficulties, maybe her family conditions are not very good, and it may be more difficult, so he needs to work hard alone in the society from the beginning, he does not have too much background strength, so he will encounter a lot of difficulties and twists and turns in his life, but he will definitely be very successful after sending these difficulties and twists and turns, so he doesn't need to care too much about whether it will be bad or something.

Life is the same, but the circumstances are different! The meaning of human life should be in the process, not the conclusion. Therefore, one should not influence another person with his own experience and opinions, let alone that he is not you, and you are not him.

The process of everyone's growth is different, and the ups and downs of life should be tasted by themselves, and trying is life.

No one is smooth, you think he is smooth sailing just you feel, thousands of years ago people know: Zifei fish, the joy of knowing fish? You think that you are not going well just you don't find the beauty in your life, think carefully about the good in your life, in fact, the world is very subjective, have you found that time will pass very quickly when you are happy, and time will be very slow when you are sad, so use your heart to discover the world, you will have a different discovery.

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, to be bored, to grow old, sick and die, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then let yourself be busy and get up early, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then wake up in the morning, don't love the bed, wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are many people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all happy to live in this god, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.