What is the experience of family education?

1. Provide a relaxed and harmonious family environment for children.

A harmonious family can give children a cheerful character, which is beneficial to the growth of children, and the family is not harmonious, and the harm to children is often greater than that of adults, which will make children lose their sense of security, and it is easy to form a bad character and psychology, lack of sense of responsibility and love, and a good family environment can provide the necessary fertile soil for the healthy growth of children. A harmonious family environment needs to start from our parents themselves, set an example, pay attention to their usual words and deeds, respect their parents, treat others well, and play a positive role model for children. Strive to create a family environment for children that is loving but not pampered, more guidance and less control, more encouragement and less criticism, and more tolerant and not harsh.

The relaxed environment is by no means obedient to the child, and the clothes come to reach out for food to open their mouths.

2. Learn to listen, communicate with children on an equal footing, and be a close friend of children.

There will always be a generation gap between parents and children, and children gradually have the ability to think independently, and they have received a lot of information from them, have their own opinions, and are often overly self-righteous. As parents, you should put down your condescending posture, sit down with your children calmly, chat face-to-face, talk about your heart, and communicate and exchange with your children on an equal footing. Hope that the son will become a dragon, and the daughter will become a phoenix is the expectation of every parent, but it cannot be simply required from one aspect, and efforts should be made to cultivate the comprehensive quality of the child, just like sometimes when the child's test results are not satisfactory, it is necessary to help the child find the reason, set the method, set the goal, less blame, more guidance, after a long time, the child will naturally regard his parents as his bosom friend.

3. Let children learn to do their own things and establish the spirit of hardship from an early age.

Parents should let their children learn to take care of themselves from an early age, understand the hardships of life, establish the idea of self-reliance from an early age, and not only cultivate the spirit of enduring hardships, but also cultivate the ability to live independently, so that they can become independent members of society. The more parents are more protective and replaced, the more dependent and incompetent the children are, diligence is the seed of happiness, idleness is the bane of depravity, comfort is the biggest enemy of children's growth, and it is the biggest hidden danger buried in the hearts of children. Therefore, it is necessary to let children grow up in adversity and make their lives more brilliant after experiencing wind and rain.

4. Strive to cultivate children's sense of social responsibility and dedication.

Combined with specific examples in history and real life, children are educated and inspired by it, understand that people cannot be a simple natural person, and require children to be loving, to love the country, love their parents, love society, to love all people and things, but also to respect their parents and teachers. In life, we should not only live for ourselves, but also achieve society, and be a person who contributes to society and loves others. Because only if you love others, you can be loved by more people.