There are some people, as soon as you take the initiative, the story begins, why?

It's because the other person also likes you, so there is no big gap between the two of you, so you can start soon.

Because some people are more passive in their love life, as long as another person starts to take the initiative, the relationship will begin.

I couldn't agree more, it's very good for you, and it will give you the opportunity.

Because some people may also like you, but they don't dare to take the initiative to confess, at this time, if you take the initiative, there will definitely be a good result

That's because people nowadays don't dare to take the initiative at all, and if there is one person who takes the initiative, they will have a good result.

I don't know what to do, and I go deep.

You take the initiative and we'll have a story. This sentence made me think about it.

Normally, as long as a man meets a woman he likes, he wants to push him down, and most of the women who meet the man they like will also want to knock each other down. It's just that men are obvious, and women are much more subtle.

For married men and women, it is even more burdensome to take this step.

I am afraid that only he knows the true thoughts of a person's heart.

How many times can you encounter a chance to confess in your life?

In fact, many times it is not easy to pursue, and it is not easy to accept.

What kind of confession will move us?

Are there good or bad feelings?

A long, long time ago, I had the experience of being forced into a corner by a girl step by step, stopped halfway after school, and even more like a panicked deer who didn't know what would happen. It was the day before I was going to transfer to another school, and the girl who stopped me halfway was actually trying to give me a postcard as a souvenir.

By the time we understand many things, they have already passed away for years, leaving us with a stomach full of melancholy.

You take the initiative and we'll have a story. "Maybe only a man like me would catch a cold on this sentence.

In life, most people are passive. Passive learning in school, waiting for others to talk to you when making friends, everyone knows the phrase "take the initiative and we will have a story", but few people can do it, which is one of the reasons why you didn't get into your favorite school and didn't talk about your favorite friends.

What you want to do, you must take the initiative to fight for it.

When you were young, the family sat at the dinner table, and before you waited for you to shout and scream for something, Mom and Dad would put something delicious in your bowl. Growing up, anyone who can add food to your bowl must be someone who loves you. When you first started going out, you couldn't open your face, and you couldn't eat well outside.

Later, you will definitely let yourself eat well and be full, and you know that if you want to eat, you must turn the table and pick up the dishes by yourself.

When making friends and falling in love, I believe you must have lived like this: open the other party's chat window, type a paragraph and delete it. It's either that you've just been together, or you're about to break up.

You hesitate, wander, and be the passive party.

Obviously, you can ask him out to meet right away, but because of the shyness and the idea that girls can't be too active, you can't hold hands with him in time, show your beautiful smile, and wait for him to ask you out.

Obviously, you will be able to end the relationship on the edge of the cliff soon, but because of the affection and some trivial memories, you will delay again and again, and continue the relationship that is not dead or alive.

Take the initiative to love without expecting anything in return.

When you meet a lover who understands you, he doesn't need you to take the initiative; When you meet the right lover, you have to go both ways, and you have to take the initiative to love; When you meet someone you love, you must take the initiative in everything.

Many people take the initiative to get tired after a long time, and the previous understanding of this sentence is that one of the two people does not love each other so much, and there is no timely response, so that the other party is tired of love and tired.

Now I feel that I don't love each other so much, as long as you ask for something in return, you will be tired.

Do you see parents getting tired when they love their children?

The more you ask for many things, the more you can't get it, you give him an apple, you think he will have to give you a dragon fruit, you see that he didn't give it to you, you continue to give him bananas, grapes, and then he still doesn't give it to you, you can't wait, you feel that it was given to the wrong person, but you may not know that he took the time to prepare a big fruit basket.

I hope that in 2021, I will reduce the passive psychological plot of feasting, take the initiative to do everything I want to do, take the initiative to love, laugh, cry, scold, be stupid, oh, by the way, the most important thing is to continue to be handsome.

Matthew 5:41 says, "If someone forces you to walk a mile, you go two miles." ”

It means taking the initiative to do it before others ask for it.

No matter in life or work, if you don't take the initiative to contact people and things in the outside world, you will be isolated from everything in the outside world over time and become a real widow.

Reality does not allow us to do this either, remember this passage:

I'm not good at words, but I'm busy with people;

I like to be alone, but I'm busy running around and getting tired;

And everything that is done is to get;

It turns out that the world does not allow us to be introverted.

The complex world requires us to take the initiative to touch, get close, and understand.

Of course, it is not physical contact and proximity, but the use of spiritual tentacles to touch the surrounding life.

For example, if you don't stretch out your hand, you'll never be able to touch your eyes and touch someone.

When the blind or the elderly are helped to cross the road, the grateful look on their faces is the reward of taking the initiative to pay, and we did not think of the return when we acted, but the reward came naturally, and we were happy at this time.

Throw away your shoulders and disguises, and always remember: to sit still is to rest on your laurels, and to take the initiative is to have a story.

Life only gives us two choices, stay where we are and play a supporting role in life;

Start again and be the protagonist of life;

May we all be the protagonists of life and turn accidents into stories.