If you are not filial to your parents, you really can t marry Can t you marry?

Updated on society 2024-07-22
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you are not filial to your parents, you really can't marry, and you can't marry, because even the biological parents who gave birth to and raised yourself are not filial, such people are extremely selfish, have problems with their character, and their three views are not correct, and they will quarrel and get angry all day long with such people. It is inevitable to be hurt, and it is impossible to be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    People who are not filial to their parents can marry without the knowledge of others. But once it is known by the other party, there will be no more any good feelings for such people. Because not being filial to your parents is the biggest taboo in life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    A person who is not filial to his parents needs to think carefully before he can marry, and if a person is not filial to his parents, who will he care about.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It depends on why this is the case, some parents have children and do not do what they should do to their children, there are many selfish behaviors, and children suffer from it, so it is impossible for children to be unfilial in their later years, but if a child from a normal family does not even know filial piety, will he be responsible for the family, and will he be considerate to his husband? Taking care of your children? It is unlikely, such a person is unreliable and marries and destroys the family.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Right. If a person can ignore his parents, then can you expect him to stay with you for the rest of your life? Obviously, it can't be. Therefore, such a person cannot be married, and cannot be married.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No. Unless it's caused by the parents themselves. Otherwise, who can really be good to those who are not grateful for the nurturing grace of their parents?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A man who is not filial to his parents has no sense of responsibility and is more selfish, such a person is so indifferent to his parents who gave birth to him, of course he can't marry him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, unfilial parents can change it through education.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, it is useless to marry, it will only set a bad example for the next generation, and the children born must be unfilial.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It must be like this, I think it's better not to find such a woman, because this woman is not filial to her parents, so this woman's character is also problematic, and the quality is also bad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If a person says that he is not filial to his parents, he still has a certain problem. Your parents gave birth to you and raised you so much, and it cost you so much to do it, so there is no way and hard work. Even parents are not filial, such people cannot socialize.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's right, parents have the grace of nurturing their children, how can a person who is not even filial to his parents love others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Many women's standards will have filial piety to their parents. Some people say that you must never marry a man who is not filial to your parents and elders, why is this? I think that filial piety comes first, a son-in-law is half a son, and a man is not filial to his parents and elders, then it means that this man does not love himself much.

    Because he doesn't respect himself, his parents and elders, marrying such a man will be very painful.

    The crow has the love of feeding, the sheep has the grace of kneeling and breastfeeding, and the parent's nurturing grace to us, every child must keep it in mind. In addition, respecting the elderly, caring for the elderly, and honoring the elders are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation and the basic moral norms for everyone. For women, getting married and leaving home does not mean that they can ignore their parents, but that women should be filial to their parents and elders even with the person they marry after they get married.

    And when many women choose to marry, they will also look at whether the man is filial to his parents and elders, whether he has filial piety, and whether he respects his parents and elders.

    Men who are not filial to their parents and elders are often more selfish, and they often put themselves first in what they think and do. Moreover, the family where such a man was born is generally not very good, and maybe the man's parents are not filial to their parents. As the saying goes, the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, and what kind of family environment you live in, what kind of person you may grow up to become.

    So for such a man, you must not marry, if you do, you may marry into an abyss.

    Whether a man is filial to his parents and elders can be detected from many of his daily lives and behaviors. So if you feel that your boyfriend is a person who is not filial to your parents and elders when you are in a relationship, then break up and leave quickly. Don't let a man disrespect his parents and himself, such a marriage, even if it is combined, will not be happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is because people who are not filial to their parents and elders have a very poor character, and it is impossible to be good to their children and wives after marriage.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is because if you marry a man who is not filial to his parents and elders, such a man will definitely not love you in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's mainly caused by the economic situation, because most of the people that parents don't let marry are found by the children themselves, and the age difference between such objects and girls is not very big, and they may even be classmates. After graduation, two people look for a job together, and if the boy is not good enough, it is difficult to satisfy the woman's family. And parents don't want their daughters to marry farther away, so they will ask relatives and friends to help introduce the partner every Chinese New Year, and some girls will give up the object they originally wanted to marry for the peace of mind of their parents.

    What do I think about women marrying and finding a partner?

    In fact, I personally don't believe in love, I think that the person I get along with in the future should be pleasing to the eye, and I will judge from the other party's appearance and financial resources. Marriage is by no means two people living together, so you can't want nothing for the so-called love, love can't be used as money, and if a marriage has no financial support, it will perish sooner or later. In the eyes of many people, girls are forces, and the same is true for boys, who must be good-looking and obedient, how can they be so perfect.

    Are you happy now marrying someone introduced by your parents?

    You can't generalize about anything, but the example around me wasn't happy, that girl.

    When he was 21 years old, he was forced on a blind date by his parents. Originally, the girl wanted to talk to each other for another year or two, but her mother did not agree, and finally got married in a hurry. Soon the girl gave birth to two children to each other, and she also became a big girl from Huanghua.

    has become a yellow-faced woman, who works diligently at home to take care of her children, but she will still be looked down upon by her husband.

    Sometimes girls often send me messages to complain, and it is impossible to persuade her to divorce as a friend, so girls must consider carefully when choosing a partner.

    Do you end up happily ever after marrying a romantic partner?

    Although it is a little difficult for the two to live together, most of them live happily and fully. They stay in a small house and may worry about the rent, but they know how to get through the difficulties together and help each other, which is a normal marriage.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the parents don't let them take it, they generally rely on their parents to pay for their own marriage, and they don't have the ability to do it, so they don't take it. And if the parents don't let him get married, he doesn't have to worry about the parents to pay for it, the man can handle the marriage for him, then they can marry without scruples, which is caused by this factor.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is mainly caused by people's psychological factors, because relatively speaking, men are rational, so they don't marry their parents, and women are relatively clean, so they are also married, all due to people's different psychological factors.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, this is because boys are very rational and learn from their parents' experience, so there will be a situation where their parents don't let them marry.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's because most girls are more persistent in their feelings, so they don't listen to their parents too much, but boys will weigh the pros and cons more, and they are more rational.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This shows that this society has changed, and children have a rebellious mentality.

    If you don't have a good relationship with your parents, sometimes you have to do the opposite thing and make your parents sad.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's because boys and girls are different, boys' attitudes towards feelings are particularly rational, but girls are very willful, and if they like someone, they will be with them.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It shows that sons listen to their parents, and daughters generally make their own decisions, which is the difference between men and women, social factors, and family factors.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Boys are very realistic, but also very rational, if their parents don't let them marry, the average boy will choose to respect their parents' opinions, and many girls are very impulsive, especially irrational, if their parents don't let them marry, the girl will become particularly extreme, will always marry each other.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Parents don't let them get married, parents don't let them marry, what factors are caused by this, this shows that maybe relatively speaking, the son is still more obedient, the opinions of the parents, and the girl's treatment of feelings may be more single-minded.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Parents are too high-minded. Boys are not the same as girls, and once a boy misses it, it is really difficult to find it again, but a girl is different.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because the parents didn't want to marry a boy, because they couldn't marry their parents without money, they didn't let them marry, and because a woman married out of her mother's family could not give a dowry, so it was caused by this reason.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is mainly due to social reasons and the social factor of male superiority and inferiority.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This is the so-called rebellious heart, the more you don't let me do it, the more I have to do it, and the more you don't agree, I just want to talk about it, that is, to do it against my parents.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello, you may have encountered this situation, not listening to your parents and suffering a loss. That's why you're talking about the problem now.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, the parents didn't let them marry, that is, Ma Bao, the male parents didn't let them marry, but they all married, this is a kind of female character, so the two people may be completely different personalities in this regard, maybe the parents don't let them marry, they will feel guilty for a lifetime, resentful of their parents for a lifetime, well, they all married if they don't let their parents not let them marry, although they found marriage, but they didn't get free.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't marry those who don't marry, and those whose parents don't let you marry don't marry, I think this shows that the girls we meet are some well-behaved girls, and they obey, after all, the road their parents have walked.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    A seemingly simple sentence, it actually makes a lot of sense. Some scholars believe that marriage involves subjective and objective factors. Men and women are different and have different attitudes towards relationship issues.

    In addition to feelings, it is also related to economic factors. We analyze them individually. First, if the parents don't let them get married, they are naturally men, mainly because:

    Men are more rational, and their parents will not let them marry unconditionally. Most of them do not marry, which is determined by the dominance of their parents in the family economy. Because his parents threatened not to buy a house and not to give a bride price.

    If the wedding is not held, the man will withdraw from the marriage.

    A man's rationality is not easily influenced by feelings. They can think rationally and weigh the pros and cons when they are in love. Generally speaking, a man in a relationship will consider more factors than love.

    Men tend to be more materially and economically conscious than women. When a man gets married, whether he buys a car or a house, or renovates a new house, he will give a bride price to a girl. Most people who do not have the financial means need to rely on their parents for help, and only parents have the final say.

    Some men need a financial foundation to get married.

    But they don't need to, so they have to obey their parents' arrangements.

    Some men have good family conditions, but they do not have any skills. They obey their parents and can only obey their parents. Some men will feel that they do not have an economic foundation and will affect their later life.

    When it comes to marriage, men tend to pay more attention to material conditions than women. After all, there is a lot of social pressure and family pressure now, mainly on men, which makes some people think of it. It is best to choose a less troublesome one on the premise of being able to choose, so as to avoid trouble and save ten or twenty years of struggle.

    Some men don't love each other enough. Sleep with a pillow, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep. It's not about the money, it's not brave enough, it's because I don't love you so much that I can't make up my mind.

    It may also be expected to meet a woman with better conditions than now, so as soon as the parents object, the man has an excuse and naturally dumps the object. It doesn't matter who a man marries. It is very difficult for him to have assets in his hands.

    Men mature late, and their parents can't control them if they have an economic foundation. Even if you get married, you can earn money to support your family. It's not that there is no such person, and it's good to meet him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What you said is only a few cases, this is because in the marriage of men and women, if the man wants to get married, he must have the support of his parents, if the parents do not allow him to marry, the basic conditions for the boy's marriage will not be met at all, of course, he will not get married, and the woman does not need too many conditions when she gets married.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Generally speaking, this means that girls are more emotional, and boys are more rational, and their parents do not allow them to obtain rationality and control their emotions, so they do not marry, while girls are more emotional, although their parents do not let them marry, they are all married, just because women are more emotional.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, we often say that those whose parents don't let them marry are not married, and those whose parents don't let them marry are married, because the man's words are very obedient to his parents, and the girls think that they are greater in terms of feelings, so they will rebel against their parents.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's because parents can't control their children's marriages at all, and this marriage is not something that parents want to participate in after all, and parents won't live with their children, so parents can't restrain them at all.

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