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Marriage is a very common thing, and most of us will experience the happiness that marriage brings to us in our own lives. But what we need to be clear about is that there is not only happiness in marriage, but also problems that need to be paid attention to and avoided. Because marriage also needs us to manage, and marriage also requires us to pay a lot to be able to continue normally.
And a big reason why marriage faces so many problems is because it is no longer limited to both men and women like love. Instead, it involves the families of the two, which makes the marriage more complicated and thick. There are more issues that need to be paid attention to between the two sides.
It's not just about the feelings of both parties, it's about paying attention to the connections and problems of each other's families.
In such a situation, we can find a very common phenomenon, that is, in marriage, men will always ask their wives to be filial to their in-laws, that is, their parents. In fact, think about it, this is a very normal thing, after all, in marriage, respecting each other's parents is a very common but necessary thing, after all, after marriage, whether it is the other party or the other party's parents, they are our family, and respecting one's own family is naturally very important. However, in such a situation, we also have another question, that is, these people who ask their wives to respect their in-laws will be filial to their father-in-law, that is, their wives' parents
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Filial piety to parents is not only to be filial to their elders, but that both parents of husband and wife should treat each other equally, men should be filial to their fathers-in-law, and daughters-in-law should also be filial to their parents-in-law.
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Filial piety to parents, such as, if two people are already married, of course, it refers to filial piety to parents on both sides, not only women must be filial to their parents-in-law, men must also be filial to their fathers-in-law, so that it is fairer.
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Filial piety to parents generally refers to filial piety to one's biological parents, of course, daughters-in-law are filial to their parents-in-law, and sons-in-law are filial to their father-in-law and mother-in-law.
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Filial piety to parents refers not only to women to be filial to their parents-in-law, but also to men to honor their fathers-in-law, filial piety to parents refers to the parents of both parties, I believe that men will also honor their fathers-in-law, provided that daughters-in-law must be filial to their parents-in-law, which is mutual.
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It is worthwhile to be filial to one's parents, women are not only filial to their parents, but also to their in-laws, and men are not only filial to their parents, but also to their fathers-in-law. That's the real filial piety to parents.
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No, a woman who is filial to her parents is one who is filial to her parents and treats her elders well. The elders are the in-laws, as well as the grandparents, grandparents, etc. Have a filial heart for all elders.
Although the in-laws are not the parents who gave birth to themselves, they are elders and should respect them, treat them well, and treat them well.
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Filial piety to parents means that everyone should be filial to their parents, including filial piety to each other's parents, so women should be filial to their parents, and men should be filial to their parents-in-law and parents-in-law.
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Of course, honoring one's parents is not only about honoring one's own parents, but also about honoring one's own parents, which is really honoring one's parents.
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Filial piety to parents means that women must be filial to their in-laws, and men will be filial to their fathers-in-law. It can be understood in this way, but men should also be filial to their parents, and women should also be filial to their parents.
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Of course, filial piety to parents does not mean that women are filial to their parents-in-law, and men are filial to their fathers-in-law.
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Does filial piety to parents mean that a woman must honor her in-laws, or does a man have to be filial to her father-in-law? Filial piety to parents, since the husband and wife are together, both old people are parents, filial piety to parents, you can't distinguish which side of filial piety, the woman's parents, the man's parents, are the same filial piety, you are filial to other people's parents, people are also filial to your parents, are heart-to-heart! Does filial piety to parents mean that a woman must honor her in-laws, or does a man have to be filial to her father-in-law?
Filial piety to parents, since the husband and wife are together, both old people are parents, filial piety to parents, you can't distinguish which side of filial piety, the woman's parents, the man's parents, are the same filial piety, you are filial to other people's parents, people are also filial to your parents, are heart-to-heart!
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Filial piety to parents does not only refer to the parents-in-law, but both parents must respect, not only the language of the way of concern, the elderly who have no economic income, to follow their own economic income to give them (her) appropriate financial help, so that the old people's life is not good.
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Filial piety refers to the fact that both husbands and wives treat each other's parents as their own, not only materially but also often condolences, as well as meticulous care around them after seeing a doctor and eating.
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Not really. Filial piety to parents means that when parents are old, parents should fulfill their obligation to support the elderly. Parents are able to be there in time when they need it.
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Honoring one's parents is something that both elders should be honored. In today's society, some families have one child each. In the previous feudal society, it was women to men.
Filial piety to in-laws, now in society, men to women's homes to honor their fathers-in-law and mothers-in-law should also be. Be a good example for your children. People are going to get old.
Be kind to the elderly on both sides.
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In China's countries that pay attention to filial piety, as a daughter-in-law, you must be filial to your in-laws, but the premise is that your in-laws must be good to your daughter-in-law. Not necessarily, some sons-in-law are not so respectful of their parents-in-law, and there are two sides to everything.
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Filial piety here includes children being filial to their parents, women should also be filial to their parents-in-law, and men should also be filial to their parents-in-law, but they are not required.
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Filial piety to parents, whether it is mother-in-law, father-in-law, father-in-law, mother-in-law are parents. All should be filial. Especially now that there are more only children, both parents have to take care of them.
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Filial piety to parents means that women must be filial to their in-laws, will men be filial to their fathers-in-law? Filial piety to parents, filial piety to in-laws, this is a moral nausea, but there is no legal provision, men are indeed filial, and the same is true for mother-in-law, and there is no legal provision, this is the category of morality.
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Feelings are mutual, not one-sided moral kidnapping. If your in-laws care about you and take care of you, as a daughter-in-law, filial piety to your in-laws is what you should do. If the relationship is average, you can be polite, there is no major contradiction, and if you don't stop your husband's filial piety, you are decent as a daughter-in-law.
If you have a particularly big conflict with your in-laws, you quarrel when you meet, you are angry, and you can't get along with the space at all, then you have to reflect on yourself, what kind of husband you have found, and why you will coordinate the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law like this.
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Yes, filial piety means not only being filial to your parents, but also to being filial to each other's parents, because the two of you are together, and you raise the elderly on both sides, so that life will become more meaningful.
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It's both sides, both are each other's parents, so filial piety is the same as you and me, or parents-in-law and parents-in-law!
Since we love each other, we must feel sorry for each other, understand and care for each other, including each other's parents.
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Filial piety to my parents is my traditional virtue, but if it is not by kidnapping, people are heart-to-heart, it is mutual, the feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are very delicate, two people have to rely on the heart to operate, in-laws are good to daughter-in-law, I believe that the heart will be compared to the heart, the daughter-in-law will also be filial to the in-laws, at the same time, the father-in-law and mother-in-law are good to the uncle, and the uncle will also be filial to the father-in-law, so everything is different from person to person, and the heart is exchanged for the heart.
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Filial piety to parents means that all children should be filial to their parents. Children naturally include daughters, sons-in-law, sons, and daughters-in-law, and parents naturally include each other's parents.
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Filial piety to one's parents means, of course, that both parties should honor each other's parents. The formation of a new family does not mean that the two of you become separate individuals, but merge into one big family.
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Filial piety means that both parties should be filial to each other's parents, and marriage is not two people becoming a family, but two groups of families becoming one big family, so they all need to be filial to each other's parents.
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Filial piety to parents is the duty of children, referring to their own parents. Kaoshun's in-laws, father-in-law and mother are the parents of both parties after marriage. As a junior, we all have the obligation of filial piety.
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As a junior, you can be respectful and polite to your mother-in-law. If you rise to the level of honoring your in-laws, as a woman, you have to think about a few questions to ask yourself, ask your husband.
The husband treats his wife badly, should the daughter-in-law honor her in-laws?
The wife is not good to her husband, should the son-in-law honor his parents-in-law?
When the daughter-in-law asks the son-in-law to live with her parents-in-law, serve the elderly well, wash their clothes and cook, and tolerate everything and never talk back, how much can you do?
How many men can live with their parents-in-law, do laundry and cook for the elderly, and tolerate everything without talking back?
For example, if a man goes to his parents-in-law's house and does not work, a woman can go to her in-laws' house.
If a man does not agree to live with his parents-in-law, then a woman can also disagree.
Give a bowl of water to the belongings of the in-laws and parents-in-law.
The two families took turns to come during the Chinese New Year.
The above questions, male compatriots have psychological answers.
Of course, some people will say that it is a tradition for daughters-in-law to honor their in-laws.
So can you keep the tradition of giving a bride price for marriage.
Can you abide by the tradition of buying a house with the full amount of money for the married man's family?
After marriage, a woman does not have to work, she teaches her husband and children at home, and can you bear the pressure of a man supporting the family independently?
In the modern world, none of these can be traditional, so it's the same.
Living with her in-laws, the daughter-in-law serving her in-laws, and the daughter-in-law taking care of the housework are also impossible to traditional, in other words.
Instead, it is.
Husband and wife take out a loan to buy a house, support the family together, share housework, respect and courtesy to their spouses and parents, because they are only children, so husbands and wives should do the same filial piety to the four old people, and the responsibility of taking care of the elderly is shared equally by husband and wife, and the daughter can mainly share the responsibility of taking care of her parents-in-law, and the son mainly shares the responsibility of taking care of her in-laws.
In addition, some elderly people will pay more financial and human resources for small families than the other party's elderly.
Then, as a spouse, you must feel the affection of the other party's parents, and give more to the other party's parents accordingly.
Because in addition to the respect and courtesy of the younger generation to the elders, the kindness of the in-laws to the daughter-in-law and the kindness of the parents-in-law to the son-in-law are all favors in the family, and these good things must be repaid.
For example, I think that the daughter-in-law thinks that the in-laws should take the children, and the son-in-law thinks that the parents-in-law should take the children, which are not right, and the old man with the children is helping the young couple, and the spouses should be grateful.
For example, the daughter-in-law takes care of the sick in-laws, the son-in-law takes care of the sick parents-in-law, etc., these old people should also be grateful.
Daughters-in-law, sons-in-law and in-laws, parents-in-law, etc., who do not know how to be grateful, are to be criticized.
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Men should be filial to their parents, and women should also honor their parents and in-laws! Women know filial piety, their parents also have to respect their in-laws, the inheritance of Chinese culture!
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A woman's filial piety to her parents-in-law is based on traditional Chinese family values and cultural practices. In many Asian countries, honoring one's parents-in-law is seen as an obligation in the family and a sign of respect for elders. This act of filial piety is believed to be able to demonstrate a woman's family upbringing and moral outlook.
At the same time, honoring parents-in-law also helps to maintain harmonious family relations and enhance the unity and intimacy between family members.
However, it is important to note that honoring one's parents-in-law is not only a woman's responsibility, but also applies to men. In modern society, with the changing relationships and the growing concept of equality, more and more people advocate equal and respectful family values.
This concept will vary depending on culture, religion and personal background, and some people may focus more on equality and harmony in family relationships than on simple filial piety. Therefore, how to treat your parents-in-law depends on the individual's values and family dynamics. Most importantly, mutual respect, understanding, and communication to build harmonious family relationships.
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Why is it that almost the entire Internet is full of articles and comments that count and blame the mother-in-law for being wrong, while there are very few or even almost no articles and comments that count and blame the daughter-in-law? Is it just because of the age difference that older people don't post articles and comments online? It's just appearances!
The deeper reason is a matter of personal quality and cultivation. A cultivated and high-quality person should at least understand the truth that "family ugliness is not publicized". Of course, there are also a very small number of people who make up stories on the Internet in order to attract people's attention and make a little money.
It's actually quite strange to constantly belittle your mother-in-law, if you give birth to a son, you will be a mother-in-law in the future, and if you give birth to a daughter, your daughter may also be a mother-in-law in the future.
Some women may say, what will I do when I become a mother-in-law? When you become a mother-in-law and a mother-in-law, you will know that if you can really do it as you said, the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law between women will be solved before the millennium.
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