My roommate asked me to move to the dormitory, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-09
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you have another roommate who still likes you very much, you don't bother with him, he may let you move out and let another person in to achieve your own goals, but it doesn't affect the life of the other person, you can just disagree.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There are a total of six people in your dormitory, and only two people want you to move, which means that the other three people are not recommended to move, and they still welcome you, so now there are four people standing in your position, including you, and only two people are not welcome to you. You're in the ascendancy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you want to go to class, you don't need him to grind hard, you will move out, if you don't want to move, no matter how soft and hard she is, she doesn't, and she won't believe in listening to his opinion, and she will do whatever she wants? I don't want to be at the mercy of others, I can't look down on myself, and I can't look down on him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If another roommate wants to change dorms with you, then you can change them, and the relationship with him is not good, and there will be various conflicts, so it is better to move to a new dormitory. At the very least, you can make yourself happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should move to a dormitory.

    Because you won't be happy if you live with these people, it's better to leave them and live your own life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    On the one hand, according to the actual situation, decide whether to move to the dormitory.

    On the other hand, distance produces beauty, and it should be that you have some space with your girlfriends, and the friendship will be more long-lasting.

    Therefore, if you are not feeling well in your own bedroom, you should not move to your girlfriend's bedroom.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since it's all girlfriends who say it directly, it's better if you don't want to move there, it's better to live separately.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you can tell him directly, I'm used to it, the old dormitory moved to a new place, it may be a little uncomfortable, if you really want to go to her dormitory, then you can agree, if you don't want to go, just find the above reasons.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, I think it's best for you not to move there, so that you will have more opportunities to get to know each other, and no matter how good your girlfriends are, there will be conflicts after a long time. Even relatives will have conflicts, let alone girlfriends, so keep the space.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not good not to go, because he's not alone in their dormitory, and that person will be disgusted because you go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This shows that your girlfriend is very good with you and wants you to live with her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell her: I feel good living now, I don't want to change the dormitory, thank you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you feel good, consider it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If a roommate wants to say that many people don't move to the dormitory, in this case, life has already been chosen by themselves, and we can't do too much intervention.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The roommate said that he would move to the dormitory, or he might just be talking, not really moving. If he really wanted to move, he didn't need to be reminded at all.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You just say. Another dorm guy said they were going to have a new roommate soon, and if you didn't go, it might be. No way, I'm moving.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you get along well, you get along, and if you don't get along, you have to learn to look at it with a normal attitude.

    This method is also the best way to have a harmonious relationship with each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, at that time, my best friend didn't like her always using other people's things like this, but it was because she was embarrassed that she never said it, so that person always used her things openly, so I think that in the face of those very selfish people, we should still face to face to talk to them clearly, because it will be more beneficial for us to pick out the words clearly, so at this time we should be brave and not afraid.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, I also hate selfish people.

    I remember one time, we were all on lunch break, he was watching a movie on the computer, we were all sleeping, I only heard him laughing there, you want to wake up the three of us, I was very angry, we said him together, everyone is sleeping, can you be quiet? He continued to look there as if he hadn't heard, and a few of us were so angry that we were so annoyed with him that we wanted to beat him up.

    He came down and shouted at us angrily. I'm sleeping, can you please keep the noise down? At that time, the three of us said to him together, you know that you are sleeping, and you also know that it is uncomfortable to be disturbed by others, so why are you so loud when we sleep, affecting our sleep, at this time, he can't say a word, he knows that he is ignorant.

    Because he did this before, he didn't say anything, and since we talked about him this time, he turned his voice down when he watched the computer and movies in the future. Since then, our dormitory has been very harmonious, and there has never been the same situation as before, which shows that our method is still very effective.

    Because, he doesn't want to be isolated by everyone, if everyone ignores him, he is alone, what do you do, no one is with him, class, no one sits with her, goes out to eat, goes out for social activities, everyone ignores him, will not be with him, so he takes this into account, and he has also restrained a lot, and he is not so selfish, which shows that we, this lesson given to him this time, still has a great impact on him, and it has played an educational role.

    So all of us, now the relationship with him is very good, there is nothing, if there are any shortcomings or problems, we will take the initiative to point out each other's problems, and then change, in fact, this is also very good. Supervise each other and make progress with each other, I believe that this kind of friendship will last forever, and the feelings between classmates will become deeper and deeper.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, seeing that you typed so many words, and then think about your body. I understand your mood very well, 165 is only that much weight. Well, let's talk about your situation, you are used to being spoiled at home, which is understandable, because today's children are like this, now that you are in college, it is time to be independent, looking at your current situation, you must have lived at home when you were in high school, and it is estimated that you belong to a very introverted little girl, a little aggrieved and want to cry your nose, your situation is in the school, you must be moving, you will not be considerate of this reason, because it is all accommodation, Arrange the student in the dormitory even if the school has fulfilled its obligations, otherwise you can apply for a refund of the dormitory fee, to move outside, considering your body and personality or need to live with everyone better, people get along with people, sometimes it is not as difficult as you think, open-minded, cheerful, maybe a new environment can meet a few confidants is not unknown.

    In addition, your personality must be changed to be more cheerful, a person has a kind of fear of everything outside is very bad, I see you write a lot, but you don't mention much about the friendship with roommates, presumably a very general relationship, this is very bad, think about it, if you haven't moved out of the dormitory, will you get along very well? The point is that you're going to be living together for a few years, and when you move into your new dorm, you still won't get along with anyone else, right? So this has to be changed.

    For example, when I usually eat snacks, I give some to my roommates, they help fetch water and food when they are sick, and everyone shares good things together, it is better to be happy alone than to be happy, this is all habit, take your time, just like you suddenly leave home, and you will get used to it after a long time.

    And then there's your body. I really don't dare to compliment, you have to eat more meat, you have to eat, exercise more, you have to! If you don't have a good body, you go home, your parents don't feel distressed to death!

    It's for your parents! If you don't want to trouble your parents now, you must take care of your body, your body. The standard weight is 110 pounds!

    It's very slim, you're severely malnourished, and you're going to have to take a break from school if you continue. Do you understand? Very serious situation!

    Think more about your parents at home, think about your body, it's too bad. I don't dare to say that it is too serious, please take care of your body.

    I won't say much, you must be moving now, want to open a little, people in other dormitories are easy to get along with, believe me, if it's okay, go eat meat and exercise your body, it doesn't cost much, don't eat snacks as meals, well, I, if you don't want to open it, leave me a message, I'll advise you again, I'm generally invisible.

    It's late, get a good night's sleep

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Poor girl!! You're not normal skinny??? I suggest finding your parents and sending some gifts to your dean! It should be fine!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm also in my sophomore year, and the school has organized another major change, so that students who don't understand have a chance to make a choice, I really can't understand the major class, so I agree to change majors, and now I have to forcibly change dormitories, and I don't give people a chance if there are special circumstances, I have a nervous breakdown and severe sleep disorders, and my current roommates understand me very well, and in such a quiet situation, I will lose sleep every day, and if I change dorms, I can't sleep every day, and I'm really sad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Whether you move, you have to learn to adapt.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Sympathy, the school let you find one nearby.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You let it be! Stay one more person! Or it is unkind to you, you are unrighteous to it, this is the principle of heaven! It's just to help yourself and make a fuss about it! Don't let people bully, good people can't survive in this society...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Talk to them. The law can't control this kind of thing. The most important thing is to talk to the landlord first. Pay the rent, and no one will let you go. Of course, don't be stiff, if the roommate relationship is not good, even if you live, it will be sad.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'm lz

    We didn't sign a contract at the time.

    Only a certificate was written.

    Proof of how much the deposit is, and if I don't stay, I need to say 1 month in advance, or the deposit will not be refunded.

    They told me on the night of the 11th that I was going to move out on the 14th and 15th.

    Are they in breach of contract? Is the penalty the same as my deposit?

    Should they pay for the move? My rent is due until the end of this month. Should you give me a refund for the second half of my rent?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Why let you go! It's not his house! Support the ground floor!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are destined not to live alone, of course, let someone else move you here, you can move one less time, it is very troublesome to move the dormitory, if you have to move, I suggest you go to a 2-person room, if you go to a 4-person room, if the other few are also recombined, then you can slowly integrate into it, if they knew each other before, it will take some time for you to integrate in, and it is possible to be isolated, if it is a 2-person room, if he isolates you, he will only be alone, You don't suffer either

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