I ve been married for three years, and I have nothing to say to my husband, should I get a divorce?

Updated on society 2024-07-27
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Should be divorced. Because the two of you don't have a common topic and don't have much communication, such a marriage is boring and there is no need to stick to it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You should choose divorce, if the two of you talk about it, such a marriage is very boring and very tiring.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You shouldn't get divorced, you can't give up your marriage because of this little thing, it's too irrational to do so, you should carefully analyze the reasons and then find a solution.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think divorce should be done because it's not good for the development of the relationship at all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You shouldn't get divorced. Because husband and wife have lived together for a long time, they will talk very little, which is normal, so they should not divorce.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, I don't think it should be divorced, ten pounds of marriage is not a short time, it can only prove two people. I know each other very well, and I don't need to say too much about it. It can only be said that it is the best, or should we slowly accept this state.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ten years of marriage is a very long marital relationship, and now you have nothing to say with your husband because you have entered a dull period, as long as two people still have feelings, they should not divorce, usually take the initiative to chat with each other, talk about their thoughts, and enhance each other's feelings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ten years of marriage is a long time, and I have nothing to say to my husband, which means that the relationship has come to an end, and it is right to choose divorce.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Should be divorced. Because there has been a gap between the feelings of the two people, and the marriage of the two people is also in name only, there is no need to continue to live together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After getting married. is to live a down-to-earth and patient life, ten years of marriage, and the relationship is getting more and more dull. Usually there are not so many topics to chat about, but two people can still live together, handle family responsibilities, take care of children, and support the elderly, so there is no need to divorce.

    If you have feelings, you can stick to it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you have been married for ten years, and now you and your husband have reached the point where they have nothing to say, and the two of them are like strangers, for such a marriage, there is no need to continue, after all, the two have no feelings.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It should be divorced, because such feelings are easy to contradict, and two people have no common language, and such feelings are easy to break.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After ten years of marriage and my husband, I have nothing to say, I think it's time to divorce, if two people have no feelings, then there is no need to be together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If this status quo can no longer be changed by both parties, and then it is true that there is no one in common, and you still want to go, then you basically have no feelings, what do you think? If you can still live your life, you can continue to live it, and if you can't live it, you can also divorce if you want to.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello, no, it is not a condition of divorce. The condition for divorce is that the relationship is broken, or the other party has domestic violence, gambling, drug abuse and other vices, and repeatedly refuses to change. You don't get back together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    With the triviality of firewood, rice, oil, salt, ginger vinegar and tea, love will eventually tend to be dull, and ordinary days are the normal state of people's lives. So having nothing to say to my husband doesn't mean that life can't go on. Everyone's body odor in marriage is different, you just follow your feelings.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If two people have reached the point where they have nothing to say, then you really have to break up. After ten years of marriage, your relationship has broken down, so there is nothing to say.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Even if that's the case, you can't get a divorce! In fact, in your situation, many couples exist, I believe how old are your children now, right? Even for the sake of your children, you shouldn't have this thought.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After ten years of marriage, what is the reason why you have nothing to say? If you want to continue, first of all, you need to solve this problem first, and everyone sits down and communicates slowly. But if there is no emotion, ten years is enough, can you choose a divorce?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After getting married, do you feel that you have no common language with your husband, so you can only choose to divorce? Of course not. When two people living together have nothing to say, you will find that not only you are suffering, but the other person is also more unbearable.

    Then at this time, you have to learn to adjust the mentality of two people, see if there are already a lot of problems between you, and learn to solve good problems, so as to be able to solve the problem fundamentally.

    The fact that both spouses are unable to communicate means that they both express their opinions and believe that they are reasonable. To break this situation, one side needs to put aside its own perspective and identify with the other, and then a new situation can be realized. If you have children in your marriage, then the divorce will definitely hurt the children, and then the children will become the victims of the marriage.

    Children need to be protected in marriage. The father is the heavens, and the mother is the earth. Therefore, divorce because of poor communication means that the child loses his life and land, so the child lacks security.

    Most children of juvenile delinquency are divorced families. Even if you don't have children, if one marriage doesn't communicate well, then move on to another marriage, unless you find such a particularly tolerant, egoless person who is compatible with you. If you still find someone with ego, it will still lead to such an outcome.

    Depending on your boyfriend's tastes and preferences, when he is tired and doesn't want to go out to eat, buy him a favorite meal, chat while eating, or eat together and listen to **, which are all good choices.

    You can travel together, eat hot pot together, experience couples yoga together, exercise together, watch the sunrise together, visit distant friends together, and have candlelight dinners together. When we continue to inject these common and beautiful experiences into our lives, we are putting money into our emotional accounts. In this way, we can also increase our emotional communication, feel each other in different situations, see each other as a whole, and learn to live with each other as a whole and real person.

    Give two people more opportunities to play instead of staying at home or playing with friends. To give two people time together, you don't have to be so busy with work that you ignore each other. On weekends, we can go for a walk in the wilderness together, or go on a spring outing, or eat out together, and then go for a walk, go shopping.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Talk calmly between husband and wife, ask each other what they think and what the other person wants. Sometimes the emotional coldness is just because of a lack of communication, and sometimes it is said that women and men think about problems in completely different ways. The most important thing for couples must be communication!

    Adult marriage not only includes the two of you, but also involves parents and children, as well as firewood, rice, oil and salt. Divorce isn't just a matter for the two of you, it's too complicated. I advise you to think twice!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, since the two people no longer have a common language, there are already problems in communication, so such a relationship can no longer be maintained.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, at this time, you must take the initiative to change this situation, so that you can maintain your marriage, and you must not divorce easily.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no need, after this situation occurs, you must decisively divorce the other party, you must draft a divorce agreement, and you must divide the joint property of the two people equally.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think there's any need to keep it at all, he said he doesn't love you anymore, he must think that it is very inappropriate for the two of you to be together, and he doesn't want to endure it anymore.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If there is no love in the relationship, it will be difficult to maintain, if your husband says this to you, I suggest that you still bravely divorce to pursue your own life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In married life, in fact, it is very important for husband and wife to have a common topic, if the husband and wife feel that they have something to say to each other, in fact, the marriage has turned on the red light, so what should you do if you feel that you have nothing to say to your husband?

    What should I do if I have nothing to say to my husband.

    1.One party must take the initiative: One of the spouses must be the one who needs to take the initiative, and if both parties want the other to take the initiative, then it is basically stuck in an endless loop.

    The active side must figure out what is causing the two sides to have nothing to say, whether it is caused by a momentary mood, or whether it really tends to be flattened.

    2.Look for opportunities to talk: It's important to find moments when people who can talk to them, that is, when they can find someone who also wants to talk.

    If the timing is not right, it may make the other party disgusted, and the resistance will be aggravated. Therefore, for couples who are late to grasp, they must be familiar with each other's temperament in order to find the right time.

    Don't you have anything to say about divorce with your husband?

    It depends on whether the two want to change this state, if they both want to change, then they should work together to find a topic and develop in a better direction.

    And if there is no relationship anymore, then you can consider divorce.

    The reason why I became speechless with my husband.

    First, the husband and wife are not in sync, one wants to go to the left, the other wants to go to the right, like one is busy and wants to go home half to death, and the other can't go to the movies with him.

    Second, the tone of speech, many couples communicate with questions and complaints. For example, the husband is working overtime, and the wife says why are you working overtime again today. Originally, my husband was very tired from working overtime, how could I be happy when I heard this.

    Third, they can't appreciate each other, they always complain about each other, and they see each other's shortcomings.

    Fourth, love to turn over old accounts, and a thing may still be able to be taken out to count the other party in the past few years.

    How to strengthen communication with your husband.

    1. Give more opportunities for two people to go out and play, don't always stay at home or go out with their friends. Give two people time to themselves, and don't be so busy with work that you ignore each other. On weekends, you can go for a walk in the countryside together, or go for a walk, or you can go out for a meal and then take a walk to go shopping.

    2On weekends or evenings, watch the same movie together, and then discuss it together and express your feelings. Of course, you can also play the same game and then talk about your experience; Or maybe Sakura shouted that she was reading the same book and then saying how she felt after reading it; Or maybe it's cooking together on the weekends and something you can do together that is good for communication.

    3 Be sure to hug or kiss once a day. In short, there should be a deliberative contact. Because then two people will become dependent on each other without knowing it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In married life, it is very important for couples to have common topics. If both husband and wife feel that they have something to say to each other, in fact, the marriage has turned on a red light. So what should I do if I feel that I have nothing to say to my husband?

    What should I do if I have nothing to say to my husband.

    1.One spouse must take the initiative: One spouse must take the initiative. If both sides want the other to take the initiative, it's basically stuck in an endless loop. The active side must find out what causes both sides to have nothing to say, whether it is a special emotion for a while, or whether it really becomes boring.

    2.Find opportunities to talk: People who can chat generally look for opportunities, that is, when they can find the other person and just want to talk.

    This is very important. If the timing is not right, it may make the other person disgusted and aggravate the resistance. Therefore, for couples, it is necessary to be familiar with each other's temperament in order to find the right time.

    Don't you have anything to say about divorce with your husband?

    Let's see if they want to change that state. If both people want to change, they should find a topic together and develop in a good direction.

    If there is no affection, divorce can be considered.

    The reason why I became speechless with my husband.

    First, the husband and wife are not compatible. One wants to go left, the other wants to go right. For example, one is so busy that he goes home to get a good night's sleep, and the other blames him for not being able to watch a movie with him.

    The second is the tone, many couples communicate with questions and complaints. For example, my husband is working overtime, and my wife says why are you working overtime again today? Originally, my husband was tired of working overtime. How could he be happy to hear this?

    Third, they can't appreciate each other, they always complain about each other, and they see each other's shortcomings.

    Fourth, I love to dig over old accounts. One thing may have been scolded by the other party a few years ago.

    How to strengthen communication with your husband.

    1. Give two people more opportunities to go out and play. Don't always stay at home or hang out with the other person's friends. Give two people time alone and don't get busy with work and leave each other out in the cold. On weekends we can go for a walk or an outing in the countryside, or we can go out for a meal and then go shopping.

    On weekends, or renting evenings, watch the same movie together, and then discuss it together and express their opinions. Of course, you can also play the same game and then talk about your experience; Or read the same book and talk about your thoughts after reading it; Or cook together on weekends, etc., you can do it together to facilitate communication.

    3 Be sure to hug or kiss once a day. There is always a review contact. Because then two people will unconsciously close their skins and depend on each other.

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