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Thirty-seven. Five.
Seven, seven, seven, is generally more important, to pay tribute to the deceased, burn paper money.
Burn the things used by the deceased, etc.
According to superstition, people will be completely cut off from the world after 7749 days after death, either they will be reincarnated, or they will become lonely souls and wild ghosts, and there is no possibility of returning yang, that is to say, "died completely". After completing this ceremony, you can say goodbye to the deceased completely, and you can burn the flowers, black yarn, etc., and get rid of the sad emotions and return to normal life.
Actually, do seven. To put it bluntly, it is to express the mourning and nostalgia for the deceased, but there should also be a limit to mourning and remembrance, so take seven days as a stage, a total of seven stages, after these 49 days, it reminds you that it is time to recover from sadness, don't keep immersing yourself in it, life still has to go on.
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"Burning seven" means that every seven days is a sacrifice day from the day of the death of the deceased, called "the first seven", "two seven", "three seven", "four seven", "five seven", "six seven", and "last seven", a total of 49 days. Folklore has that people have three souls and seven souls, one soul one year after death, one soul in seven days, three years of soul, seven full souls, so it is necessary to pass the "seven periods" and three anniversaries. There is another folk saying, it is said that after the death of the deceased, within 49 days, the king of Hades will interrogate the soul of the deceased once every seven days, so the "seven phases" are also called "seven plagues".
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1. The elderly in charge.
In the days of May Seven, the old man who is respected in the village should be invited to preside over the funeral, and the old man who is often in charge of the May Seven will know the process of burning paper, so it is necessary to go to the village in advance to invite the old man to preside over the funeral.
2. Relatives and friends.
Relatives and friends of the deceased will come to attend the May Seven Festival of the deceased, so the close relatives of the deceased should get up early on this day to prepare the banquet, and then the relatives and friends of the deceased will bring gifts to attend the ceremony.
3. Burn notoginseng.
Burning Wuqi is one of the funeral rituals, which refers to the 35th day after the death of the deceased, the family of the deceased will go to the grave of the deceased to burn paper to express mourning, and also prepare the family so that the deceased can rest in peace.
After death, people pay attention to:
After the death of a person, relatives set up a fasting meeting to make a sacrifice (or posthumous recommendation) every seven days, seven times before and after, for a total of 7,749 days.
There are still various particularities in folk beliefs, such as the first "seven" called the first seven, for example, the son sets up the Mu's code for the deceased father (mother) to burn paper money, and invites the monk to recite the scriptures; Twenty-seven asks for the Tao to annihilate which scholar is still born in the scriptures; Three.
Seven, four-seven is commonly known as "scattered seven", can be done by nephews and nephews.
Five or seven times more valued, and there is also a "return" ceremony; Six or seven daughters prepare wine and meals, and if there are no daughters, nieces and nieces; Qiqi is called "broken seven", and the mourning family offers wine and food to pay tribute, and recites scriptures to remove spirits, etc.
In fact, doing the seven customs is not the content of the traditional funeral customs advocated by Confucianism. Issues such as the ** of the seven customs and the connotation of their beliefs have been discussed so far, and there is no conclusive conclusion.
However, there are different customs in different places, so it is best to combine them with local customs.
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This is derived from the law discovered by Buddhism, and gradually formed a folk custom, the principle is that after a person dies, he wants to disturb the reincarnation of Li An, and the stool is eliminated in order to help the last handful, and the folk custom of "doing seven" is formed.
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